Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Sue Prayers are going up right now. Moms are really special people. Spend as much time as you can....you won't regret it. Give her plenty of hugs and kisses. Hugs and Prayers Jacqui from So Fl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Sue- I am sad to hear that your Mother is declining so. She is fortunate to have such a caring daughter at her side. I am sure she appreciates your touch. My Dad had 2 seizures and a transient stroke about 10 days before his death. His left side was typically affected. However within 16 hrs.,the affects of the transient stroke were dissipated . He did not have much appetite , but he recovered the ability to eat and swallow. Most important, Dad remained calm and comfortable. I understand not wanting to give your Mom up just yet. I certainly felt the same way. My Dad's passing was surprisingly peaceful, but to this day, I wish I could have him back. Of course, I would bargain with God to send him back without Lewy! I will keep you in my heat, thoughts, and prayers during this difficult time. Sincerely, Gerry Wilmington, De. Daughter & caregiver of Dick Deverell, who died 9/11/05 after a more than 4 yr. battle with LBD. -------------- Original message -------------- Hi All: Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom has kept me occupied. She has made a steady decline since last Saturday and her doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news is that this group gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor aware of. He said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she has. Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I was able to feed her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up med's. and some water through a straw. She is still aware and can do some limited talking. The next couple of days will tell us what her future holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time with her as I can. Just holding her hands and looking into her beautiful blue eyes confirms that she still knows me and can understand me (for now). Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain future. I know that my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm just not ready to give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd feel the same way. Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to respond to my posts. I learned a lot in a short time and the information was invaluable. Warm thoughts, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Dear Sue So sorry to hear about your Mom. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Dena Mother (83) End stages LBD. In NH, not walking or talking. Doesn't recognize anyone anymore. --- Sue wrote: > Hi All: > > Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom > has kept me > occupied. She has made a steady decline since last > Saturday and her > doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news > is that this group > gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor > aware of. He > said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she > has. > Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I > was able to feed > her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up > med's. and some > water through a straw. She is still aware and can > do some limited > talking. The next couple of days will tell us what > her future > holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time > with her as I > can. Just holding her hands and looking into her > beautiful blue eyes > confirms that she still knows me and can understand > me (for now). > > Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain > future. I know that > my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm > just not ready to > give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd > feel the same way. > > Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to > respond to my posts. > I learned a lot in a short time and the information > was invaluable. > > Warm thoughts, > > Sue > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Dear Sue, I am so sorry. We will hold your hand, along with your Mother's, in our hearts. Prayes will be there from everyone. Please know these things in your heart, and gain strength from us that do feel for you. Love so much, Imogene Caregiver for my True Texas Gentleman husband of 35 years. He has LBD with Parkinsonism. In a message dated 9/23/2006 1:08:42 AM Central Daylight Time, smschoeller@... writes: Hi All: Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom has kept me occupied. She has made a steady decline since last Saturday and her doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news is that this group gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor aware of. He said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she has. Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I was able to feed her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up med's. and some water through a straw. She is still aware and can do some limited talking. The next couple of days will tell us what her future holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time with her as I can. Just holding her hands and looking into her beautiful blue eyes confirms that she still knows me and can understand me (for now). Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain future. I know that my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm just not ready to give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd feel the same way. Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to respond to my posts. I learned a lot in a short time and the information was invaluable. Warm thoughts, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Sue - I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's rapid decline. She will be in my thoughts and prayers. Is she still on the Sinemet? Has she been weaned off yet? That med. may be the culprit and weaning her off may be a good idea right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Dear Sue, I also send prayer's for your mom and hope shes's not in pain Its sad time for yu may GOD Bless yu in your time of need .... Eileen ....Ontario , Canada -- Re: Recent Stroke Has Given Mom Less Time Dear Sue, I am so sorry. We will hold your hand, along with your Mother's, in our hearts. Prayes will be there from everyone. Please know these things in your heart, and gain strength from us that do feel for you. Love so much, Imogene Caregiver for my True Texas Gentleman husband of 35 years. He has LBD with Parkinsonism. In a message dated 9/23/2006 1:08:42 AM Central Daylight Time, smschoeller@... writes: Hi All: Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom has kept me occupied. She has made a steady decline since last Saturday and her doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news is that this group gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor aware of. He said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she has. Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I was able to feed her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up med's. and some water through a straw. She is still aware and can do some limited talking. The next couple of days will tell us what her future holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time with her as I can. Just holding her hands and looking into her beautiful blue eyes confirms that she still knows me and can understand me (for now). Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain future. I know that my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm just not ready to give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd feel the same way. Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to respond to my posts. I learned a lot in a short time and the information was invaluable. Warm thoughts, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2006 Report Share Posted September 23, 2006 Sue -- your message reminded me of something I read yesterday -- that touch is SO important in our time w/ our LO's. The same length of time is perceived by dementia patient as much longer if there was physical contact! So keep on holding her hand, and hugging her, etc. It's good for your Mom and for you! Blessings as you hold on and let go at the same time. Susie Susie1 - thankful for each good day w/ 80 yr old Dad (dx probable LBD June 06; dx PD Aug 05; still lives alone) __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2006 Report Share Posted September 24, 2006 Dear Sue, I will keep you and your Mom in my thoughts and prayers each day. I went through the same thing with Mr. B in January. He rallied back from the stroke but not from the LBD, of course, and we had more time with him because of it. Hug your mom every chance you get. Many prayers and hugs for you, Stevie * * * * * > Dear Sue > > So sorry to hear about your Mom. I will keep you in my > thoughts and prayers. > > Dena > Mother (83) End stages LBD. In NH, not walking or > talking. Doesn't recognize anyone anymore. > > --- Sue wrote: > > > Hi All: > > > > Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom > > has kept me > > occupied. She has made a steady decline since last > > Saturday and her > > doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news > > is that this group > > gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor > > aware of. He > > said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she > > has. > > Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I > > was able to feed > > her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up > > med's. and some > > water through a straw. She is still aware and can > > do some limited > > talking. The next couple of days will tell us what > > her future > > holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time > > with her as I > > can. Just holding her hands and looking into her > > beautiful blue eyes > > confirms that she still knows me and can understand > > me (for now). > > > > Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain > > future. I know that > > my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm > > just not ready to > > give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd > > feel the same way. > > > > Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to > > respond to my posts. > > I learned a lot in a short time and the information > > was invaluable. > > > > Warm thoughts, > > > > Sue > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2006 Report Share Posted September 24, 2006 Dear Sue - We all know your mom, in a small way, of course, through you - and she and you are in all our prayers. Peace. Lin Stevie wrote: Dear Sue, I will keep you and your Mom in my thoughts and prayers each day. I went through the same thing with Mr. B in January. He rallied back from the stroke but not from the LBD, of course, and we had more time with him because of it. Hug your mom every chance you get. Many prayers and hugs for you, Stevie * * * * * > Dear Sue > > So sorry to hear about your Mom. I will keep you in my > thoughts and prayers. > > Dena > Mother (83) End stages LBD. In NH, not walking or > talking. Doesn't recognize anyone anymore. > > --- Sue wrote: > > > Hi All: > > > > Sorry I haven't kept up with all the posts but mom > > has kept me > > occupied. She has made a steady decline since last > > Saturday and her > > doctor isn't sure how long she has. The good news > > is that this group > > gave me the insight into LBD which I made the doctor > > aware of. He > > said I hit the nail on the head and that is what she > > has. > > Unfortunately she suffered a stroke yesterday. I > > was able to feed > > her chocolate pudding today complete with crushed up > > med's. and some > > water through a straw. She is still aware and can > > do some limited > > talking. The next couple of days will tell us what > > her future > > holds. I'm continuing to spend as much quality time > > with her as I > > can. Just holding her hands and looking into her > > beautiful blue eyes > > confirms that she still knows me and can understand > > me (for now). > > > > Please say a prayer for my mom and her uncertain > > future. I know that > > my dad is anxiously awaiting her arrival, but I'm > > just not ready to > > give her up yet. If you knew her, I'm sure you'd > > feel the same way. > > > > Thanks again to all of you who cared enough to > > respond to my posts. > > I learned a lot in a short time and the information > > was invaluable. > > > > Warm thoughts, > > > > Sue > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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