Guest guest Posted August 17, 2010 Report Share Posted August 17, 2010 Oh wow. " it doesn't matter that you don't respond, because whether or not you're even in the conversation, she's going to... " That's mine. Like spot on. If you ignore the original offensive email, you get 4 messages following asking whether or not you got the email. If you say " yes " and change the subject, you get another email saying " well what did you think about this!??! HMM!?!? Don't you have a response? " =/ > > Just wanted to say that you are absolutely not alone. I was searching for a > specific email my NADA has sent me a few days ago, and when I typed her > address into the search field, I found that she'd literally sent me over 800 > emails since she got her current email address 4 years ago. I'd responded to > less than 70, and usually only when things were really alarming or when I > needed basic information (my insurance card when I was in college, family > medical history, stuff like that). You're absolutely right: it doesn't > matter that you don't respond, because whether or not you're even in the > conversation, she's going to use you in the way she needs to make her > reality a place she can deal with. It IS sad, it IS creepy, but all you can > do is take a breath, change your email filters, and remember that you are > your own person with a much stronger grip on reality, and you are NOT the > only person in that reality the way she is in hers. I'm sure everyone here's > been there---we're all here with you! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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