A sad update

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I knew I said I probably wouldn't be posting, but there have been

some changes to things.

First off, Deb's mother has decided to have a private viewing, and

graveside services, which I know is going to be upsetting to a lot

of the people that cared about her, but what can we do?

In a way though, I can understand the reasoning behind it. Today's

newspaper told the story of how Deb died. She died from a single

gunshot wound to the head. Right now, they are saying that it was a

probable suicide, but are continuing to investigate. However, I,

and a lot of other people just are not buying it at all.

To know Deb was to know that she was a very strong-minded

individual, who spoke her mind, and didn't take any crap from

anyone. I also found out that her ex-boyfriend had been harrassing

her all the night before, and that morning, by phone at home, and

via text messages at work, and he had a very violent history. And

as I already mentioned, her young daughter was the center of her

life, so I don't think that she would do something to herself and

leave her behind. Deb was just not a suicidal type of person.

She left work sometime that morning, and the police were called to

her home at a little after noon. How did they know to go there?

Her mother was at work, little Paige was at school, she and her

daughter weren't speaking, so who called for help? Things

don't add up! Not one person that I knew, who also knew Deb is

buying into the fact that she did this to herself. They are all

turning towards her ex-boyfriend, truly believing that he had a hand

in her death. Also, Deb did not own a gun, and no suicide note was

left. I hope that the police detectives make a thorough

investigaton of that man!

Sorry, I needed to vent. I am still having trouble wrapping my mind

around the idea that Deb is just gone.

Jen