/Martha

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**I should know my M names on this list better!

No, I obviously don't, so I shouldn't! I feel bad for misdirecting a post and

then getting it right at the end. I feel like I should have noticed that the

post I was responding to was written with capitals and that means it's from

...not Martha. I feel inconsiderate for not paying closer attention to

the closing of the post and the e-mail that it was from. I'm hard on myself

and unforgiving. I feel like I'm going to offend and Martha for

confusing them...as if Martha doesn't want to be associated with 's

work.. and will hate that I thought it was Martha who wrote it! Oh,

these M names....and I'm one of them! Without the thought, I realize I

addressed the post to Martha even though my intention was to send it to .

I can see that maybe it will get Martha's attention and she'll benefit from

reading the post. I'm not hard on myself for getting confused. It's not a big

deal...and I'm not stupid for mixing up the names. I can do The Work on names

just like people did on this list earlier about misspelling names -- a strand

I was not participating in...and now here I am! : )

TA> I should not know my M names on this list better.

TA> I do know my M names on this list -- and in knowing them, I sometimes get

confused.

TA> It's ok for me to call Martha or Martha ... I can call them

Sweetie, Hunny, or Lame-o...they are just words and that was something I

addressed in that very post. Words are just words until we attach meaning to

them.

TA> /Martha will not be offended...and if they are, it's not my business.

TA> I don't have to know anything. (Here I go again with loving when things

don't even exist! Nothing to know..nothing to do.) Ahhhh.. I love it!

Love,

Another M name : )