Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 How well does she talk? When my son was three, he could barely speak. He was always pointing to written things and going " Unhhh? " He learned how to talk AND how to read from having us tell him what everything said. By the time he was in 4th grade he was reading at college level! Your daughter may just be thirsty for knowledge. By the way, his first words were Coca-Cola. (What can I say? It's a bright red can---very eye-catching!LOL) Pat---mom of Josh (16 yo AS) and Sara (13 yo AS) and a confirmed Coke-aholic! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 That is great that she is interested in words. Great opportunity to teach her phonics and pre-reading skills. My Aspie was am early reader and I really think that ie helped her with a lot of her aspie issues. Now she is obsessed with " What did we do for Valentien's Day when I was 3? " " You didn't envite me to your Wedding because I wasn't born yet! " She was actually yelling at me for that one. Let's just say the girl LOVES any excuse to dress-up, dance and have a party. Jule Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 Her vocabulary is quite well. Alot of scripted. She will come up to me What it say? I tell her and the reply is What it say? I repeat and it goes on forever. LOL about the coca-cola PATRICIA MAIN <mainpatr@...> wrote: How well does she talk? When my son was three, he could barely speak. He was always pointing to written things and going " Unhhh? " He learned how to talk AND how to read from having us tell him what everything said. By the time he was in 4th grade he was reading at college level! Your daughter may just be thirsty for knowledge. By the way, his first words were Coca-Cola. (What can I say? It's a bright red can---very eye-catching!LOL) Pat---mom of Josh (16 yo AS) and Sara (13 yo AS) and a confirmed Coke-aholic! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 Did you teach her to read or did she just self-teach? ston <jjtripletmom@...> wrote: That is great that she is interested in words. Great opportunity to teach her phonics and pre-reading skills. My Aspie was am early reader and I really think that ie helped her with a lot of her aspie issues. Now she is obsessed with " What did we do for Valentien's Day when I was 3? " " You didn't envite me to your Wedding because I wasn't born yet! " She was actually yelling at me for that one. Let's just say the girl LOVES any excuse to dress-up, dance and have a party. Jule Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 Funny reply was the other day she was asking me what was on her juice cup. I tell her it says NUBY. Again whats it say? NUBY. again what it say? NUBY so after the 100th time I was half listening and I replied " OH Crap " I didn't think anything of it because at the time she just mumbled and walked off. Hours later she wanted a sippy. She hollers " In the crap ba-ba (its her sippy but she still says bottle) OK from now on I watch very careful what I say! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Her vocabulary is quite well. Alot of scripted. She will come up to me What it say? I tell her and the reply is What it say? I repeat and it goes on forever. LOL about the coca-cola PATRICIA MAIN <mainpatr@...> wrote: How well does she talk? When my son was three, he could barely speak. He was always pointing to written things and going " Unhhh? " He learned how to talk AND how to read from having us tell him what everything said. By the time he was in 4th grade he was reading at college level! Your daughter may just be thirsty for knowledge. By the way, his first words were Coca-Cola. (What can I say? It's a bright red can---very eye-catching!LOL) Pat---mom of Josh (16 yo AS) and Sara (13 yo AS) and a confirmed Coke-aholic! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 She was interested so I taught her. 2 of my girls knew the alphabet by being able to sing the song and by letter recognition at 2 yrs old. Those 2 were my first readers. At 3 Hannah was doing very well with phonics. I just talked a lot about letters. What sound does that make? What letter does that word start with. I made sure that they always had access to books, pencils, crayons and paper. Funds were (are) short. i bought paper & books at garage sales and Goddwill & the like. Hannah scripted a lot too. But as she became a better reader her speech became much more appropriate. She still gets prepositions confused. I would suggest when your daughter says " Does it say? " Tell her to say " What does it say. " Always correct her incorrect language. Going along with the scripting, Hannah always had and still has stories going on in her head. We really tried to limit how much tv she watched. But early on I HAD to let her watch tv even if she scripted it because she wasn't literally climbing the walls and be dangerous when she watched tv. When she is scripting we tell her to stop. She will sometimes just laugh out loud and I know that she is scripting in her head. I try to get her thinking about something else to stop the " film. " I find she has a harder time with this when her yeast is high. Over time she is learning to adapt with these issues. But her scripting in her head as lead her to being a good story writer. I mentioned here a few weeks ago that she recently won a Young Writers contest in our county. I'm so proud of her. She is in first grade and she won the 1 & 2nd grade division. We are anxiously awaiting to see if she places on the state level. (Mom to 7 yr old triplet daughters) Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Did you teach her to read or did she just self-teach? ston <jjtripletmom@...