Angry at my son's dad and step mother

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Sorry to vent, but I'd like to know if anyone else has a similar situation. I

know many of you have current or former husbands who all seem to be cut from the

same ASD cloth. I also know many of you are getting the blame for your child's

problems.

But today, at our first (and definitely last) attempt at a supervised

co-parenting session with an experienced court ordered psychologist, I saw for

the first time why my ex has been playing the " victim " and so casual and

non-committed to helping our son.

His current wife makes countless excuses for " dad's " irresponsible behavior.

She refused to hold him accountable for neglecting his son; giving his work and

his health priority. " Dad " just sat there soaking up the support from his

loving ( clueless) wife while the psychologist and I sat there watching this

horrible sideshow.

It's hard enough trying to help our children, but to have stepmothers or any

other friends or family members pushing the needs of the pathetic dad playing

the " victim " over the needs of the child is beyond my comprehension.

Any comments?