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Martha,

That is really not right that your family is wanting to make claims on your

SSDI. That money is to secure YOUR future and to protect YOU. Please don't let

your family feel you have to give any of your disability check over to them,

particularly since they tell you that you are a burden to them. That is just

terrible for you to feel you are a burden to them.

I am glad that you have the support of your boyfriend and his family though.

Take care,

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Martha I'm sorry to hear your family isn't supportive...and asking you for money

you desperately need is just wrong. I hope you told them politely no you need

to eat and pay bills thank you. I am happy to hear your boyfriend and his

family have stood by you thru this. My husbands family is my rock...in my

darkest moments just after diagnosis my mother in law would call me every night

when she knew the kids were in bed and my husband wasn't home from work yet.

Many nights I would just cry the entire time she was on the phone with me but

she would just talk and talk so I wouldn't be alone. She's one wonderful lady.

Hang in there and I hope your family changes their tune.

Amy

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Thanks guys. Things with my family have been off. I have an older

sister that don't talk to me any more; and the onther ones are

(feeling like) they are waiting for me to get my retro-check from

ssdi. My dad hinted at borrowing money, my sister just came out and

ask and my other sister wants me to buy my parnets plane ticket so

they can go to her graduation and still I will have to buy for an

motel for two to go myself. So right now I don't have them for

support plus they all don't want to hear about it. i was told I was

being a burden on my family. I do still have my rock , my boyfriend

of 10 years , his mom and little brother and my best friend. But

don't see or talk much to my friend she going to school and work. I

think i have to much time to think. Well again thanks.

Martha

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Martha I'm sorry to hear your family isn't supportive...and asking you for money

you desperately need is just wrong. I hope you told them politely no you need

to eat and pay bills thank you. I am happy to hear your boyfriend and his

family have stood by you thru this. My husbands family is my rock...in my

darkest moments just after diagnosis my mother in law would call me every night

when she knew the kids were in bed and my husband wasn't home from work yet.

Many nights I would just cry the entire time she was on the phone with me but

she would just talk and talk so I wouldn't be alone. She's one wonderful lady.

Hang in there and I hope your family changes their tune.

Amy

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Thanks guys. Things with my family have been off. I have an older

sister that don't talk to me any more; and the onther ones are

(feeling like) they are waiting for me to get my retro-check from

ssdi. My dad hinted at borrowing money, my sister just came out and

ask and my other sister wants me to buy my parnets plane ticket so

they can go to her graduation and still I will have to buy for an

motel for two to go myself. So right now I don't have them for

support plus they all don't want to hear about it. i was told I was

being a burden on my family. I do still have my rock , my boyfriend

of 10 years , his mom and little brother and my best friend. But

don't see or talk much to my friend she going to school and work. I

think i have to much time to think. Well again thanks.

Martha

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Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by

donations. If you would like to help, go to:

http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm

Thank you

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Martha I'm sorry to hear your family isn't supportive...and asking you for money

you desperately need is just wrong. I hope you told them politely no you need

to eat and pay bills thank you. I am happy to hear your boyfriend and his

family have stood by you thru this. My husbands family is my rock...in my

darkest moments just after diagnosis my mother in law would call me every night

when she knew the kids were in bed and my husband wasn't home from work yet.

Many nights I would just cry the entire time she was on the phone with me but

she would just talk and talk so I wouldn't be alone. She's one wonderful lady.

Hang in there and I hope your family changes their tune.

Amy

Re: update

Thanks guys. Things with my family have been off. I have an older

sister that don't talk to me any more; and the onther ones are

(feeling like) they are waiting for me to get my retro-check from

ssdi. My dad hinted at borrowing money, my sister just came out and

ask and my other sister wants me to buy my parnets plane ticket so

they can go to her graduation and still I will have to buy for an

motel for two to go myself. So right now I don't have them for

support plus they all don't want to hear about it. i was told I was

being a burden on my family. I do still have my rock , my boyfriend

of 10 years , his mom and little brother and my best friend. But

don't see or talk much to my friend she going to school and work. I

think i have to much time to think. Well again thanks.

Martha

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home page:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/

To unsubcribe via email,

iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe

Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by

donations. If you would like to help, go to:

http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm

Thank you

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Shell,

Sorry to hear about the gain but like you said, your weight changes daily, it could be anything. Glad you are OP and you checked in with us. Keep up the good work. You can do this!

~Coco~

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Shell,

Sorry to hear about the gain but like you said, your weight changes daily, it could be anything. Glad you are OP and you checked in with us. Keep up the good work. You can do this!

