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Of course Treva. Before the healing program our bodies and mind do

not function well therefore our judgment is somewhat impaired.

I have made major changes in my relationships, I had to let go many

friends. I've been doing lots of spiritual healing as well ever since

starting Bee's program so that has added alot to re-adjusting my

priorities. I was fortunate enough to not be in an intimate

relationship when I started this program, but I totally understand

your frustration.

There is much enlightenment that comes with healing and with that also

comes lower tolerance for smaller minds. I am currently learning how

not to help/fix everybody else, how to accept and respect their

choices even if they make the wrong ones; it's hard, but it's do-able.

But with healing and enlightenment the relationship with yourself

keeps getting better and better, and I think this is the most

important relationship of all.

Carmen

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> Hi Bee,

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> I wondering if people talk to you about how candida affects their

relationships as much as their health?

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> I just got married last year to a man that I've been with for 18

years and had two children with.

> The better that I feel the more I can't stand him!  I keep rehashing

things that he's done to me in the past and not to mention what he

does now. My question to you is, when a person dosen't feel well, they

just let things slide. So to speak!  Now that I feel good, I notice a

lot of things that I would of let go before.

> I'm wondering if this has affected anyone else here in their

relationships?

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> Treva Shay Spence

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Hi Treva, I think when you get candida under control, it makes you think a

lot more clearer, because you're not walking around in a fog like you used

to. I know my thinking is a lot more clear lately. :)

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I wondering if people talk to you about how candida affects their

relationships as much as their health?

 

I just got married last year to a man that I've been with for 18 years and

had two children with.

The better that I feel the more I can't stand him!  I keep rehashing things

that he's done to me in the past and not to mention what he does now. My

question to you is, when a person dosen't feel well, they just let things

slide. So to speak!  Now that I feel good, I notice a lot of things that I

would of let go before.

I'm wondering if this has affected anyone else here in their relationships?

Treva Shay Spence

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> Hi Bee,

>  

> I wondering if people talk to you about how candida affects their

relationships as much as their health?

>  

> I just got married last year to a man that I've been with for 18

years and had two children with.

> The better that I feel the more I can't stand him!  I keep

rehashing things that he's done to me in the past and not to mention

what he does now. My question to you is, when a person dosen't feel

well, they just let things slide. So to speak!  Now that I feel good,

I notice a lot of things that I would of let go before.

> I'm wondering if this has affected anyone else here in their

relationships?

+++Hi Treva. Yes getting healthy can affect relationships a lot.

When you're sick you are more dependent financially and emotionally

upon your partner. You also don't have the wherewithall to get into

any issues, since you feel so sick physically.

Once you are healthy, like others said, you see things more clearly,

and you aren't as dependent. Some partners actually like having

the " other one " sick and more dependent. This will cause conflicts

while you are working hard to become healthy, and afterward when you

are strong emotionally, mentally and physically. They will " put you

down, " call you names like " food fanatic, " and fight and ridicule

you, putting roadblocks in your way whenever possible.

I also think you gain more respect for yourself when you've had to

work so yard to get healthy, so you will naturally want to be treated

with the same respect you have for yourself. And now you are more

able to deal with issues too.

I hope that helps.

Luv, Bee

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I just wanted to share that at first when I started the diet, my relationship

was getting worse and worse:  which is terrible when you are going through a ton

of die-off and you just want to get healthy.  Now that I am feeling better, my

relationship is better than ever.  It is hard to be a good partner when you are

not well.  It is hard to be a good partner when you have to focus 100% on your

own health and well-being.  Eventually, for me, as I got better, I could spread

more of my attention back to my family (and thank them for putting up with me

during my healing).  It is a journey for all of us, but one that must be

traveled.

-Sara

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Hi Carmen,

Treva Shay Spence

From: saucc2 <saucc2@...>

Subject: [ ] Re: Relationships!

Date: Friday, January 9, 2009, 5:36 PM

Of course Treva. Before the healing program our bodies and mind do

not function well therefore our judgment is somewhat impaired.

I have made major changes in my relationships, I had to let go many

friends. I've been doing lots of spiritual healing as well ever since

starting Bee's program so that has added alot to re-adjusting my

priorities. I was fortunate enough to not be in an intimate

relationship when I started this program, but I totally understand

your frustration.

There is much enlightenment that comes with healing and with that also

comes lower tolerance for smaller minds. I am currently learning how

not to help/fix everybody else, how to accept and respect their

choices even if they make the wrong ones; it's hard, but it's do-able.

But with healing and enlightenment the relationship with yourself

keeps getting better and better, and I think this is the most

important relationship of all.

Carmen

>

> Hi Bee,

>  

> I wondering if people talk to you about how candida affects their

relationships as much as their health?

>  

> I just got married last year to a man that I've been with for 18

years and had two children with.

> The better that I feel the more I can't stand him!  I keep rehashing

things that he's done to me in the past and not to mention what he

does now. My question to you is, when a person dosen't feel well, they

just let things slide. So to speak!  Now that I feel good, I notice a

lot of things that I would of let go before.

> I'm wondering if this has affected anyone else here in their

relationships?

>

>

>  

> Treva Shay Spence

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Treva,

I have found that sometimes it is the simple fact that your mind and

body are going through some real changes. You are focused so much on

what you eat, supplements, etc. Most of which is new. You feel good,

you feel bad...both physically and mentally.

When we have a lot on our minds, we can become easily irritated with

others and have short tempers. I found this to be true with my

current boyfriend. When I started the program he was very critical.

I was already under a lot of stress trying to figure out how to help

myself and he did bother me and we had a fight. But...in

retrospect...it was both of us! I was tired, irritable, and consumed

with helping myself. He didn't understand what i was doing and...as

men do...wanted to fix it and felt he couldn't. That left him

feeling frustrated as well.

Now, after almost 9 months of learning the program...and learning

how to step back and look at the issues he and i have..things are

better. I say, express to him what you are going through. Changing

your lifestyle, such as this program does, sounds " simple " , but I

have found it to be one of the most difficult times of my life. And

those that love us will try to help and support us.

Hope all is well-

Amy

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