Guest guest Posted February 27, 2006 Report Share Posted February 27, 2006 Hi Abby, Boy....I can SO SO remember that feeling of panic and despair. I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a hug. From your post, I can't tell what country you live in. You said your husband is a 'chemist'. I know in England they refer to pharmacists as 'chemists....I lived there for 7 years. I live in Canada. I was 'forced' out of work end of 2003 because I was missing so much work and there were 20 stairs up to my office ( I'm a counselor). I applied for unemployment Insurance...medical leave....which was good for 15 weeks. There was a 5 week wait for that and I had to have a friend help me out a bit then. Then I applied through Social Insurance for medical income support. I got that and they covered my prescriptions. Now I have been moved to " CPP-Disability " ...a special plan where you recieve your Canada Pension Plan benefits early...only it is an increased amount if you have children. One thing I know...most countries have some sort of emergency thing for persons with disabilities. Google it and see what you can find. One thing......I had to make a few sacrifices, but I also had to be a 'squeaky wheel'. If you want a ton of emotional support....just hit my email symbol at by my name at the side there.......THAT is one thing I CAN give...it can help! Here for you Abby. Di....PLS.......Canada In PLS-FRIENDS , " AWR " wrote: > > I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has been > diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has > trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think he > will be able to live much longer. > > He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If he > does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a > chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify > his salary - if he is able to get there.) > > He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is > no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare > until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If he > quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications > that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at Social > Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. > > We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little to > pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, and > I don't want that to happen. > > Is there anything anyone can think of we can do? I really should stop work > to take care of him. > > He cannot possibly live much longer, and will get almost no benefits anyway. > He's killing himself so we can keep the insurance and keep the house. (If I > put him on my insurance, it will be over $600, and we just don't have it.) > > I know I'm being incoherent, but I'm pretty lost here and hope someone who > has been through this might be able to come up with some help. > > Abby, caregiver to Buddy > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2006 Report Share Posted February 27, 2006 We live in Arkansas, USA. He's a research an analytical chemist. I'm calling my senators and rep tomorrow. I know them - sort of - from covering them for a newspaper. I never thought I'd try to pull strings, but at this point, I'll try anything. This man has worked all his life, since the age of 14, and paid into Social Security, and now when he needs help, it's not there. I don't know much right now, but I do know that I will spend the rest of my life working for universal health care. This is crazy - for a person to have to die because there is no help. Abby > > Hi Abby, > Boy....I can SO SO remember that feeling of panic and despair. I > wish I could reach through the computer and give you a hug. > > From your post, I can't tell what country you live in. You said your > husband is a 'chemist'. I know in England they refer to pharmacists > as 'chemists....I lived there for 7 years. > > I live in Canada. I was 'forced' out of work end of 2003 because I > was missing so much work and there were 20 stairs up to my office ( > I'm a counselor). I applied for unemployment Insurance...medical > leave....which was good for 15 weeks. There was a 5 week wait for > that and I had to have a friend help me out a bit then. Then I > applied through Social Insurance for medical income support. I got > that and they covered my prescriptions. Now I have been moved > to " CPP-Disability " ...a special plan where you recieve your Canada > Pension Plan benefits early...only it is an increased amount if you > have children. > > One thing I know...most countries have some sort of emergency thing > for persons with disabilities. Google it and see what you can find. > > One thing......I had to make a few sacrifices, but I also had to be > a 'squeaky wheel'. > > If you want a ton of emotional support....just hit my email symbol > at by my name at the side there.......THAT is one thing I CAN > give...it can help! > > Here for you Abby. > > Di....PLS.......Canada > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2006 Report Share Posted February 27, 2006 Atta girl Abby! Get mad...good and mad...pull those strings! There IS so much unfairness.....but let your anger work for you. Go for it! Hugs! Di...........Canada PLS-FRIENDS , " agneswross " wrote: > > We live in Arkansas, USA. He's a research an analytical chemist. > I'm calling my senators and rep tomorrow. I know them - sort of - from > covering them for a newspaper. > > I never thought I'd try to pull strings, but at this point, I'll try > anything. This man has worked all his life, since the age of 14, and > paid into Social Security, and now when he needs help, it's not there. > > I don't know much right now, but I do know that I will spend the rest > of my life working for universal health care. > > This is crazy - for a person to have to die because there is no help. > > Abby > > > > > > > Hi Abby, > > Boy....I can SO SO remember that feeling of panic and despair. I > > wish I could reach through the computer and give you a hug. > > > > From your post, I can't tell what country you live in. You said your > > husband is a 'chemist'. I