Guest guest Posted August 4, 2000 Report Share Posted August 4, 2000 In a message dated 8/4/00 5:47:12 PM Pacific Daylight Time, amymichael@... writes: << I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback??? Amy, I have never had my children in daycare and I hope that I never will have to, but I know that if I ever did... that if they didn't do what I told them to with my children I would find another caregiver, I am sure it is tough on them to not be able to calm him down but your wish are your wishes right? I am sorry to hear he is having a hard time it is tough to have to leave babies. ; ( Rhonda <A HREF= " http://www.alladvantage.com/go.asp?refid=GVA469 " >Need some money? Click here to get some</A> Join AllAdvantage.com and get paid for surfing the web! Please use my ID (GVA469)when asked if someone referred you. http://www.alladvantage.com/go.asp?refid=GVA469 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2000 Report Share Posted August 4, 2000 Yup I agree. If they can't respect your wishes (I can't believe she walked out of the room) then it's time to find another one. Especially since he isn't settling down for them. Michele My sons began daycare this week after being at home for seven monthsbecause my babysitter quit. Ryker (my 7 month old nursling) has criednonstop (and I mean that) every day, all day. The only time he stops iswhen I come in to feed him. When he was at home, I came about everythree hours or just waited for the sitter to call me. Now, I am going tohim every two hours simply so he can stop crying for awhile. He won'teven nap for them, so I have been going to him during my lunch hour andletting him nurse himself to sleep. Today, when I brought him some coughmedicine and put him down on the changing table there, he began cryingagain and shaking. I have never seen my baby act this way.Anyway, the reason I am telling you all this is because of aconversation the owner had with me at lunch time. When I called thedaycare to enroll the boys, I made it very clear that Ryker is a breastbaby who has no bottles or pacifiers. He also isn't interested in solidsyet. She said that was not a problem, so I enrolled. Today, she told me that she wasn't sure if Ryker was going to eversettle down and that perhaps my frequent visits were part of theproblem. She told me that since this is the weekend, she wanted me tothink about bringing him a bottle and cereal/other foods so thecaregiver can bond with him.I told her that I don't plan to use bottles and that I would put him ona cup eventually. The other provider said that she didn't think a 7month old could drink out of a cup and I disagreed. At that point, shewalked out of the room.I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback???Amy W. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2000 Report Share Posted August 5, 2000 In a message dated 8/4/00 5:47:22 PM Pacific Daylight Time, amymichael@... writes: << I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback??? >> Sounds like it to me. If they are not willing to listen to you I don't think they are worth their title(s) as child care providers. You are not being unreasonable. It seems that if it is inconceniencing them at all, they have an issue. That is not what their business is all about. What is best for the child should come first! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2000 Report Share Posted August 5, 2000 In a message dated 8/4/00 5:47:22 PM Pacific Daylight Time, amymichael@... writes: << I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback??? >> Sounds like it to me. If they are not willing to listen to you I don't think they are worth their title(s) as child care providers. You are not being unreasonable. It seems that if it is inconceniencing them at all, they have an issue. That is not what their business is all about. What is best for the child should come first! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2000 Report Share Posted August 5, 2000 My baby started on a cup at 4 months. Get a sippy cup and one that drips freely. Not one that requires a lot of sucking. He will do fine. If he is 7 months begin him w/a few finger foods so that he can snack if the need arises. My Ds 8 months even drinks a little juice very diluted too. BM in a cup is fine though. As for the no napping tell the caregiver mom lays down w/babe to nurse therefore she must find her own way to settle babe w/out laying down. If she is putting him in a crib to "cry it out" that can truly traumatize him to the point of not being able to settle well with you. My ds will not sleep in bed unless I am there but dad or sitter can settle other ways. They have to find what works for them. I would attempt to find another sitter. Maybe one that can come to your house where he will feel most comfortable. Hope it all works out. Laurie daycare and nursing My sons began daycare this week after being at home for seven monthsbecause my babysitter quit. Ryker (my 7 month old nursling) has criednonstop (and I mean that) every day, all day. The only time he stops iswhen I come in to feed him. When he was at home, I came about everythree hours or just waited for the sitter to call me. Now, I am going tohim every two hours simply so he can stop crying for awhile. He won'teven nap for them, so I have been going to him during my lunch hour andletting him nurse himself to sleep. Today, when I brought him some coughmedicine and put him down on the changing table there, he began cryingagain and shaking. I have never seen my baby act this way.Anyway, the reason I am telling you all this is because of aconversation the owner had with me at lunch time. When I called thedaycare to enroll the boys, I made it very clear that Ryker is a breastbaby who has no bottles or pacifiers. He also isn't interested in solidsyet. She said that was not a problem, so I enrolled. Today, she told me that she wasn't sure if Ryker was going to eversettle down and that perhaps my frequent visits were part of theproblem. She told me that since this is the weekend, she wanted me tothink about bringing him a bottle and cereal/other foods so thecaregiver can bond with him.I told her that I don't plan to use bottles and that I would put him ona cup eventually. The other provider said that she didn't think a 7month old could drink out of a cup and I disagreed. At that point, shewalked out of the room.I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback???Amy W.Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed!http://www.lactivist.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2000 Report Share Posted August 5, 2000 My baby started on a cup at 4 months. Get a sippy cup and one that drips freely. Not one that requires a lot of sucking. He will do fine. If he is 7 months begin him w/a few finger foods so that he can snack if the need arises. My Ds 8 months even drinks a little juice very diluted too. BM in a cup is fine though. As for the no napping tell the caregiver mom lays down w/babe to nurse therefore she must find her own way to settle babe w/out laying down. If she is putting him in a crib to "cry it out" that can truly traumatize him to the point of not being able to settle well with you. My ds will not sleep in bed unless I am there but dad or sitter can settle other ways. They have to find what works for them. I would attempt to find another sitter. Maybe one that can come to your house where he will feel most comfortable. Hope it all works out. Laurie daycare and nursing My sons began daycare this week after being at home for seven monthsbecause my babysitter quit. Ryker (my 7 month old nursling) has criednonstop (and I mean that) every day, all day. The only time he stops iswhen I come in to feed him. When he was at home, I came about everythree hours or just waited for the sitter to call me. Now, I am going tohim every two hours simply so he can stop crying for awhile. He won'teven nap for them, so I have been going to him during my lunch hour andletting him nurse himself to sleep. Today, when I brought him some coughmedicine and put him down on the changing table there, he began cryingagain and shaking. I have never seen my baby act this way.Anyway, the reason I am telling you all this is because of aconversation the owner had with me at lunch time. When I called thedaycare to enroll the boys, I made it very clear that Ryker is a breastbaby who has no bottles or pacifiers. He also isn't interested in solidsyet. She said that was not a problem, so I enrolled. Today, she told me that she wasn't sure if Ryker was going to eversettle down and that perhaps my frequent visits were part of theproblem. She told me that since this is the weekend, she wanted me tothink about bringing him a bottle and cereal/other foods so thecaregiver can bond with him.I told her that I don't plan to use bottles and that I would put him ona cup eventually. The other provider said that she didn't think a 7month old could drink out of a cup and I disagreed. At that point, shewalked out of the room.I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback???Amy W.Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed!http://www.lactivist.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2000 Report Share Posted August 5, 2000 My baby started on a cup at 4 months. Get a sippy cup and one that drips freely. Not one that requires a lot of sucking. He will do fine. If he is 7 months begin him w/a few finger foods so that he can snack if the need arises. My Ds 8 months even drinks a little juice very diluted too. BM in a cup is fine though. As for the no napping tell the caregiver mom lays down w/babe to nurse therefore she must find her own way to settle babe w/out laying down. If she is putting him in a crib to "cry it out" that can truly traumatize him to the point of not being able to settle well with you. My ds will not sleep in bed unless I am there but dad or sitter can settle other ways. They have to find what works for them. I would attempt to find another sitter. Maybe one that can come to your house where he will feel most comfortable. Hope it all works out. Laurie daycare and nursing My sons began daycare this week after being at home for seven monthsbecause my babysitter quit. Ryker (my 7 month old nursling) has criednonstop (and I mean that) every day, all day. The only time he stops iswhen I come in to feed him. When he was at home, I came about everythree hours or just waited for the sitter to call me. Now, I am going tohim every two hours simply so he can stop crying for awhile. He won'teven nap for them, so I have been going to him during my lunch hour andletting him nurse himself to sleep. Today, when I brought him some coughmedicine and put him down on the changing table there, he began cryingagain and shaking. I have never seen my baby act this way.Anyway, the reason I am telling you all this is because of aconversation the owner had with me at lunch time. When I called thedaycare to enroll the boys, I made it very clear that Ryker is a breastbaby who has no bottles or pacifiers. He also isn't interested in solidsyet. She said that was not a problem, so I enrolled. Today, she told me that she wasn't sure if Ryker was going to eversettle down and that perhaps my frequent visits were part of theproblem. She told me that since this is the weekend, she wanted me tothink about bringing him a bottle and cereal/other foods so thecaregiver can bond with him.I told her that I don't plan to use bottles and that I would put him ona cup eventually. The other provider said that she didn't think a 7month old could drink out of a cup and I disagreed. At that point, shewalked out of the room.I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback???Amy W.Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed!http://www.lactivist.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2000 Report Share Posted August 6, 2000 In a message dated 8/4/00 7:47:12 PM Central Daylight Time, amymichael@... writes: << I think it is time to find another sitter. Feedback??? Amy W. >> Amy, My heart really goes out to you. What a hard decision to have to make in the first place and then be faced with such issues. I would definitely follow Ryker's clues--there's a reason he doesn't like it there.....I don't mean that it's an abusive place or anything like that, he just isn't feeling secure there. In my opinion I think I would really try to find an alternative sitter for him. Especially since they are trying to push you into doing some things you are just not ready to do (solids, etc)......Good luck, I know it must be difficult to deal with. Fawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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