Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Kathleen: Go straight to the best children's hospital you can get to in your area. Get a Rheumatoligist to look at her ASAP. And, let them treat her as aggressively as you can get them to do it relative to her age and condition. (ie.. steriod injections at the swelling joints and MTX injections to get her inflammation under control). Your pediatricain doesn't know the disease intimately enough. (son, Carrick, age 13, poly onset age 10) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Kathy- I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl to a Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you for stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative results. I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are negative for arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease are right there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are not up to par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist through your pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you will not take " no " for an answer. Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the rheumatologist, so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then observed the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and confirmed arthritis in my daughter: 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) clustered together in her knees. 3. bony inward growth of both knees. Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above x-rays, my reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her symptoms were at their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, his examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all inflamed. It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and by all means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is interfering with your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and normal! We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. Keep us posted; we are here for you! Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Kathy, Hang in there, I agree you need to find a really good rheumy. I am in the same situatin right now..still waiting on results for my 9 year old daguther, Hannah. One thing I have learned is these tests seem to take forever to come back. Hang in there and push for them to help make your daughter pain free. No child should have to suffer being in pain. Beth..Happy thoughts..Be well Kathleen Bender <kathleenbender@...> wrote: My name is Kathy, and my daughter is 18 months old and, although all of the bloodwork is not in yet, everything so far is pointing to poly JRA. It started about a month ago. She started walking at 10 months of age and up until last month, she was very agile and had an astounding (we thought exceptional) sense of balance and body awareness. Well, all of that started to change a month ago. We noticed she had started to walk on the outsides and heels of her feet, avoiding putting the front and toes down. Her balance was not good, and she seemed like she was in pain. Her feet/ankles appeared to be a bit swollen, but with chubby baby feet it was hard to tell and there was no bruising or other indication of injury. Her ped ordered xrays of her hips, legs and ankles to rule out synovosis (sp?). Everything came back normal. They suggested we wait a couple of weeks and watch her closely, in case we just caught something at its beginning stages. She never developed a fever or other signs of infection, but her walking wasn't getting better. If anything, it got worse. Mornings for the first couple of hours seemed to be her absolute worst times. She didn't even want to walk for the first couple to few hours of the a.m. She also started awakening at about 3-4 am, shreiking, and had a hard time settling back to sleep. I pressed the ped's office and they ordered more xrays, this time of her feet, along with blood work. Again, nothing significant showed up, other than a very slightly elevated platelet count and a high normal white cell count. We insisted on an appt with the ped so he could see her left ankle in particular, which has very little range of motion. After seeing her, he ordered more bloodwork, specialists to see her, etc. in the hospital, so we wouldn't have to cart her all over town. She was admitted to the hospital on Monday and as you are undoubtedly familiar with, was subjected to more tests than I could detail here. She also saw a ped ortho, who after seeing the recent blood work, (elevated protein and sedimentation rate is what he mentioned) and observing her, feels pretty strongly that it's poly JRA. At least 3 of her fingers are involved as well as some toes and both ankles. I'm relieved that we seem to be at or close to a diagnosis, but am also fearful of what my little girl will have to endure. I know there are others who are dealing with much worse, and my heart goes out to them. Right now, I'm just really trying to come to grips with all of this, understand what it means to my daughter and our family, and learn what I can so that I can make intelligent decisions about her care. She's on motrin around the clock right now and it does seem to help her, as she slept through the night last night and on Monday in the hospital. She's such a little trooper and a very happy little girl. I hate to see her in pain. I also have a son age 4 who is a very " spirited " child and a handful. I have concerns about him as well and how his behavior may be affected. That's a whole other story for another day, though... Another thing I must add is that I've already seen how I will need to be very assertive in dealing with those who care for my daughter. During this whole thing, it was amazing how quickly the doctor's office staff (not even nurses in many cases) were taking it upon themselves to basically diagnose my daughter's condition over the telephone. It's like they form this barricade around the doctor, and you have to break through it by persistence and sometimes force....very exhuasting and frustrating. Each time I would call for the results of a test or xray, the staff member would say something like " ok, well everything is normal, so that's good....alrighty then, ba-bye! " I had to actually stop them and ask, " woah....wait a minute...my daughter cannot walk...what am I supposed to do? Something is obviously wrong. " Their suggestions ranged from " buy her good shoes " to " she's probably just experimenting with walking that way, toddlers do that you know " . Now, the ped is not like this at all, and I would venture to guess that he would be shocked if I were to tell him this was occurring. (If he wasn't, I would then be concerned) It is totally incomprehensible to me how someone who is not qualified to make such determinations can just casually take it upon