Guest guest Posted April 6, 2000 Report Share Posted April 6, 2000 Pam, That stinks that you had to hear that! You just never know when someone is going to innocently say something that is going to send you into a downward spiral. Hang in there. Barbara upset The most upsetting thing just happened to me at work. I was working w/ a client and another client came in very pg. My boss came over to help her. My client says that (I am a mortgage processor) the people they are purchasing the home from are due w/a baby anyday. Well my boss says it must be going around. The pg women says it seems like everyone is having April babies. I would have been having an April baby. I just went to my office and broke down. I had been handling things pretty well this month. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! 1. Fill in the brief application 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR Apply NOW! http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/955051987/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2000 Report Share Posted April 6, 2000 Dear Pam, I am so sorry you had to go through that. I don't blame you for being upset. I wish there was some way to do like Sam on Bewitched and freeze people before they have a chance to make stupid, ignorant, insensitive comments! Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2000 Report Share Posted April 6, 2000 Pam, I would have too sweetie. We all have moments like that. I hope you are feeling better. Big hug, Jo-Ann PAMELA GIGUERE wrote: > > The most upsetting thing just happened to me at work. I was working > w/ a client and another client came in very pg. My boss came over to > help her. My client says that (I am a mortgage processor) the people > they are purchasing the home from are due w/a baby anyday. Well my > boss says it must be going around. The pg women says it seems like > everyone is having April babies. I would have been having an April > baby. I just went to my office and broke down. I had been handling > things pretty well this month. > Pam > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/955051987/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2000 Report Share Posted April 6, 2000 Pam, Hang in there, people, even bosses can sometimes be insensitive (or especially bosses), for example, when I was out the only day I took off last year for my surgery for my ep my boss didn't say a word to me or send flowers (he is always sending clients flowers when they are hospitalized) months later I said something about when I was out for surgery and he was like, when did you have surgery? Oh, I thought you were JUST having a miscarriage (like it was no big deal!!) like a miscarriage is no big deal!!! I was sooooo pissed, then he proceeded to tell me how when he was in Florida last month he had to go to the ER because he had this infected pussy cyst in his chest and how they had to drain it etc. GROSS!!!!! Like that even compares, and/or like I ever wanted to know that about him!!!! Sorry, your post reminded me of the whole incident! Anyway, even my little sister says insensitive things and she is most of the time my best friend, sometimes you just have to consider the source. Take care of yourself!! Vicki PAMELA GIGUERE wrote: The most upsetting thing just happened to me at work. I was working w/ a client and another client came in very pg. My boss came over to help her. My client says that (I am a mortgage processor) the people they are purchasing the home from are due w/a baby anyday. Well my boss says it must be going around. The pg women says it seems like everyone is having April babies. I would have been having an April baby. I just went to my office and broke down. I had been handling things pretty well this month. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! 1. Fill in the brief application 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR Apply NOW! http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/955051987/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2000 Report Share Posted April 6, 2000 Pam Sorry you are feeling like this, believe me people say so many things that hurt us, sometimes intentionally and sometimes innocently. The thing is they dont realise the pain they cause us. I think that right now i am a time bomb waiting to explode into tears the minutes someone says anything insensitive, even if it is not directed at me. I hope you feel better soon Lots of hugs Shamiso Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Pam, I am so sorry for what happened at work.... it is so cruel, people just don't think about what they say. Big hugs, sweetie, ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) take care sonja upset The most upsetting thing just happened to me at work. I was working w/ a client and another client came in very pg. My boss came over to help her. My client says that (I am a mortgage processor) the people they are purchasing the home from are due w/a baby anyday. Well my boss says it must be going around. The pg women says it seems like everyone is having April babies. I would have been having an April baby. I just went to my office and broke down. I had been handling things pretty well this month. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! 1. Fill in the brief application 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR Apply NOW! http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/955051987/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Pam, I am so sorry you are having a hard time. I know that feeling. I think the stress of ttc makes it all that much harder. You just want what is the most natural thing for a woman and it seems out of reach. I'll be praying for you. Tara upset The most upsetting thing just happened to me at work. I was working w/ a client and another client came in very pg. My boss came over to help her. My client says that (I am a mortgage processor) the people they are purchasing the home from are due w/a baby anyday. Well my boss says it must be going around. The pg women says it seems like everyone is having April babies. I would have been having an April baby. I just went to my office and broke down. I had been handling things pretty well this month. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! 1. Fill in the brief application 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR Apply NOW! http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/955051987/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 Pam, It happens to me too. I have my bad days and my good days. Expect that you will have those days like everyone else and just remember that a better day is coming. Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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