know in England they refer to pharmacists > > as 'chemists....I lived there for 7 years. > > > > I live in Canada. I was 'forced' out of work end of 2003 because I > > was missing so much work and there were 20 stairs up to my office ( > > I'm a counselor). I applied for unemployment Insurance...medical > > leave....which was good for 15 weeks. There was a 5 week wait for > > that and I had to have a friend help me out a bit then. Then I > > applied through Social Insurance for medical income support. I got > > that and they covered my prescriptions. Now I have been moved > > to " CPP-Disability " ...a special plan where you recieve your Canada > > Pension Plan benefits early...only it is an increased amount if you > > have children. > > > > One thing I know...most countries have some sort of emergency thing > > for persons with disabilities. Google it and see what you can find. > > > > One thing......I had to make a few sacrifices, but I also had to be > > a 'squeaky wheel'. > > > > If you want a ton of emotional support....just hit my email symbol > > at by my name at the side there.......THAT is one thing I CAN > > give...it can help! > > > > Here for you Abby. > > > > Di....PLS.......Canada > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2006 Report Share Posted February 27, 2006 Will his company help by giving him a severance package where they pay for the medical insurance (Cobra) until he's approved for Medicare OR give him a cash severance package that will cover his Cobra insurance premiums for 6 months? Lynn Medical benefits/disability I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has been diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think he will be able to live much longer. He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If he does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify his salary - if he is able to get there.) He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If he quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at Social Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little to pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, and I don't want that to happen. Is there anything anyone can think of we can do? I really should stop work to take care of him. He cannot possibly live much longer, and will get almost no benefits anyway. He's killing himself so we can keep the insurance and keep the house. (If I put him on my insurance, it will be over $600, and we just don't have it.) I know I'm being incoherent, but I'm pretty lost here and hope someone who has been through this might be able to come up with some help. Abby, caregiver to Buddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2006 Report Share Posted February 27, 2006 I'll ask him to try that tomorrow, but I doubt it. Doesn't seem likely. > > Will his company help by giving him a severance package where they pay for > the medical insurance (Cobra) until he's approved for Medicare OR give him a > cash severance package that will cover his Cobra insurance premiums for 6 > months? > > Lynn > Medical benefits/disability > > > I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has > been > diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has > trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think > he > will be able to live much longer. > > He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If > he > does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a > chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify > his salary - if he is able to get there.) > > He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is > no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare > until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If > he > quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications > that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at > Social > Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. > > We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little > to > pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, > and > I don't want that to happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2006 Report Share Posted February 28, 2006 Abby, I wish like Di said reach out and give you a hug.Yes it stinks that we have paid into this system and when we need help it starts the wait game. Does your husband have short/long term disability there at work? That help us though the waiting period for SS security to kick in. I waited 6 months before I received SS, but that was back in 1995 . things have come a long way since them. Luckily my husband is the main bread winner in our family so I sense the fear you have. Go ahead and whatever strings you have. those strings can direct you to people you would otherwise have to wait to see. Please come back to us just to vent your frustrations we totally understand your journey your traveling. Flora/Florida Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2006 Report Share Posted February 28, 2006 I don't sense intolerance---desperation perhaps and realism. check out whether or not your county has any benefits until medicaid kicks in/and medicare. i was lucky in my county for that in fl but still ended up waiting 5 months for SSDI. others here have suggested assistance from mda as that varies from chapter to chapter (mine cannot let me in as they are over wrought already). additionally, there are pharmaceutical companies that will assist in the meds should he not be able to get benefits. Needymeds.com can lead you into the meds and companies to contanct. that is about all i know, sorry but i wish you good thoughts and try to hang in there. Tawny AWR ross415@...