themselves to basically make a diagnosis like this. Unbelievable Anyway, I'm glad to have found the group. I will take anyone's advice/suggestions, etc. at this point as I'm feeling more than a little overwhelmed. Kathy _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Robbin40@... Sent: Wednesday, May 03, 2006 11:02 AM Subject: Re: ATLANTA!!!! n, You got the get up and go South need now? lololol. I am here already :-). What kind of Plans you have include and I. As you know the Olympic Park is across the street. On the Corner theres a BIG Sign saying CNN Center on the other corner is the Philips Arena with a Big TV Screen on the outside. The Omni is on the same side of the street as the CNN Center. Inside the CNN Center are Resturants or you can walk outside and find them close. Just let me know Robbin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 I can't believe that you all are still waiting for results. I feel so sorry for you all. My daughter's doctors (all of them) call me at least the very next day with results of any type of test and even her rheumy sometimes calls me the same day. I hope you all get test results back very soon...unfortunately blood tests won't diagnose JRA....just give an indication. Let us all know when both of you get results back. Also my daughter was diagnosed at 15 months with Pauci JRA then eventually with Poly JRA. If anyone has any questions you are more than welcome to e-mail me personally if you'd like! Ashlee (Madison, 3 1/2, Poly and Iritis) Re: ATLANTA!!!! n, You got the get up and go South need now? lololol. I am here already :-). What kind of Plans you have include and I. As you know the Olympic Park is across the street. On the Corner theres a BIG Sign saying CNN Center on the other corner is the Philips Arena with a Big TV Screen on the outside. The Omni is on the same side of the street as the CNN Center. Inside the CNN Center are Resturants or you can walk outside and find them close. Just let me know Robbin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 First of all, I want to thank everyone who has responded so far, welcomed me, and offered their advice and support. As I'm sure you are all aware, most people who I have discussed this with did not even know that JRA existed until now. So it is good to have others to discuss things with who have first-hand knowledge of this. We have a follow up appointment with her ped today and he is supposed to refer us to a pediatric rheumatologist. The ortho already gave me a few names while we were in the hospital. We are in FL, and at first I thought we were at a disadvantage having " only " 6 ped rheumatologists in the state. Now I know that 6 is actually a lot to choose from, compared to what others have available to them. I have started to write down my questions for the pediatrician. Here's what I have so far...I have a couple hours before I leave for the appointment, so if you have any other recommendations, please feel free to post them. 1) I want to know what blood tests they did, what they were looking for or trying to rule out, and what the results were 2) Rheumatoid factor positive or negative? 3) What did xrays show? Inflammation? Where? 4) Any pending results that have not been returned from the labs yet? 5) Originally, ped had a bone scan on the hospital orders. What was the reason this wasn't done? Thanks again! _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of bebase7@... Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:24 PM Subject: Re: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy- I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl to a Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you for stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative results. I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are negative for arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease are right there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are not up to par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist through your pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you will not take " no " for an answer. Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the rheumatologist, so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then observed the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and confirmed arthritis in my daughter: 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) clustered together in her knees. 3. bony inward growth of both knees. Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above x-rays, my reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her symptoms were at their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, his examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all inflamed. It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and by all means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is interfering with your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and normal! We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. Keep us posted; we are here for you! Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Kathy, Ask for copies of all labs. We get copies of all labs and x rays for n. You may want to change doctors, and then you will have all of this info. Also, start keeping a diary on your child. Symptoms, good days, medication, anything you want to write down. I have found it to be invaluable throughout the years. Remember, you are your child's strongest advocate. Good luck. (n, systemic, 17) On May 4, 2006, at 11:43 AM, Kathleen Bender wrote: > First of all, I want to thank everyone who has responded so far, > welcomed me, and offered their advice and support. As I'm sure you > are > all aware, most people who I have discussed this with did not even > know > that JRA existed until now. So it is good to have others to discuss > things with who have first-hand knowledge of this. > > > > We have a follow up appointment with her ped today and he is > supposed to > refer us to a pediatric rheumatologist. The ortho already gave me > a few > names while we were in the hospital. We are in FL, and at first I > thought we were at a disadvantage having " only " 6 ped > rheumatologists in > the state. Now I know that 6 is actually a lot to choose from, > compared > to what others have available to them. I have started to write > down my > questions for the pediatrician. > > Here's what I have so far...I have a couple hours before I leave > for the > appointment, so if you have any other recommendations, please feel > free > to post them. > > 1) I want to know what blood tests they did, what they were > looking for or trying to rule out, and what the results were > > 2) Rheumatoid factor positive or negative? > > 3) What did xrays show? Inflammation? Where? > > 4) Any pending results that have not been returned from