Guest guest Posted July 29, 2001 Report Share Posted July 29, 2001 LORA,TAYLOR, & STEP-DADDY! HELLO AND HOORAY HOORAY HOORAY HOORAY..FOR ALL OF YOU! I LITERALLY GOT CHILLS AND TEARS WHEN I READ THE TERRIFIC NEWS! LORA...YOU GIVE TAYLOR A BIG HUG FROM PENNSYLVANIA..TELL HER THAT EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY AND KEEP ON BEING THE TROOPER SHE IS..KEEP US UPDATED!!I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU AS A MOTHER AND GLAD THE SYSTEM WAS THERE FOR YOU....YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK AND GOOD GOING! KAREN & TABITHA From: mentorvic@... Reply- Subject: Wanted to share my wonderful news Date: Mon, 30 Jul 2001 01:11:20 -0000 Some of you may remember me reaching out to the group some time ago about my daughter age 7 with systemic jra having to go on visitations with her father who refused to acknowledge her illness or care for her on visits. was getting more flare ups and getting worse and I have spent thousands of dollars on attorneys, psycologists, and guardian ad litems. It has been excruciating for both and her stepfather and I. Finally on Sat. we received the experts report on her recommendations and they are as follows, No overnights, no unsupervised visits with her father for longer than 3 hours once a week. In the evaluation they found him to be a danger to her because he does not acknowledge her illness whatsoever and they do not believe he will administer meds when necessary. They also say that he lacks a basic bond with her and it is unduly risky for her to be in his care. My attorney's will take this expert report into the judge on Monday for an emergency ex-parte order for this recommendation to take place immediately. Thank you all for every one of your kind words, support and thoughts I hope that I can be there to help some of you in the future as well. Hooray, even though the illness won't seem to go away, at least I can finally protect my daughter and care for her without his undermining it anymore. Thank You all, Lora _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 29, 2001 Report Share Posted July 29, 2001 Lora, So glad it worked out for you. Your daughter is alot safer this way. Wishing you the best. Teri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 29, 2001 Report Share Posted July 29, 2001 Lora & , WOW ! That is wonderful news . I'm so glad you were able to fight for 's needs and win . There is a little justice in this world , and You deserve it very much . KEEP SMILIN:) Tree Wanted to share my wonderful news Some of you may remember me reaching out to the group some time ago about my daughter age 7 with systemic jra having to go on visitations with her father who refused to acknowledge her illness or care for her on visits. was getting more flare ups and getting worse and I have spent thousands of dollars on attorneys, psycologists, and guardian ad litems. It has been excruciating for both and her stepfather and I. Finally on Sat. we received the experts report on her recommendations and they are as follows, No overnights, no unsupervised visits with her father for longer than 3 hours once a week. In the evaluation they found him to be a danger to her because he does not acknowledge her illness whatsoever and they do not believe he will administer meds when necessary. They also say that he lacks a basic bond with her and it is unduly risky for her to be in his care. My attorney's will take this expert report into the judge on Monday for an emergency ex-parte order for this recommendation to take place immediately. Thank you all for every one of your kind words, support and thoughts I hope that I can be there to help some of you in the future as well. Hooray, even though the illness won't seem to go away, at least I can finally protect my daughter and care for her without his undermining it anymore. Thank You all, Lora To manage your subscription settings, please visit: For links to websites about JRA: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Village/8414/Links.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 Lora, Congratulations! I have a 7 yr. old daughter and I can't imagine inflicting any more pain on her than what she already has to deal with. I know this is probably a tremendous load off of all of you. Once again, Congratulations and the best of luck! M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 Hi Lora, Congratulations to you and your family!!!! What wonderful news! I also have to deal with an ex-husband with my 2 older sons and know your frustrations and concerns. It's such a shame when innocent young kids have to be put in situations like this. Please know that you have been in my thoughts and I'm elated that things have turned out in your favor. Best of luck, Barb Mengle (mom of Chase (8) systemic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 That is fantastic news and we are truely happy for you and your daughter! Dee Dee (michelle's mom) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 Lora- I remember you writing before. It sound like, with the expert opinions you managed to get, your ex will not be able to take your daughter and neglect her illness. Let us know what happens in court. Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 Just wanted to say I am so happy for you. I wish you all the best. Amy Wanted to share my wonderful news Some of you may remember me reaching out to the group some time ago about my daughter age 7 with systemic jra having to go on visitations with her father who refused to acknowledge her illness or care for her on visits. was getting more flare ups and getting worse and I have spent thousands of dollars on attorneys, psycologists, and guardian ad litems. It has been excruciating for both and her stepfather and I. Finally on Sat. we received the experts report on her recommendations and they are as follows, No overnights, no unsupervised visits with her father for longer than 3 hours once a week. In the evaluation they found him to be a danger to her because he does not acknowledge her illness whatsoever and they do not believe he will administer meds when necessary. They also say that he lacks a basic bond with her and it is unduly risky for her to be in his care. My attorney's will take this expert report into the judge on Monday for an emergency ex-parte order for this recommendation to take place immediately. Thank you all for every one of your kind words, support and thoughts I hope that I can be there to help some of you in the future as well. Hooray, even though the illness won't seem to go away, at least I can finally protect my daughter and care for her without his undermining it anymore. Thank You all, Lora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 30, 2001 Report Share Posted July 30, 2001 I would like to say congrats on the good news.It is so hard for me imagine anyone being that hurtful to their own child,but I guess some people are just completely,for lake of a better word,stupid. Anyway again congrats. Lynn G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2001 Report Share Posted August 1, 2001 Hi Lora, I'm so happy that things turned out the way they did. It sounds as if they did a very thorough investigation before making these recommendations and that they did so because of your true concern for your daughter's best interests. Now you can all have a little peace of mind and not have to worry so much. I'm really happy for you. Take Care, Georgina mentorvic@... wrote: > > Some of you may remember me reaching out to the group some time ago > about my daughter age 7 with systemic jra having to go on > visitations with her father who refused to acknowledge her illness or > care for her on visits. was getting more flare ups and getting > worse and I have spent thousands of dollars on attorneys, > psycologists, and guardian ad litems. It has been excruciating for > both and her stepfather and I. Finally on Sat. we received the > experts report on her recommendations and they are as follows, No > overnights, no unsupervised visits with her father for longer than 3 > hours once a week. In the evaluation they found him to be a danger to > her because he does not acknowledge her illness whatsoever and they > do not believe he will administer meds when necessary. They also say > that he lacks a basic bond with her and it is unduly risky for her to > be in his care. My attorney's will take this expert report into the > judge on Monday for an emergency ex-parte order for this > recommendation to take place immediately. Thank you all for every one > of your kind words, support and thoughts I hope that I can be there > to help some of you in the future as well. Hooray, even though the > illness won't seem to go away, at least I can finally protect my > daughter and care for her without his undermining it anymore. > > Thank You all, > Lora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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