/so sorry!

[Guest guest]

Oh god that sound's like such a terrible event for everybody involved! My

condolences are with you and the families.

We had a terrible event like this happen to us about 6 years ago at my mom's

house. My sister, her boyfriend, and all her kids were staying at my mom & dad's

for a while.Everyone was in the living room watching T.V. and my sister was in

the kitchen when her boyfriend decided to kill himself at the dining room

table.At my mom's house it's all connected so my sister saw him shoot himself,

and the shell from the bullet came whizzing right by her head.She grabbed him

and sat with him until the ambulance came, he was dead already.

He left behind three little boys who loved him dearly, and my sister who thought

he was her soul mate. to this day no-one knows why he killed himself, not even

my sister. That really got to her for a long while.

This September my sister is getting married to a man that loves her dearly, and

she loves him.He loves her children like his own, so it has a pretty good

ending.I'm so happy for her because she was alone for so long.She felt it was

her fault some-how but we all told her it was not ever her fault.

Thanks everyone for letting me vent that off my chest. Again I'm very

sorry for your loss. in PA