Re: Lawson: Effect on Children(Ilene)

[Guest guest]

> Hi all! I realized that I had traits from all 4 groups and I

> really think nada is a waif/queen...I really need to go back and

> look to see where the witch/hermit traits came from....very curious

> thing this BPD stuff...lol..sort of like trying to chase spilled

> mercury, if you've ever broken a thermometer.

> Ilene

Ilene,

I could relate to many of them too. The scariest thing to me was

finding my b/f described to a " T " in the " Huntsman, " then went back

and re-read the " Hermit " part and I was like Uh-oh.. I've always

said that he reminds me of my (1st) Step-dad. When I think back to

the time nada married him, I can see that was one time she was being

all " Hermit-like. " They were only married a little over one year,

but he had lived with us (unofficially) for close to 9 years before

they married. Anyway, nada soon un-hermited and re-witched and he

was a goner! haha.. Mostly she is Queen/Witch with a little Waifiness

when it is convenient. You know, now that I think about it--I used

to be quite capable of being a Witch too. I never was as much of one

as her, I never ever hit anyone nor was I able to ever really have

that hatred inside like she did. That was the part that was so

scary, she was so cold inside. I know now that it just isn't my

nature to be cold to other people, I love people and I (hope anyway)

do have compassion for others. Anyway, I thought it was interesting

that you related to the Hermit stuff too and that your nada was

Queen/Waif..(Witch too?) Isn't it confusing how someone can be Waif

like and Queen like at the same time? It still confuses me.

[Guest guest]

I never really saw any witch in my nada, that's why I was so

shocked...and she loved to travel so hermit didn't seem to fit her

either. Maybe I just see things more clearly than I did 2 yrs. ago!

Ilene

anyrae wrote:

>

> > Hi all! I realized that I had traits from all 4 groups and I

> > really think nada is a waif/queen...I really need to go back and

> > look to see where the witch/hermit traits came from....very curious

> > thing this BPD stuff...lol..sort of like trying to chase spilled

> > mercury, if you've ever broken a thermometer.

> > Ilene

>

> Ilene,

> I could relate to many of them too. The scariest thing to me was

> finding my b/f described to a " T " in the " Huntsman, " then went back

> and re-read the " Hermit " part and I was like Uh-oh.. I've always

> said that he reminds me of my (1st) Step-dad. When I think back to

> the time nada married him, I can see that was one time she was being

> all " Hermit-like. " They were only married a little over one year,

> but he had lived with us (unofficially) for close to 9 years before

> they married. Anyway, nada soon un-hermited and re-witched and he

> was a goner! haha.. Mostly she is Queen/Witch with a little Waifiness

> when it is convenient. You know, now that I think about it--I used

> to be quite capable of being a Witch too. I never was as much of one

> as her, I never ever hit anyone nor was I able to ever really have

> that hatred inside like she did. That was the part that was so

> scary, she was so cold inside. I know now that it just isn't my

> nature to be cold to other people, I love people and I (hope anyway)

> do have compassion for others. Anyway, I thought it was interesting

> that you related to the Hermit stuff too and that your nada was

> Queen/Waif..(Witch too?) Isn't it confusing how someone can be Waif

> like and Queen like at the same time? It still confuses me.

>

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