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  • 3 years later...

Sorry to hear that . I would have liked to hear your experiences. Ever thought about Digest Mode?

J.C.

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409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up with. I am leaving the group.

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I hate to see any one of us leave the group, but I can sympathize with 's feeling. I've thought of dropping out, too, in the last few days, but I've been with this group for so long and get so much valuable information from it, that I'm hesitant to do it. Deleting unwanted messages seems like the obvious and easy thing to do, but it's not quite that simple. Just waiting for 5, 10, 15, 30 messages to load in my inbox at a time can be a bit of a hassle.

May I very respectfully - and I want to stress that I mean absolutely no disrespect to any of us in this group - but might I suggest that we limit some of our messages to a topic that stays more on point and one that will benefit the group as a whole?

I think it's wonderful that some truly friendly relationships are springing up among us. After all, that's one of the key tenets of the message board concept: that we're all here to help each other cope with an uncommon disease.

But some of the messages are clearly of a personal or frivolous nature. One-liners traded back and forth about internet jargon, for instance, or of the what-time-is-it-where-you-are-now? variety are the type of more specific communications between one or two parties that could be e-mailed directly rather than as group replies.

Again, I hope no one minds me saying these things. I never thought I'd see the day when I'd think there were too many messages about achalasia! And I still don't think that's the case. I just think we have to use more discretion about hitting that "reply" button, and consider the differences between sending group messages versus individual responses.

Food for thought, anyhow.

Carol

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409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up with. I am leaving the group.

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I don't get all the messages in my e-mail. I click on to groups

and go the achalasia page and view the messages at MY convenience and

I CHOOSE what I want to read so I don't read them all and they don't

interfere with anything else in my mailbox. I would encourage people

to e-mail whatever they want. Those personal asides and little jokes

may not be " on topic " but I view this as a support group as well as

information source and you can always use a smile.

Liz

> I hate to see any one of us leave the group, but I can sympathize

with 's feeling. I've thought of dropping out, too, in the last

few days, but I've been with this group for so long and get so much

valuable information from it, that I'm hesitant to do it. Deleting

unwanted messages seems like the obvious and easy thing to do, but

it's not quite that simple. Just waiting for 5, 10, 15, 30 messages

to load in my inbox at a time can be a bit of a hassle.

>

> May I very respectfully - and I want to stress that I mean

absolutely no disrespect to any of us in this group - but might I

suggest that we limit some of our messages to a topic that stays more

on point and one that will benefit the group as a whole?

>

> I think it's wonderful that some truly friendly relationships are

springing up among us. After all, that's one of the key tenets of

the message board concept: that we're all here to help each other

cope with an uncommon disease.

>

> But some of the messages are clearly of a personal or frivolous

nature. One-liners traded back and forth about internet jargon, for

instance, or of the what-time-is-it-where-you-are-now? variety are

the type of more specific communications between one or two parties

that could be e-mailed directly rather than as group replies.

>

> Again, I hope no one minds me saying these things. I never thought

I'd see the day when I'd think there were too many messages about

achalasia! And I still don't think that's the case. I just think we

have to use more discretion about hitting that " reply " button, and

consider the differences between sending group messages versus

individual responses.

>

> Food for thought, anyhow.

> Carol

> Leaving the group

>

>

> 409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up with. I am leaving

the group.

>

>

>

>

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I have an idea about how I'm going to try handling all of this mail

and to cut down on sending out so many hasty replies that seem to

duplicate themselves over and over. I am borderline not able to keep

up with all of this mail either, and have considered reading and

posting directly on line, which I WOULD DO. But FIRST, I'm going to

try opening each post in my mailbox, reading it, and if I feel it is

something I want to comment on, saving it until I have read each new

post. Maybe lots of other people have already said what I WOULD have

said IF I replied as I read it. I think the worst thing (and I'm

guilty of it) is to reply too quickly and then see 10 other posts

further down that have already replied and said the exact same thing

I said. I'm all for CHAT, as that seems to be what we are trying to

do here....it's NOT a chat room, but we seem to really need one! I

love the humor in here, though and would hate to see people think

they couldn't share something funny as well as the serious stuff.

