total defiance and big mouth

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Hello Everyone,

I am looking to you all for help. My PDD, ketotic hypoglycemic 7yr old female

who has had many yeast and bacteria issues, and has been on the yeast protocal

for almost 2 years, now has the chicken pox mildly and large lymph nodes that

have erupted all over her body. So I can understand the heightened horrible

behavior. But even without all these extra raised issues, the one constant

remains,----her total defiance and big mouth. throwing stuff at me, hitting me,

total refusal to pick up, put away anything, total destruction of our home,

absolute rude behavior and mean talk, loud talking, constant interrupting.

WE have tried discipline, time-out, spanking, taking things away, removing

actitivies etc. WE 've tried sticker charts, goal sheets, special events for

her to work towards and nothing works... She has driven a wedge between all of

us, my husband just has no time for her anymore, and my 10 year son Hates her,

this behavior just is not getting any better, with 3 years of help from

behavioralist and TSS people that help in home and community--------and any

social event we are avoided like the plague as families do not want their kids

hanging around " that girl " -- and I honestly don't blame, she is behaving

horribly..

Can anyone relate, and what do you do. we have been thru all the food allergy

tests she is GF/CF/ Egg free, Dye free, and yes we know it is full moon week

which also adds to all this. She had all the bacteria and yeast tests done,

and all the nutrient deficiency test done which we have been correcting for over

a year as well.. But no matter what, this horrible defiant, just

absolutely possessed child behavior continues. Adn we feel like our only option

is to go to the typical medicine. Over 2 years ago they had put her on

adderal because she was jsut running out into the street, and ran into the

sides of moving cars already, has undone her seat belt and opened doors to the

car while we are driving, undressed and thrown her clothes out the windows, Has

tried to climb out on our 2nd story roof from her bedroom window, has pushed

chairs down the steps, as well as all her clothes and many other things. Dumped

bottles and bottles of shampoo, soap, oil, anythign she can get her hands in

--to make a skating rink on our carpet---jumped all over our house furniture and

bed in many instances while urinating and rolling in it, taken her poop out of

the toilet and drawn all over our walls with it--- I think you get the picture.

This is her history, but the ugly defiance is the worse--yes this is all

horrible and is a pain and very expensive to clean up, and it goes away after

time, but the mouth and nasty behavior remains.

Our family is understandably falling apart, I understand this is some behavior

she cannot control, and she is not doing it on purpose, something inside her is

terribly off, we jsut do not know what else to do..

please help.

Jen trovinger