> wrote: I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has been diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think he will be able to live much longer. He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If he does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify his salary - if he is able to get there.) He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If he quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at Social Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little to pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, and I don't want that to happen. Is there anything anyone can think of we can do? I really should stop work to take care of him. He cannot possibly live much longer, and will get almost no benefits anyway. He's killing himself so we can keep the insurance and keep the house. (If I put him on my insurance, it will be over $600, and we just don't have it.) I know I'm being incoherent, but I'm pretty lost here and hope someone who has been through this might be able to come up with some help. Abby, caregiver to Buddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2006 Report Share Posted February 28, 2006 in the states it is federal law that while he is under family medical leave act and has even the slightest bit of leave time that the company pay for cobra. some companies will work with you if they are able....forgot about that in last post. Tawny Lynn Holmes lynn.holmes@...> wrote: Will his company help by giving him a severance package where they pay for the medical insurance (Cobra) until he's approved for Medicare OR give him a cash severance package that will cover his Cobra insurance premiums for 6 months? Lynn Medical benefits/disability I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has been diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think he will be able to live much longer. He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If he does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify his salary - if he is able to get there.) He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If he quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at Social Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little to pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, and I don't want that to happen. Is there anything anyone can think of we can do? I really should stop work to take care of him. He cannot possibly live much longer, and will get almost no benefits anyway. He's killing himself so we can keep the insurance and keep the house. (If I put him on my insurance, it will be over $600, and we just don't have it.) I know I'm being incoherent, but I'm pretty lost here and hope someone who has been through this might be able to come up with some help. Abby, caregiver to Buddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2006 Report Share Posted February 28, 2006 Abby, I got disability when I first requested it (my neuro said she marked it as ALS as there is no knowledge of PLS) but there is a six month wait. I first filed six months before I left work so I would not have a wait but that doesn't count..............you must wait 6 months. By that I mean I could not file for disability until I was actually not working. This was a big blow to us financially too but I am on my husband's insurance so we " made " it sort of. We actually had to do a refi on our mortgage to make it. I am sorry this is such a hard time for you right now. I will pray for you and Buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2006 Report Share Posted February 28, 2006 Maybe this will help with medications: Look into prescription help programs. Most pharmaceutical companies have programs that provide medicines at little cost. A number of companies also offer discounts on their medicines at the pharmacy to people with low to modest incomes and no insurance coverage. In addition to its patient assistance program, GlaxoKline offers savings on outpatient prescription medicines for uninsured, low-income patients through three programs. New from GlaxoKline and 9 other leading pharmaceutical companies is the free, easy-to-use Together Rx Access™ prescription savings card. It is designed to provide savings off the customary pharmacy price for some 36 million Americans under age 65 who qualify and who are without public or private prescription medicine coverage. The card is good for direct savings on more than 275 brand-name prescription medicines and a wide range of generics, and savings are received right at the pharmacy counter. The Partnership for Prescription Assistance (PPA) can help many uninsured people get the drugs they need free, nearly free or at significant savings for those who qualify. With just " one stop, " PPA puts them in touch with public or private savings programs that often match their needs. PPA offers information and assistance for accessing more than 1200 drugs. Through a toll-free number -- 1-888-4PPA-NOW (1-) -- and a user-friendly web site, www.pparx.org, the Partnership for Prescription Assistance offers quick contact with hundreds of prescription help programs. (Drug companies offer more than 150 of them.) If you call or go online to contact PPA, you should have a list of drugs you are taking handy. Lynn Medical benefits/disability > > > I have not posted before, and hope someone can help me. My husband has > been > diagnosed with PLS, and he is very, very ill. He can hardly walk, has > trouble talking, and has emphasema on top of that. I honestly don't think > he > will be able to live much longer. > > He is trying to continue to go to work, and when he goes, he is paid. If > he > does not go, they kick in with Family and Medical leave act. (He's a > chemist, and has a wheel chair at work - they let him sit there to justify > his salary - if he is able to get there.) > > He needs to go on disability, and the rep at Social Security says there is > no doubt he will get disability - but...he will not qualify for Medicare > until the end of May, and even then, he has to take reduced benefits. If > he > quits work, he is without medical insurance, and he is on ten medications > that we certainly can't pay for. So - while we wait for the people at > Social > Security to decide if he can get disability, he has no insurance. > > We have no savings and I make too much to qualify for aid but too little > to > pay for all our expenses and his medical care. We would lose the house, > and > I don't want that to happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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