Guest guest Posted June 15, 2002 Report Share Posted June 15, 2002 Wrote: <<<<My nada took my older daughter when she was 8 years old, and along with my bpd sis, spent the next 7 hours telling her that I needed to be committed. That I've always been different from the others in the family. Told my children that I slept with many different men, did hard drugs, spent two years drinking my life away. (all of which is NOT true) My girls heard this stuff and came right to me with it. H*ll, some of this stuff she said right in front of me and tried to convince me of as well!! Scary!! >>>> OH WENDY!!!! My worst fear in the world as my mother does this same thing! IF SHE EVER DOES THIS she is BANNED completely and totally! How very inappropriate of your mother and your sister, what the heck were they THINKING! They are not to be alone with your children, they are too sick. Actually I never did leave my children alone with my mother, and when mother would ask if she could take my kids for a ride they all would RUN away from her. Bad enough my mother was caught the DAY AFTER HER MOM dies talking all about HORRIBLE ME on the phone in my home! While I dealt with Lawyers, with the DR and was so numb I could feel nothing, oh my granny was my everything! My mom claimed she loved her mother and I am sure she did, but what is with BASHING your daughter who is doing all the work for you and your 2 sisters 6 hrs after the death??????? I suppose cause I do not get caught up in my mothers web of tales, nor do I buy into her fake insane rages. When I tell you I have been in your spot before I mean it, I HAVE~ I am so very sorry, the healthy one is the unliked one, the one who has to be messed up cause they are so messed up. That story shook me UP, no wonder why! My mom actually did something similar last summer when I had a 9 month old bambino! She screamed at me, in front of my children, called me names and so on.....Yuck, horrible scene in my house ~ You hang in there, and know you have tons of support vibes coming to you from all over the country! I AM SO sorry, and I hope nothing like that happens to you/or the children again~ Sincerely, ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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