> wrote: That is great that she is interested in words. Great opportunity to teach her phonics and pre-reading skills. My Aspie was am early reader and I really think that ie helped her with a lot of her aspie issues. Now she is obsessed with " What did we do for Valentien's Day when I was 3? " " You didn't envite me to your Wedding because I wasn't born yet! " She was actually yelling at me for that one. Let's just say the girl LOVES any excuse to dress-up, dance and have a party. Jule Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 Tammy, Hannah had autitory processing issues. Our kids are visual learners. Most of our interactions happened in the kitchen while eating, cleaning up dishes or making something to eat. My kitchen was decorated in the style of " pre-school. " If this was Hannah I would have gotten out a piece of paper and written the word NUBY then pointed to each letter and sounded the phonics for each letter. The first day of 3 yr old preschool Hannah could not say the name Trent. I showed her teacher how Hannah learns. I wrote the name on the board, sounded out each letter then said the name with her a few times and she had it. Maybe your little one is desireing this also. Let me know how it goes. Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Funny reply was the other day she was asking me what was on her juice cup. I tell her it says NUBY. Again whats it say? NUBY. again what it say? NUBY so after the 100th time I was half listening and I replied " OH Crap " I didn't think anything of it because at the time she just mumbled and walked off. Hours later she wanted a sippy. She hollers " In the crap ba-ba (its her sippy but she still says bottle) OK from now on I watch very careful what I say! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Her vocabulary is quite well. Alot of scripted. She will come up to me What it say? I tell her and the reply is What it say? I repeat and it goes on forever. LOL about the coca-cola PATRICIA MAIN <mainpatr@...> wrote: How well does she talk? When my son was three, he could barely speak. He was always pointing to written things and going " Unhhh? " He learned how to talk AND how to read from having us tell him what everything said. By the time he was in 4th grade he was reading at college level! Your daughter may just be thirsty for knowledge. By the way, his first words were Coca-Cola. (What can I say? It's a bright red can---very eye-catching!LOL) Pat---mom of Josh (16 yo AS) and Sara (13 yo AS) and a confirmed Coke-aholic! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 > > My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. > I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol > Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? > A psychologist told me that the repetition is just a way to know that all is right with their world. The AS kids are let loose in the world without a map and they like to hear the same thing because it is soothing and usually predictable. My husband sometimes retorts " What did I say? " When all my DS wants is to know that something in his day is predictable. So I repeat things over and over....but sometime I interject something silly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2006 Report Share Posted March 29, 2006 Thanks so much I will try that and see. I spend almost all of our time with either books, crayons or a magnanoodle. ston <jjtripletmom@...> wrote: Tammy, Hannah had autitory processing issues. Our kids are visual learners. Most of our interactions happened in the kitchen while eating, cleaning up dishes or making something to eat. My kitchen was decorated in the style of " pre-school. " If this was Hannah I would have gotten out a piece of paper and written the word NUBY then pointed to each letter and sounded the phonics for each letter. The first day of 3 yr old preschool Hannah could not say the name Trent. I showed her teacher how Hannah learns. I wrote the name on the board, sounded out each letter then said the name with her a few times and she had it. Maybe your little one is desireing this also. Let me know how it goes. Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Funny reply was the other day she was asking me what was on her juice cup. I tell her it says NUBY. Again whats it say? NUBY. again what it say? NUBY so after the 100th time I was half listening and I replied " OH Crap " I didn't think anything of it because at the time she just mumbled and walked off. Hours later she wanted a sippy. She hollers " In the crap ba-ba (its her sippy but she still says bottle) OK from now on I watch very careful what I say! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: Her vocabulary is quite well. Alot of scripted. She will come up to me What it say? I tell her and the reply is What it say? I repeat and it goes on forever. LOL about the coca-cola PATRICIA MAIN <mainpatr@...> wrote: How well does she talk? When my son was three, he could barely speak. He was always pointing to written things and going " Unhhh? " He learned how to talk AND how to read from having us tell him what everything said. By the time he was in 4th grade he was reading at college level! Your daughter may just be thirsty for knowledge. By the way, his first words were Coca-Cola. (What can I say? It's a bright red can---very eye-catching!LOL) Pat---mom of Josh (16 yo AS) and Sara (13 yo AS) and a confirmed Coke-aholic! Tammie <kjsa3612@...> wrote: My 3 yr old AS DD is constantly wanting me to read ALL warning labels, tags, signs, etc. I know this is good that she is curious but it seems that she will ask over and over and as if she doesn't believe me when I read them to her. lol Her school says I should tell her then ask her what I just said to her if she reasks. But that doesn't seem to work. It seems an obsession to her to read ALL labels. She even showed me a piece of chewed up napkin and wanted to know what it said? It had no words (plain white) Am I missing something here? Tammie Tammie...... Life ain't always beautiful, tears will fall sometimes, Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride..... --------------------------------- Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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