the labs > yet? > > 5) Originally, ped had a bone scan on the hospital orders. What > was the reason this wasn't done? > > > > Thanks again! > > _____ > > From: [mailto: ] On > Behalf Of bebase7@... > Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:24 PM > > Subject: Re: Introduction - and a little about me > > > > Kathy- > I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby > girl > to a > Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for > you > for > stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative > results. > I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, > including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are > negative for > arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease > are right > there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood > tests are > not up to > par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting > symptoms). I > > would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist > through your > pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you > will not > take " no " for an answer. > > Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other > orthopedic > > issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the > rheumatologist, > so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then > observed > the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and > confirmed > arthritis in my daughter: > 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed > 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) > clustered > together in her knees. > 3. bony inward growth of both knees. > > Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme > Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above > x-rays, my > reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her > symptoms were at > their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, > his > examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all > inflamed. > > It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and > by all > means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS > OVERWHELMING! > > This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is > interfering with > your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, > sad, > > scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and > normal! > > We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. > > Keep us posted; we are here for you! > > Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Kathy - those are good questions and welcome to the list. Just a thought - the rheumatoid factor is not an indicator really. My son is RH negative, ANA positive, HLAB-27 negative yet is diagnosed with a form of JRA - Spondylitis. The last test, if positive, can indicate having more complications with spondy. A child that is ANA pos may have a greater chance of developing uveitis. That is another important dr to see - an ophthalmologist. Your daughter should have a slit lamp test to check her eyes for inflammation. It is great that you are seeing a ped rheumy. They are usually up to date with things (note I said usually LOL) and are more likely to be aggressive when treating the disease, not waiting too long to start a DMARD (disease modifying anti rheumatic drug) like methotrexate, sulfasalazine, enbrel or any of the others. If the first " cocktail " of meds doesn't work, various combinations are usually tried. Keep us posted on what happens, and ask any questions you may have. This is a great group of people, very supportive and quite helpful, Michele ( 18, spondy) Re: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy- I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl to a Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you for stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative results. I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are negative for arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease are right there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are not up to par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist through your pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you will not take " no " for an answer. Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the rheumatologist, so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then observed the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and confirmed arthritis in my daughter: 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) clustered together in her knees. 3. bony inward growth of both knees. Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above x-rays, my reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her symptoms were at their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, his examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all inflamed. It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and by all means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is interfering with your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and normal! We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. Keep us posted; we are here for you! Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Thanks. I forgot to mention that has a pediatric ophthalmologist appointment this Friday. (Daddy will be taking her to that one). Has anyone had to deal with spouses/family members/others who are VERY hesitant about medications? My hubby is (overly) paranoid about any kind of medicine. He mentioned the other night that perhaps we should not give her less than the recommended dose of Motrin (I'm following dr's orders right now....hubby can fight this one out with the doctors, but not me) in case a lower dose works for her. He doesn't even take full doses of OTC sinus medicine for himself....drives me crazy because I know that many drugs, especially when you are dealing with pain, it's important to keep the levels in the system so that the pain response doesn't kick in. I don't know enough about this yet, but I'm just curious if any of you has had to deal with similar issues and how you did so with your spouse or other family member. I see either long discussions with the docs (who he really doesn't trust...might not do any good) or counselors in our future. Kathy _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Tepper, Michele Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:59 PM Subject: RE: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy - those are good questions and welcome to the list. Just a thought - the rheumatoid factor is not an indicator really. My son is RH negative, ANA positive, HLAB-27 negative yet is diagnosed with a form of JRA - Spondylitis. The last test, if positive, can indicate having more complications with spondy. A child that is ANA pos may have a greater chance of developing uveitis. That is