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Shell,

Sorry to hear about the gain but like you said, your weight changes daily, it could be anything. Glad you are OP and you checked in with us. Keep up the good work. You can do this!

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Coco

I had a crown put on recently, but without the additional problems you had and that was bad enough. I hope you start feeling better soon. Have a Happy Holiday.

Anita

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I was getting prepped for a crown and the tooth broke below the gum so I had to have some surgery done on my gum. Got incredibly sore so now I am on Penicillin and Vicodin. Hopefully I will be better soon!

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Coco

I had a crown put on recently, but without the additional problems you had and that was bad enough. I hope you start feeling better soon. Have a Happy Holiday.

Anita

Update

I was getting prepped for a crown and the tooth broke below the gum so I had to have some surgery done on my gum. Got incredibly sore so now I am on Penicillin and Vicodin. Hopefully I will be better soon!

~Coco~

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Coco

I had a crown put on recently, but without the additional problems you had and that was bad enough. I hope you start feeling better soon. Have a Happy Holiday.

Anita

Update

I was getting prepped for a crown and the tooth broke below the gum so I had to have some surgery done on my gum. Got incredibly sore so now I am on Penicillin and Vicodin. Hopefully I will be better soon!

~Coco~

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Gail,

Thanks! I am feeling better already! Meds and naps help a lot! lol You better get to the dentist girlie! Hope you and your family have a great Thanksgiving!

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Gail,

Thanks! I am feeling better already! Meds and naps help a lot! lol You better get to the dentist girlie! Hope you and your family have a great Thanksgiving!

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Gail,

Thanks! I am feeling better already! Meds and naps help a lot! lol You better get to the dentist girlie! Hope you and your family have a great Thanksgiving!

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Anita,

I am so sorry to read of all the troubles you had with your teeth. Are they feeling any better? My tooth was part of the reason I have been off program. Hurt so bad that if I did eat had to be soft foods and they were not always things good for me. A lot of soup which had a lot of sodium too. Ugh! I sure hope things are on the mend for you.

Great job on getting the part time job too. What are you doing?

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Anita,

I am so sorry to read of all the troubles you had with your teeth. Are they feeling any better? My tooth was part of the reason I have been off program. Hurt so bad that if I did eat had to be soft foods and they were not always things good for me. A lot of soup which had a lot of sodium too. Ugh! I sure hope things are on the mend for you.

Great job on getting the part time job too. What are you doing?

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Coco

My tooth really doesn't hurt. It occassionally throbs and doesn't feel right. IT kinda feels loose, but they could just be in my mind. I'm probably going to call the dentist on Monday if I get the chance. Part time job is also dispatching. Thanks

Anita

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Anita,

I am so sorry to read of all the troubles you had with your teeth. Are they feeling any better? My tooth was part of the reason I have been off program. Hurt so bad that if I did eat had to be soft foods and they were not always things good for me. A lot of soup which had a lot of sodium too. Ugh! I sure hope things are on the mend for you.

Great job on getting the part time job too. What are you doing?

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Coco

My tooth really doesn't hurt. It occassionally throbs and doesn't feel right. IT kinda feels loose, but they could just be in my mind. I'm probably going to call the dentist on Monday if I get the chance. Part time job is also dispatching. Thanks

Anita

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Anita,

I am so sorry to read of all the troubles you had with your teeth. Are they feeling any better? My tooth was part of the reason I have been off program. Hurt so bad that if I did eat had to be soft foods and they were not always things good for me. A lot of soup which had a lot of sodium too. Ugh! I sure hope things are on the mend for you.

Great job on getting the part time job too. What are you doing?

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Coco

My tooth really doesn't hurt. It occassionally throbs and doesn't feel right. IT kinda feels loose, but they could just be in my mind. I'm probably going to call the dentist on Monday if I get the chance. Part time job is also dispatching. Thanks

Anita

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Anita,

I am so sorry to read of all the troubles you had with your teeth. Are they feeling any better? My tooth was part of the reason I have been off program. Hurt so bad that if I did eat had to be soft foods and they were not always things good for me. A lot of soup which had a lot of sodium too. Ugh! I sure hope things are on the mend for you.

Great job on getting the part time job too. What are you doing?

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Thanks Coco

Anita

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Thanks Coco

Anita

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Thanks Coco

Anita

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Anita,

I am glad to hear your tooth is not an all the time issue but hope you get in to the dentist soon.

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Please keep us updated on your Mom. She is in my prayers.

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update

mom called about 930 and seemed in good spirits. she was in the room and they were getting ready to put her under for surgery at 10. she didnt sleep much last nite. shes usually in bed by 8ish and she didnt go last nite til about 130am.

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