If knocking heads were legal....(Jacquie V..you will appreciate)...

[Guest guest]

Yes, she really is... :-(

It's just that she doesn't speak their language, ya know.... Bigotry

starting young. :/

Penny

Re: If knocking heads were legal....(Jacquie

V..you will appreciate)...

Penny, I truly don't understand how people, even kids, can be such little

shits. Jacqui seems like such a friendly likeable kid. I just don't get it.

Tamara

[Guest guest]

>>Bigotry starting young. :/<<

And Unfortunately it is often learned at home :-(

Re: If knocking heads were legal....(Jacquie

V..you will appreciate)...

Penny, I truly don't understand how people, even kids, can be such little

shits. Jacqui seems like such a friendly likeable kid. I just don't get it.

Tamara

[Guest guest]

> I'd like to believe this too. It took her a milisecond longer to recover

> this time that in the past, and I know it bothered me WAY more than it

> bothered her.

>

> Still sucks though, ya know?

Absolutely. Because WE know how WE'D feel if it happened to us, and the

LAST thing we want for our kiddos is to feel that way. Brings out the Mama

Bear. :-)

To tell you the truth though, I think I often project my own fear of

rejection on to him. I'm not saying YOU do that, but I think I do. Because

when I step back and really look at him, he really doesn't seem to mind.

Or, when he DOES mind, he recovers very quickly, more quickly than I ever

did.

When people treat him badly, or reject him, I definitely feel it as a blow

to my gut. So what I try to do, and this sounds WEIRD, is to envy him for

just not giving a shit. I mean, wouldn't that be WONDERFUL?

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

> I'd like to believe this too. It took her a milisecond longer to recover

> this time that in the past, and I know it bothered me WAY more than it

> bothered her.

>

> Still sucks though, ya know?

Absolutely. Because WE know how WE'D feel if it happened to us, and the

LAST thing we want for our kiddos is to feel that way. Brings out the Mama

Bear. :-)

To tell you the truth though, I think I often project my own fear of

rejection on to him. I'm not saying YOU do that, but I think I do. Because

when I step back and really look at him, he really doesn't seem to mind.

Or, when he DOES mind, he recovers very quickly, more quickly than I ever

did.

When people treat him badly, or reject him, I definitely feel it as a blow

to my gut. So what I try to do, and this sounds WEIRD, is to envy him for

just not giving a shit. I mean, wouldn't that be WONDERFUL?

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

> Jacqui is upstairs now playing by herself, and for

> the life of me I can't tell if this kind of thing bothers her or

not.

>

> damn it.

>

((((hugs)))) This would be one time would it would be good for Jacqui

to be blissfully unaware. (

Tina

[Guest guest]

> Makes me f***** sick. I just wanted to go over there and tell them what

> little pukes they are. Jacqui is upstairs now playing by herself, and for

> the life of me I can't tell if this kind of thing bothers her or not.

>

Oh, yuck, Penny. I am sorry. Little girls are worse in this kind of way

than little boys, I am afraid. Little boys have different issues, but not

this kind of junior cattiness.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Yes! that's exactly it! I just don't expect to see cattiness in 4 & 6 year

olds!

>>>>>>

What bugs me the most is it is all so RUDE!

<<<<<<

VERY!!!

Penny

[Guest guest]

That's a great way to look at it Jacquie. I really should try that, because

that is EXACTLY what I want for her. I want for her to NOT give a shit!

Thanks!

Penny

Re: If knocking heads were legal....(Jacquie

V..you will appreciate)...

> I'd like to believe this too. It took her a milisecond longer to recover

> this time that in the past, and I know it bothered me WAY more than it

> bothered her.

>

> Still sucks though, ya know?

Absolutely. Because WE know how WE'D feel if it happened to us, and the

LAST thing we want for our kiddos is to feel that way. Brings out the Mama

Bear. :-)

To tell you the truth though, I think I often project my own fear of

rejection on to him. I'm not saying YOU do that, but I think I do. Because

when I step back and really look at him, he really doesn't seem to mind.

Or, when he DOES mind, he recovers very quickly, more quickly than I ever

did.

When people treat him badly, or reject him, I definitely feel it as a blow

to my gut. So what I try to do, and this sounds WEIRD, is to envy him for

just not giving a shit. I mean, wouldn't that be WONDERFUL?

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

That's a great way to look at it Jacquie. I really should try that, because

that is EXACTLY what I want for her. I want for her to NOT give a shit!

Thanks!

Penny

Re: If knocking heads were legal....(Jacquie

V..you will appreciate)...

> I'd like to believe this too. It took her a milisecond longer to recover

> this time that in the past, and I know it bothered me WAY more than it

> bothered her.

>

> Still sucks though, ya know?

Absolutely. Because WE know how WE'D feel if it happened to us, and the

LAST thing we want for our kiddos is to feel that way. Brings out the Mama

Bear. :-)

To tell you the truth though, I think I often project my own fear of

rejection on to him. I'm not saying YOU do that, but I think I do. Because

when I step back and really look at him, he really doesn't seem to mind.

Or, when he DOES mind, he recovers very quickly, more quickly than I ever

did.

When people treat him badly, or reject him, I definitely feel it as a blow

to my gut. So what I try to do, and this sounds WEIRD, is to envy him for

just not giving a shit. I mean, wouldn't that be WONDERFUL?

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

(((((Penny)))))

And sweet Jacqui.

We need to form a commune, dammit.

Sissi