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That's something to be proud of !??? Maybe if you live in a trailer park, or

in the hood. Come on people, we're supposed to improve ourselves as we get

older and more mature. Have a little pride in yourself. Jay

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Social graces ? Come on, you know who the queen of no social graces

is...you may join my court though.

Kathy

Re: Tethered Cord and Chiari

>

>

> I have also heard and been under the impression

> for

> quite a long time that Trauma can cause a Tether.

> A

> forceful Fall can cause sheering, which can cause

> Scar Tissue. I don't think this is very common

> though,

> but it can happen, to my knowledge.

>

> Chiari isn't always seen together with a Tethered

> Cord. But, it does seem like more are being

> Diagnosed with both..........so in time, that may

> change.

> But as of now, just because you have Chiari,

> doesn't

> mean you will have a Tethered Cord. And Visa

> Versa.

>

> Hope that made sense.

>

> Me :)

> Nebraska, USA

> mymocha@...

>

>

> If you don't mind me asking, how did your injury

> to your spinal cord occur

> and how did they find that a tether was the cause?

> Also, you wrote that you

> have Chiari ...I was under the impression (one

> impression anyway - my nsg

> feels differently) that Chiari is a " sideline " of

> congenital tether. Did

> the Chiari come from the tether (subsequent pull?)

>

>

>

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Would that make me Princess Graceless??

Dang, I just kill myself sometimes!!

--- dkmoulton wrote:

> Social graces ? Come on, you know who the

> queen of no social graces is...you may join my court

> though.

>

> Kathy

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We all have to find ways to cope. And that is just

's way.........I do not believe at all that she

was being disrespectful to anybody else who may

feel differently regarding the Subject. Just because

she is able to find Humor in it all, doesn't mean she

likes it, or that she would prefer not to have the

problem, but because she does, she has to find a

way to cope with it. Atleast that's how I took her

responses to this Subject......if that's not how you

feel, , please feel free to say so.

Me :)

Nebraska, USA

mymocha@...

> That's something to be proud of !??? Maybe if you live in a trailer park,

> or

> in the hood. Come on people, we're supposed to improve ourselves as we get

> older and more mature. Have a little pride in yourself.

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You pretty much got it, Brande. I have a sense of

humor, one that is easy to trigger, and I use it. I

joke. A lot. It isn't only a coping mechanism for

TCS, but for life. It certainly is much nicer to go

through life thinking things are funny than it is to

suffer through it humorless. At least that's how it

appears to me.

--- Brande wrote:

> We all have to find ways to cope. And that is just

> 's way.........I do not believe at all that

> she

> was being disrespectful to anybody else who may

> feel differently regarding the Subject. Just because

> she is able to find Humor in it all, doesn't mean

> she

> likes it, or that she would prefer not to have the

> problem, but because she does, she has to find a

> way to cope with it. Atleast that's how I took her

> responses to this Subject......if that's not how you

> feel, , please feel free to say so.

>

> Me :)

> Nebraska, USA

> mymocha@...

>

>

> > That's something to be proud of !??? Maybe if you

> live in a trailer park,

> > or

> > in the hood. Come on people, we're supposed to

> improve ourselves as we get

> > older and more mature. Have a little pride in

> yourself.

>

>

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Weaver said the following on 5/2/2006 10:08 PM:

> You pretty much got it, Brande. I have a sense of

> humor, one that is easy to trigger, and I use it. I

> joke. A lot. It isn't only a coping mechanism for

> TCS, but for life. It certainly is much nicer to go

> through life thinking things are funny than it is to

> suffer through it humorless. At least that's how it

> appears to me.

>

>

That's also known as a good attitude. Just think if we all thought we

were doomed and succumbed to alcohol, drugs, and TV. I had that choice,

but now I am getting off topic, so get the best out of life that you

possibly can and humor certainly helps.

R

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A sense of humour can backfire in the work environment though!

I tried to be all cheerful and getting on with it when I went back to work

after my surgery, despite the agonising and still ongoing pain (even now I

have bad days), so my colleagues thought " oh she is fixed, back to normal,

no problems " , when in fact I wasn't and I had to take yet more sick leave

to overcome new problems I encountered by pushing myself too soon.

