Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Dear Judith, Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your husband. You are so right that LBD is a horrible disease. I know you miss your Rolf, but he is at peace now. As far as the LBD Association goes, yes we have heard of it, and it is very legitimate. Several of the members of this caregiver group are responsible for the formation of the LBD Association, and involved in the day to day operation of the Association. My father just passed away in March, and donations were made to the LBD Association in his honor. It is a wonderful cause, and the donations are greatly appreciated. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Piper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Judith, Sending you my heartfelt condolences. Courage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Dear Judith,,,,, I am so sorry about the passing of your loved one , we all know he's in a better place your good care is over now your have to take care of yourself , its a hard road to travel and you did it well , Bless you and your family..... Eileen Canada -- legitimacy of LBD Association My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since then I have been reading the messages from others going through the unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he is really gone. I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. Good luck to you all, Judith Welcome to LBDcaregivers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Judith, I am truly sorry for your loss. And, at the same time for your loss of good health in caring for your loved one for so long. Please do try to let go and relax if possible. Here is the site you were Inquiring about. Donna R. always has the LBD site listed at the end of her letters, but this site will take you directly to the Donation site. _http://www.lewybodydementia.org/donation.shtml_ (http://www.lewybodydementia.org/donation.shtml) Imogene Caregiver for my True Texas Gentleman husband of 35 years. He has LBD and Parkinsonism In a message dated 5/3/2006 2:35:51 PM Central Daylight Time, judith_s@... writes: My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since then I have been reading the messages from others going through the unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he is really gone. I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. Good luck to you all, Judith Welcome to LBDcaregivers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Judith: Please accept my deepest sympathies. You are right, Rolf is o.k. It is we who are left that suffer, but we have good memories. Concentrate on those. Myrna (68) in Missouri Caregiver for Husband Jerry (70) Diagnosed AD 1997, LBD 2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Dear Judith, I send my most heartfelt condolences to you for the passing of your dear husband. And I thank you for the prayer of strength for those of us who will follow on the same path as you. Many Prayers, Love and Peace to help you get through this most difficult time, Stevie in California * * * * * * > > My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends > and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia > Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? > > My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He > was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in > denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, > but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got > sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a > nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible > disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost > mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since > then I have been reading the messages from others going through the > unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so > will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but > now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he > is really gone. > > I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments > will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. > You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in > return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I > hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years > and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. > > Good luck to you all, > > Judith > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Judith - my deepest condolences to you during this difficult time. > > My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends > and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia > Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? > > My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He > was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in > denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, > but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got > sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a > nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible > disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost > mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since > then I have been reading the messages from others going through the > unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so > will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but > now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he > is really gone. > > I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments > will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. > You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in > return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I > hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years > and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. > > Good luck to you all, > > Judith > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Judith My condolences to you. May your good memories sustain you. , borough, ON > > My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends > and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia > Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? > > My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He > was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in > denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, > but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got > sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a > nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible > disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost > mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since > then I have been reading the messages from others going through the > unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so > will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but > now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he > is really gone. > > I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments > will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. > You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in > return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I > hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years > and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. > > Good luck to you all, > > Judith > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Hi Judith My heartfelt condolences to you. Just knowing that Rolf is in a better place and free from this disease will hopefully help you deal with your loss. God Bless. Dena --- judith5s wrote: > My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would > like my friends > and relatives to donate to an organization called > Lewy Body Dementia > Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? > > My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, > perhaps more. He > was a very strong willed person and most of the time > he was in > denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms > and gradually, > but steady got worse. It really snowballed last > July and he got > sick and was taken to our local hospital and > transferred to a > nursing home where he received excellent care. It > is a horrible > disease and only my love for my husband kept me > going, but it almost > mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in > 2005 and since > then I have been reading the messages from others > going through the > unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow > prevailed and so > will all of you. Death would be the only relief for > my Rolf, but > now even though he really left me so long ago, I > need to realize he > is really gone. > > I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go > on when moments > will come when you will feel so hopeless and not > know what to do. > You all should feel proud of yourselves because you > get no reward in > return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you > going and I know I > hope I can get some of the images out of my mind > from the past years > and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. > > Good luck to you all, > > Judith > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Judith, i am so sorry that Rolf has passed. although i hope you belive as i that our loved ones become our personal guardian angels. i am glad that he is no longer suffreing as lbd is very ugly disesase. as for the LBDA. yes it is a very legitamate organization that was started by several of the early members to help everyone learn about lbd. i have had the pleasure of meeting 2 of its founders, peggy smith and jim whitworth, and when my dad passed in leiu of flowers i had donations made to lbda as well. i am glad that we did so. as maybe their donations will help more people learn about lbd and there is also a scientific board on lbda as well, with scientists and doctors trying to learn about lbd as much as possible so they can help patients have a more productive lives. again, take care, and my thoughts and prayers are with yuou hugs, sharon m pensacola florida -- Daugher of Leonard, diag May 2004, had lbd since 1993, had hip surgery from fall 7/05, aspiration pneumonia 7/05 with pulmonary embolyis, had aspiration pneumonia and uti 8/05, died of blood pressure drop on 9/25/05, may he rest in peace with his mom and dad, a smile a day keeps the meanies away ---- judith5s wrote: My husband, 84, died yesterday from LBD and I would like my friends and relatives to donate to an organization called Lewy Body Dementia Association, Inc. Has anyone heard of this charity? My husband, Rolf, had LBD for at least 5 years, perhaps more. He was a very strong willed person and most of the time he was in denial. It all started with mild Parkinson symptoms and gradually, but steady got worse. It really snowballed last July and he got sick and was taken to our local hospital and transferred to a nursing home where he received excellent care. It is a horrible disease and only my love for my husband kept me going, but it almost mentally and physically killed me. I wrote maybe in 2005 and since then I have been reading the messages from others going through the unbelievable stages of this disease. I somehow prevailed and so will all of you. Death would be the only relief for my Rolf, but now even though he really left me so long ago, I need to realize he is really gone. I pray all of you caregivers find the strength to go on when moments will come when you will feel so hopeless and not know what to do. You all should feel proud of yourselves because you get no reward in return. Your love for your LBD patient keeps you going and I know I hope I can get some of the images out of my mind from the past years and remember the Rolf I married 36 years. Good luck to you all, Judith Welcome to LBDcaregivers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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