Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 Ann, You WILL get through this. Once you get a plan as to treatment and things start moving along it will get better. Unless your parents are very sick I would tell them. I know I would want to know if you were my child. Breast cancer is not the death sentence it was once thought to be. There are a lot of ladies living long productive lives. I will be a 16 1/2 yr survivor on the 24th and there are ladies farther along than I am in this group. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com scared and alone Hi I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. mary ann email-scaryann64@... --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 hi charlene well i am going for a partial mastectomy on monday. has anyone had calcificaition in or around a lymph node ?? is it normal to be freaked out then calm or feel they can now take charge. i am not sure if my emotions are normal but i am looking forward to getting this all done and over with. mary ann charlenemickan <no_reply > wrote: Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 hi charlene well i am going for a partial mastectomy on monday. has anyone had calcificaition in or around a lymph node ?? is it normal to be freaked out then calm or feel they can now take charge. i am not sure if my emotions are normal but i am looking forward to getting this all done and over with. mary ann charlenemickan <no_reply > wrote: Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 hi charlene well i am going for a partial mastectomy on monday. has anyone had calcificaition in or around a lymph node ?? is it normal to be freaked out then calm or feel they can now take charge. i am not sure if my emotions are normal but i am looking forward to getting this all done and over with. mary ann charlenemickan <no_reply > wrote: Hi Ann, You will get through this. All I can say is " one day at a time " . I found out I had BC in September. Since then I've had a surgical biopsy, a lumpectomy, all sorts of other tests and I've started chemo. It blew me away to hear the diagnosis, but with the help of God and wonderful friends and family, I'm doing it.... one day at a time. I'm a parent of grown children. I know they don't want to trouble me but I would be devistated if they tried to hide something like this from me. I would encourage you to share it with your family. Just my 2 cents worth, I know all situations are unique. My best to you, Charlene > > Hi > I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. > mary ann email-scaryann64@... > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 hello!!! so i just came back from the doctor. they will be doing a partial mastectomy or a full one depending on what the creepy calcified monster and some kind of node is under my armpit. i am luck to have my family, but seeing them is rough. i feel very calm now knowing what i am up against and am ready to fight the fight. it is good to know that you are hear also for support and know what i am about to go through. i am not nervous about the surgery, loss of hair and the nausea. i am not upset about being disfigured although being single, it might hinder my dating although it was very hard for me to find a date before..... anyway, best wishes and good health to you and everyone reading this!!!!!!! mary ann & nne Svihlik wrote: Ann, You WILL get through this. Once you get a plan as to treatment and things start moving along it will get better. Unless your parents are very sick I would tell them. I know I would want to know if you were my child. Breast cancer is not the death sentence it was once thought to be. There are a lot of ladies living long productive lives. I will be a 16 1/2 yr survivor on the 24th and there are ladies farther along than I am in this group. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com scared and alone Hi I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. mary ann email-scaryann64@... --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 hello!!! so i just came back from the doctor. they will be doing a partial mastectomy or a full one depending on what the creepy calcified monster and some kind of node is under my armpit. i am luck to have my family, but seeing them is rough. i feel very calm now knowing what i am up against and am ready to fight the fight. it is good to know that you are hear also for support and know what i am about to go through. i am not nervous about the surgery, loss of hair and the nausea. i am not upset about being disfigured although being single, it might hinder my dating although it was very hard for me to find a date before..... anyway, best wishes and good health to you and everyone reading this!!!!!!! mary ann & nne Svihlik wrote: Ann, You WILL get through this. Once you get a plan as to treatment and things start moving along it will get better. Unless your parents are very sick I would tell them. I know I would want to know if you were my child. Breast cancer is not the death sentence it was once thought to be. There are a lot of ladies living long productive lives. I will be a 16 1/2 yr survivor on the 24th and there are ladies farther along than I am in this group. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com scared and alone Hi I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. mary ann email-scaryann64@... --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 Ann, They will do a sentinel node biopsy to check if the cancer has spread to the nodes. If someone truly loves you, it won't bother them that you had bc surgery. If they can't accept it, then they aren't worth your time. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com scared and alone Hi I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. mary ann email-scaryann64@... --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Share Posted November 21, 2006 Ann, They will do a sentinel node biopsy to check if the cancer has spread to the nodes. If someone truly loves you, it won't bother them that you had bc surgery. If they can't accept it, then they aren't worth your time. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com scared and alone Hi I just had an ultrasound, which the doctor described my tumor as having tenticles. it is a 3.3 cm size tumor. i know in my heart it is cancer and i am freaking out. i was just at the doctors ithis past august-nothing- i found it on my own around halloween. i am scared because it seems it got so big so fast. i am just really afraid. i am 42 single and pretty much alone. i have my parents but i don't want to burdent them. i am not sure why i am writing to you. maybe just a little reassurance that possibly i will get through all of this. mary ann email-scaryann64@... --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Don't quit your job - take classes online and earn your degree in 1 year. Start Today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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