another important dr to see - an ophthalmologist. Your daughter should have a slit lamp test to check her eyes for inflammation. It is great that you are seeing a ped rheumy. They are usually up to date with things (note I said usually LOL) and are more likely to be aggressive when treating the disease, not waiting too long to start a DMARD (disease modifying anti rheumatic drug) like methotrexate, sulfasalazine, enbrel or any of the others. If the first " cocktail " of meds doesn't work, various combinations are usually tried. Keep us posted on what happens, and ask any questions you may have. This is a great group of people, very supportive and quite helpful, Michele ( 18, spondy) Re: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy- I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl to a Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you for stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative results. I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are negative for arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease are right there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are not up to par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist through your pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you will not take " no " for an answer. Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the rheumatologist, so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then observed the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and confirmed arthritis in my daughter: 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) clustered together in her knees. 3. bony inward growth of both knees. Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above x-rays, my reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her symptoms were at their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, his examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all inflamed. It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and by all means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is interfering with your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and normal! We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. Keep us posted; we are here for you! Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 HI Kathy- Dealing with family members and their thoughts about medications can be tough. And I hate to say that it could very well get worse - if your daughter has JRA and needs to continue on with DMARDS and / or biologics. With medication, I've always explained that we are fighting the devil we know - the one we are sure about - the arthritis. We know what will happen if she doesn't get the proper medication - we have seen the pain and the loss of mobility. We have seen other kids and photos of what can happen long term. We know of the potential life-threatening complications. These are all things we know. While we do have concerns about potential complications and side effects of these medications - we don't know for sure that there will be a negative consequence. So, you weigh those against each other.... and you put your energy into fighting the devil you know first... realizing you may have to deal with the rest later. I'm so glad you found us. Good luck today and let us know how it went. Best hopes- Colleen (mom to Caitlin, 8, systemic) P.S. There's a good resource available with lots of info on the various diseases under the pediatric arthritis umbrella, info on labs, therapy, dealing with school etc. It's called " It's Not Growing Pains " by Tom Lehman and you can get it from Amazon. All of your comments about the lack of understanding at the peds office made me think of it.... I can tell you are already going armed with information - and it's going to be the best way to help you daughter and your family. Kathleen Bender <kathleenbender@...> wrote: Thanks. I forgot to mention that has a pediatric ophthalmologist appointment this Friday. (Daddy will be taking her to that one). Has anyone had to deal with spouses/family members/others who are VERY hesitant about medications? My hubby is (overly) paranoid about any kind of medicine. He mentioned the other night that perhaps we should not give her less than the recommended dose of Motrin (I'm following dr's orders right now....hubby can fight this one out with the doctors, but not me) in case a lower dose works for her. He doesn't even take full doses of OTC sinus medicine for himself....drives me crazy because I know that many drugs, especially when you are dealing with pain, it's important to keep the levels in the system so that the pain response doesn't kick in. I don't know enough about this yet, but I'm just curious if any of you has had to deal with similar issues and how you did so with your spouse or other family member. I see either long discussions with the docs (who he really doesn't trust...might not do any good) or counselors in our future. Kathy _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Tepper, Michele Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:59 PM Subject: RE: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy - those are good questions and welcome to the list. Just a thought - the rheumatoid factor is not an indicator really. My son is RH negative, ANA positive, HLAB-27 negative yet is diagnosed with a form of JRA - Spondylitis. The last test, if positive, can indicate having more complications with spondy. A child that is ANA pos may have a greater chance of developing uveitis. That is another important dr to see - an ophthalmologist. Your daughter should have a slit lamp test to check her eyes for inflammation. It is great that you are seeing a ped rheumy. They are usually up to date with things (note I said usually LOL) and are more likely to be aggressive when treating the disease, not waiting too long to start a DMARD (disease modifying anti rheumatic drug) like methotrexate, sulfasalazine, enbrel or any of the others. If the first " cocktail " of meds doesn't work, various combinations are usually tried. Keep us posted on what happens, and ask any questions you may have. This is a great group of people, very supportive and quite helpful, Michele ( 18, spondy) Re: Introduction - and a little about me Kathy- I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl to a Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you for stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative results. I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are negative for arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease are right there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are not up to par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist through your pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you will not take " no " for an answer. Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the rheumatologist, so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then observed the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and confirmed arthritis in my daughter: 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) clustered together in her knees. 3. bony inward growth of both knees. Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above x-rays, my reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her symptoms were at their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, his examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all inflamed. It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and by all means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is interfering with your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and normal! We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. Keep us posted; we are here for you! Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 I am the one in my family who hates medicating. lol I research the meds my kids take online, at the drug company websites and medical journals. I try to learn all the pros and cons and what side effects to look out for. This list helps some with that by providing links that don't always turn up in search engines. What helps is knowing the difference the meds make. Take video of her now on a bad day and refer to it after a few months of meds. When my son was first hit by this 2 years ago, he was absolutely bedridden. He could not walk and it hurt him to even bend his knees enough to be carried. His pediatrician even tested him for Spinal Meningitis, then hospitalised him with pneumonia. After his lungs cleared, he still had the joint pain and high spiking fevers, so was kept in the hospital. He was in three different hospitals for a total of 22 days before receiving a diagnosis of soJRA. When I despair at the daily regime of pills, I think back on that time and it helps. Misty & (7, systemic) > > Thanks. I forgot to mention that has a pediatric > ophthalmologist appointment this Friday. (Daddy will be taking her to > that one). > > Has anyone had to deal with spouses/family members/others who are VERY > hesitant about medications? My hubby is (overly) paranoid about any > kind of medicine. He mentioned the other night that perhaps we should > not give her less than the recommended dose of Motrin (I'm following > dr's orders right now....hubby can fight this one out with the doctors, > but not me) in case a lower dose works for her. He doesn't even take > full doses of OTC sinus medicine for himself....drives me crazy because > I know that many drugs, especially when you are dealing with pain, it's > important to keep the levels in the system so that the pain response > doesn't kick in. I don't know enough about this yet, but I'm just > curious if any of you has had to deal with similar issues and how you > did so with your spouse or other family member. I see either long > discussions with the docs (who he really doesn't trust...might not do > any good) or counselors in our future. > > Kathy > > > > > > _____ > > From: [mailto: ] On > Behalf Of Tepper, Michele > Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:59 PM > > Subject: RE: Introduction - and a little about me > > > > Kathy - those are good questions and welcome to the list. Just a thought > - the rheumatoid factor is not an indicator really. My son is RH > negative, ANA positive, HLAB-27 negative yet is diagnosed with a form of > JRA - Spondylitis. The last test, if positive, can indicate having more > complications with spondy. A child that is ANA pos may have a greater > chance of developing uveitis. That is another important dr to see - an > ophthalmologist. Your daughter should have a slit lamp test to check her > eyes for inflammation. It is great that you are seeing a ped rheumy. > They are usually up to date with things (note I said usually LOL) and > are more likely to be aggressive when treating the disease, not waiting > too long to start a DMARD (disease modifying anti rheumatic drug) like > methotrexate, sulfasalazine, enbrel or any of the others. If the first > " cocktail " of meds doesn't work, various combinations are usually tried. > Keep us posted on what happens, and ask any questions you may have. This > is a great group of people, very supportive and quite helpful, Michele > ( 18, spondy) > > Re: Introduction - and a little about me > > > > Kathy- > I concur with the mom who suggests getting your sweet little baby girl > to a > Children's Hospital with a rheumatologist on staff asap. Good for you > for > stopping the office staff when they dismissed you because of negative > results. > I am not a dr., but I will tell you this: many on this list serve, > including myself, have found that very often, the blood tests are > negative for > arthritis, but the symptoms and clinical presentation of the disease > are right > there in front of you. (Which indicates to me that the blood tests are > not up to > par, as they are not accurately reflecting the presenting symptoms). I > > would suggest insisting on a referral to a pediatric rheumatologist > through your > pediatrician and make it clear (as it sounds like you are) that you > will not > take " no " for an answer. > > Also, have x-rays and bone scans been done to rule out other orthopedic > > issues? We did all of that (negative results) before seeing the > rheumatologist, > so that we had multiple types of tests to provide to him. He then > observed > the x-rays with me and pointed out 3 things that indicated and > confirmed > arthritis in my daughter: > 1. " shadows " around the joints that were inflamed > 2. a large number of small bones(and the spacing between them) > clustered > together in her knees. > 3. bony inward growth of both knees. > > Together with the blood tests and type of tests done(tested for Lyme > Disease, too, because Lyme very often causes arthritis), the above > x-rays, my > reports of her gross motor decline and when, as you mentioned, her > symptoms were at > their worst(the a.m., just as you said), and of course, the clincher, > his > examination of her toe, finger, and knee joints which were all > inflamed. > > It sounds like you know how to handle things and to keep pushing, and > by all > means, you have every right to feel overwhelmed. THIS IS OVERWHELMING! > > This isn't supposed to happen to babies or children and it is > interfering with > your daughter's development. Allow yourself to feel awful, angry, sad, > > scared, whatever it is, Kathy. It's completely understandable and > normal! > > We're glad you've come to this list serve, too! Best Wishes. > > Keep us posted; we are here for you! > > Beth, Mom to (age 5 years) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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