-

-- In achalasia@y..., " chaggas " <chaggas@n...> wrote:

> I hate to see any one of us leave the group, but I can sympathize

with 's feeling. I've thought of dropping out, too, in the last

few days, but I've been with this group for so long and get so much

valuable information from it, that I'm hesitant to do it. Deleting

unwanted messages seems like the obvious and easy thing to do, but

it's not quite that simple. Just waiting for 5, 10, 15, 30 messages

to load in my inbox at a time can be a bit of a hassle.

>

> May I very respectfully - and I want to stress that I mean

absolutely no disrespect to any of us in this group - but might I

suggest that we limit some of our messages to a topic that stays more

on point and one that will benefit the group as a whole?

>

> I think it's wonderful that some truly friendly relationships are

springing up among us. After all, that's one of the key tenets of

the message board concept: that we're all here to help each other

cope with an uncommon disease.

>

> But some of the messages are clearly of a personal or frivolous

nature. One-liners traded back and forth about internet jargon, for

instance, or of the what-time-is-it-where-you-are-now? variety are

the type of more specific communications between one or two parties

that could be e-mailed directly rather than as group replies.

>

> Again, I hope no one minds me saying these things. I never thought

I'd see the day when I'd think there were too many messages about

achalasia! And I still don't think that's the case. I just think we

have to use more discretion about hitting that " reply " button, and

consider the differences between sending group messages versus

individual responses.

>

> Food for thought, anyhow.

> Carol

> Leaving the group

>

>

> 409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up with. I am leaving

the group.

>

>

>

>

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Support you fully Carol, lets keep on talking and yes friendships are great......... but that is why I had to risk appearing stupid asking what LOL was etc.!!!!!!! When a message just says "LOL!! " and I had no idea what it meant I was getting frustrated !

Nothing against anybody at all and no offence need be taken but it has been abit "OTT" with the oneliners about things which a lot of others don't understand. As I said months ago we sometimes need to add in a bit of humour ( that didn't last long before but it was a bit light hearted on occasions!!) but it can be amongst the other bits e.g. at the end of a general posting.

Also we must remember it is an international group as I said earlier on!! That way we can all hopefully learn from each other and not think our centre is the one and only best etc.!! We don't have the same health care system and so much choice here and so perhaps sometimes I find some of the messages about this a bit irrelevant to me ( again just my opinion and no offence meant whatsoever!!)

One way I deal with deleting the messages is the Subject . If you are actually replying to a subject thats great but sometimes I have found in the last few days it has said "re.........." and then when I've read it its been something totally different. (Its just a comment NOT a criticism for those who are going to get stressed by all of this sorry )

Also if its a specific reply to a certain person you could add in "Re........ to Jo " for example . that way if we don't have time or energy to read we can safely delete it knowing its only to Jo , hopefully?!!!( for example) { I used Jo as an example because I can't remember seeing a Jo and so hopefully haven't upset anybody this time }.

Anyway I hope not too many people leave because I like getting the messages and support is valued very much. All these messages and yet loads of memebrs aren;t talking. Where are you all. Come on , join in and make it about the subject again soon

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409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up with. I am leaving the group.

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Also please be aware that you can have an alternate

email address to recieve these messages in, so they

don't interfere with your business, home, etc. email.

I had to switch. provides free email, just go

in and change to that address (which you have to have

since you signed up for this group) and recieve emails

there.

--- lizzie2542 <lsloan2542@...> wrote:

> I don't get all the messages in my e-mail. I click

> on to groups

> and go the achalasia page and view the messages at

> MY convenience and

> I CHOOSE what I want to read so I don't read them

> all and they don't

> interfere with anything else in my mailbox. I would

> encourage people

> to e-mail whatever they want. Those personal asides

> and little jokes

> may not be " on topic " but I view this as a support

> group as well as

> information source and you can always use a smile.