On the other hand, in reference to my deformed feet, I make jokes about

them, and this usually diffuses the usual situation of people staring at

them, rather than being all aggressive and saying " what the h*ll are you

staring at " !

Nina

Bristol, UK

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> Weaver said the following on 5/2/2006 10:08 PM:

>> You pretty much got it, Brande. I have a sense of

>> humor, one that is easy to trigger, and I use it. I

>> joke. A lot. It isn't only a coping mechanism for

>> TCS, but for life. It certainly is much nicer to go

>> through life thinking things are funny than it is to

>> suffer through it humorless. At least that's how it

>> appears to me.

>>

>>

> That's also known as a good attitude. Just think if we all thought we

> were doomed and succumbed to alcohol, drugs, and TV. I had that choice,

> but now I am getting off topic, so get the best out of life that you

> possibly can and humor certainly helps.

>

> R

>

>

>

>

> Not Medical Advice. We Are Not Doctors.

> Need help with the list? Email

> kathy@...,michelle@..., rick@...

>

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I am cheerful at work, too, even when I feel like

hell. Even when I'd rather be at home curled up in a

ball. It helps me to be cheerful, but it does give

the impression that I'm just fine.

I have monkey feet. I have skinny, almost skeletal,

feet with long toes that don't touch each other. I

joke about my monkey toes all the time. I also joke

about my monkey ears (they stick out). I guess I joke

about everything. It's my little way of controlling

the situation. If I can joke about it, other people

won't feel they have to pretend not to notice.

And with passing gas? I'm sorry, passing gas is funny.

Little kids, as far as I'm concerned, are the best

gauge for what is truly funny because they don't have

all hang ups that our society seems to like to impose

on people. And when a little kid passes gas, it is

the funniest thing in the world to them. it's a

normal body function with an awesome sound, and if it

happens, you can't undo it. Might as well make it a

big joke!

--- " AB Bunton, Electrical & Electronic Engineering "

wrote:

> A sense of humour can backfire in the work

> environment though!

>

> I tried to be all cheerful and getting on with it

> when I went back to work

> after my surgery, despite the agonising and still

> ongoing pain (even now I

> have bad days), so my colleagues thought " oh she is

> fixed, back to normal,

> no problems " , when in fact I wasn't and I had to

> take yet more sick leave

> to overcome new problems I encountered by pushing

> myself too soon.

>

> On the other hand, in reference to my deformed feet,

> I make jokes about

> them, and this usually diffuses the usual situation

> of people staring at

> them, rather than being all aggressive and saying

> " what the h*ll are you

> staring at " !

>

> Nina

> Bristol, UK

>

>

> --On 03 May 2006 01:33 -0600 Rick

> wrote:

>

> > Weaver said the following on 5/2/2006

> 10:08 PM:

> >> You pretty much got it, Brande. I have a sense

> of

> >> humor, one that is easy to trigger, and I use it.

> I

> >> joke. A lot. It isn't only a coping mechanism

> for

> >> TCS, but for life. It certainly is much nicer to

> go

> >> through life thinking things are funny than it is

> to

> >> suffer through it humorless. At least that's how

> it

> >> appears to me.

> >>

> >>

> > That's also known as a good attitude. Just think

> if we all thought we

> > were doomed and succumbed to alcohol, drugs, and

> TV. I had that choice,

> > but now I am getting off topic, so get the best

> out of life that you

> > possibly can and humor certainly helps.

> >

> > R

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Not Medical Advice. We Are Not Doctors.

> > Need help with the list? Email

> > kathy@...,michelle@...,

> rick@...

> >

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That is so true. Just a positive attitude too can do that, nonetheless a

sense of humor. Both are still good to have.

Me :)

Nebraska, USA

mymocha@...

>A sense of humour can backfire in the work environment though!

>

> I tried to be all cheerful and getting on with it when I went back to work

> after my surgery, despite the agonising and still ongoing pain (even now I

> have bad days), so my colleagues thought " oh she is fixed, back to normal,

> no problems " , when in fact I wasn't and I had to take yet more sick leave

> to overcome new problems I encountered by pushing myself too soon.

>

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