OT: Mom, School’s Making Me Sick!

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Mom, School’s Making Me Sick!

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With summer ending and school underway, parents are transitioning from

hearing their children moan about not being able to swim everyday, to their

child complaining about homework, their new teachers or being in a different

class than their friends. Many parents also begin to hear more complaints of

tummy aches and headaches as a result of returning back to school.

The psychological term for school-induced illnesses a child may develop when

he or she is trying to dodge school is School Avoidance, or School Refusal.

Symptoms include nausea, fatigue, headaches and abdominal pain. According to

Lori Crosby, Psy.D., Associate Professor, Pediatrics, Cincinnati Children’s

Hospital Medical Center, even if children start to complain about stomach

aches and other ailments, parents should still send their child to school

unless they have symptoms of fever or a contagious illness. “It would

probably be helpful to schedule a visit with the child’s pediatrician to

rule out a ‘true’ medical problem, which may give the parent the confidence

to send their child when in doubt,†said Dr. Crosby.

Approximately 1-5 percent of children in the United States suffer from

School Avoidance. An article in the American Family Physician states that

School Avoidance/Refusal should be considered when a student will not go to

school and experiences emotional distress of physical symptoms.

Dr. Crosby says there are several reasons why a child may begin to display

characteristics of School Avoidance, among them are social problems such as

being bullied or isolated, having problems with learning, taking tests,

giving presentations, or the child being worried about family issues such as

divorce, moves, deaths, and/or a parent’s job changes/losses. Many young

children experience School Avoidance when they learn that they will be

spending a lot of time away from their families and their familiar settings.

Dr. Crosby suggests that while School Avoidance is not out of the ordinary,

parents can seek professional counsel if they want to help their child

overcome their fears associated with attending school. “Brief counseling

with a psychologist or social worker may be helpful. In addition, parents

should talk with school personnel. Psychologists are very familiar with such

issues and can be very helpful with implementing a plan for the child,†she

said.

Dr. Crosby says that children who have School Avoidance issues usually go

back and forth between liking school and not liking it. “Often children with

these histories wax and wane in that they have good phases and more avoidant

phases,†she said. “Children usually start the year off with a great outlook

about attending school, and after a brief honeymoon of high hopes and good

attendance that lasts for a few days to a few months, they slide back into

some School Avoidance behaviors characterized by illness complaints,†said

Crosby.

Children may not outgrow their School Avoidance issues. However, Dr. Crosby

says that there are some actions that parents can take to help solve the

problem.

“The best approach is for parents to remain consistent with getting their

child to school, setting limits, and establishing a regular routine,†she

said.

“The routine should be very predictable and consistent in the morning.

Children benefit from having everything ready and set out before they go to

sleep which reduces the morning rush,†Dr. Crosby says that this helps to

reduce anxiety. She adds that parents also need to be aware of their own

anxiety related to sending their child to school, because children pick up

on subtle messages and may use them to their advantage.