Re: Talking about LOVE Terri

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Love what you said, very well said Teri. I agree. With Rick our friendship happened long before our marriage. We were friends 8 years before. Things just always threw us together. We are so alike in our ways and thinking. The percentage thing is true in any relationship there are times a partner may not be up to giving much and times they have to take over and carry it through. Like when Rick got in the head on car accident I carried us through. Then when I go through tx he will. He carried me through after my car accident too. Sometimes that is the way it is. Well enough said. hugs Cinder

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From: Teri Gottlieb <theresagottlieb@...>Subject: Re: [ ] Talking about LOVE - and Gloria Date: Sunday, May 2, 2010, 8:37 AM

You know, that whole 50/50 thing isn't how it works out... Some days are 50/50 but some are 90/10 and some are 100/0. It's finding a person that understands that. I have realized over the years that if your relationship or marriage is right, you DON'T have to work at it.. It just happens and it works. And it works very well. Make sure that person is your best friend... because there are times, especially with what we are all going thru, that your partner in life is your only friend. Your support, your everything. I firmly believe there is someone out there for everyone, and every person and path you take leads you closer to that person. I can go thru my life and say, if everything didn't happen the way it did, I would never be where I am right now... Now where I am right now can be good or bad depending on which part you are looking at. From a financial view, I'm not in a

good place. From a view of my relationship. I am truly blessed. This is the second time around for both of us and we don't sweat the small stuff. It's not worth it. Just my 2 cents... and with the recession, that ain't worth much.

hugs,

Teri in Chicago