> Liz

>

>

> > I hate to see any one of us leave the group, but I

> can sympathize

> with 's feeling. I've thought of dropping out,

> too, in the last

> few days, but I've been with this group for so long

> and get so much

> valuable information from it, that I'm hesitant to

> do it. Deleting

> unwanted messages seems like the obvious and easy

> thing to do, but

> it's not quite that simple. Just waiting for 5, 10,

> 15, 30 messages

> to load in my inbox at a time can be a bit of a

> hassle.

> >

> > May I very respectfully - and I want to stress

> that I mean

> absolutely no disrespect to any of us in this group

> - but might I

> suggest that we limit some of our messages to a

> topic that stays more

> on point and one that will benefit the group as a

> whole?

> >

> > I think it's wonderful that some truly friendly

> relationships are

> springing up among us. After all, that's one of the

> key tenets of

> the message board concept: that we're all here to

> help each other

> cope with an uncommon disease.

> >

> > But some of the messages are clearly of a personal

> or frivolous

> nature. One-liners traded back and forth about

> internet jargon, for

> instance, or of the

> what-time-is-it-where-you-are-now? variety are

> the type of more specific communications between one

> or two parties

> that could be e-mailed directly rather than as group

> replies.

> >

> > Again, I hope no one minds me saying these things.

> I never thought

> I'd see the day when I'd think there were too many

> messages about

> achalasia! And I still don't think that's the case.

> I just think we

> have to use more discretion about hitting that

> " reply " button, and

> consider the differences between sending group

> messages versus

> individual responses.

> >

> > Food for thought, anyhow.

> > Carol

> > Leaving the group

> >

> >

> > 409 e-mails in 15 days is too many to keep up

> with. I am leaving

> the group.

> >

> >

> >

> >

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  • 8 months later...

Just a suggestion. Maybe you can go " nomail " for a while and just pop in

every now and then by going to the web page to read messages and post.

Best of luck to you, Jelayne

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> Just wanted to let y'all know that as of Monday, I'm leaving the group.

I've

> just got too much going on to keep up with everything. I'm just going to

> keep up with my " buddies " that I have outside the group.

> Thanks for all the help and support.

>

>

>

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> Just a suggestion. Maybe you can go " nomail " for a while and just pop in

She unsubbed herself from about 6 different groups, not just this one. She

was *serious* about needing to get off-line for a while.

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  • 6 years later...

Me,too. Between " OBummer " and the obsessing over THR vs. resurfacing a few weeks

ago, I've had it.

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I just joined this group because I am 2 1/2 weeks out from a TKR. I have a lot

of fears and concerns that I was hoping to get answers for here. I did not want

to hear about health care reform. If I wanted to hear about that I would go sit

with my 77yr old father. I thought this was a support group for TKR. I am very

disappointed in the moderator of this group for allowing this to get so far off

track. I did enjoy this site at first but now I am out of here. Good luck to

everyone and I hope your health improves after your replacement.

Lynn

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Lynn:

Please don't leave the group. The last two days is not indicative of how we

behave. I've had two hips replaced and been on this group for probably a couple

of years. This is the first time I can recall a political thread.

It shows how passions flare on this issue, but I'm sure this will die down in a

day.

Take care,

-Ed

>

> I just joined this group because I am 2 1/2 weeks out from a TKR. I have a lot

of fears and concerns that I was hoping to get answers for here. I did not want

to hear about health care reform. If I wanted to hear about that I would go sit

with my 77yr old father. I thought this was a support group for TKR. I am very

disappointed in the moderator of this group for allowing this to get so far off

track. I did enjoy this site at first but now I am out of here. Good luck to

everyone and I hope your health improves after your replacement.

>

> Lynn

>

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