Guest guest Posted December 7, 2006 Report Share Posted December 7, 2006 Dear J, please post your work here or at doing-the-work, and you will get support in doing the work. Or call the hotline the work (look on www.thework.org for details). Or ask to do the work on skype. Several members may be available for that. Look at previous postings to see whom you resonate most with. Try as much as you'd like. I guess that the reason it doesn't " work " for you, is your motive. It can keep you from wanting to know the truth. If I want to get something specific, I won't accept any truth that invalidates my goals. And I don't know about you. Fix your thinking first (whatever that may result in from your current point of view), then take care of your relationship. My experience is that everything follows thinking (fixed thinking -> fixed relationship). Love, PS: welcome to the group! :-) Am 07.12.2006 um 04:32 schrieb J. Storm: > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. > can > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > thanks ___________________________________________________________ Der frühe Vogel fängt den Wurm. Hier gelangen Sie zum neuen Yahoo! Mail: http://mail.yahoo.de Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2006 Report Share Posted December 7, 2006 Dear J. Storm, I have not found a way to " fix " a relationship. Though one can take a relationship -or leave it- for what it seems to be. nel In Loving-what-is , " J. Storm " wrote: > > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. can > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > thanks > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2006 Report Share Posted December 7, 2006 Yes, he has a motive As he does the work His motive is to be stress free Is it too much to ask? Tami -- Re: help Dear J, Please post your work here or at doing-the-work, and you will get Support in doing the work. Or call the hotline the work (look on www.thework.org for details). Or ask to do the work on skype. Several members may be available for That. Look at previous postings to see whom you resonate most with. Try as much as you'd like. I guess that the reason it doesn't " work " for you, is your motive. It Can keep you from wanting to know the truth. If I want to get Something specific, I won't accept any truth that invalidates my Goals. And I don't know about you. Fix your thinking first (whatever That may result in from your current point of view), then take care Of your relationship. My experience is that everything follows Thinking (fixed thinking -> fixed relationship). Love, PS: welcome to the group! :-) Am 07.12.2006 um 04:32 schrieb J. Storm: > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. > can > someone help me out and walk me through it? When I do it I get the > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. Maybe I am not going > far enough? I want to learn so I can fix my relationship. > thanks ___________________________________________________________ Der fr|he Vogel fdngt den Wurm. Hier gelangen Sie zum neuen Yahoo! Mail: http://mail.yahoo.de Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2006 Report Share Posted December 7, 2006 Well, finding the truth is pretty stress free, so far. Have a motive. You must know whether it keeps you from going inside. Love, Am 07.12.2006 um 20:55 schrieb Tami: > Yes, he has a motive > As he does the work > His motive is to be stress free > Is it too much to ask? > > Tami > > > -- Re: help > > Dear J, > > Please post your work here or at doing-the-work, and you will get > Support in doing the work. Or call the hotline the work (look on > www.thework.org for details). > > Or ask to do the work on skype. Several members may be available for > That. Look at previous postings to see whom you resonate most with. > > Try as much as you'd like. > > I guess that the reason it doesn't " work " for you, is your motive. It > Can keep you from wanting to know the truth. If I want to get > Something specific, I won't accept any truth that invalidates my > Goals. And I don't know about you. Fix your thinking first (whatever > That may result in from your current point of view), then take care > Of your relationship. My experience is that everything follows > Thinking (fixed thinking -> fixed relationship). > > Love, > > > PS: welcome to the group! :-) > > Am 07.12.2006 um 04:32 schrieb J. Storm: > >> I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. >> can >> someone help me out and walk me through it? When I do it I get the >> answers but the answer is not sticking with me. Maybe I am not going >> far enough? I want to learn so I can fix my relationship. >> thanks ___________________________________________________________ Der frühe Vogel fängt den Wurm. Hier gelangen Sie zum neuen Yahoo! Mail: http://mail.yahoo.de Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2006 Report Share Posted December 8, 2006 > Don't be a " wise guy " ok > You know what he meant! > > T Tami, yes i do play the wise guy until i am more " comfortable " with what i am doing at the time. What i am trying out right now- " this week's project " - is to drop the relationship, rather than making the other person do what i want. thank you for your confidence that i can know what anyone would mean! I -just- guess that she/he wants a happy relationship through the Work. > Dear J. Storm, > I have not found a way to " fix " a relationship. > Though one can take a relationship -or leave it- for what it seems to be. > nel > > In Loving-what-is , " J. Storm " <storm_82@> wrote: > > > > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. can > > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > > thanks > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2006 Report Share Posted December 8, 2006 tami.. sounds like you took offense with nels email.. well i could be wrong maybe you didnt .. I thought it was a great comment. WE cant fix relationships only our thinking . Which is great for me to hear as i am having a problem with a client of mine.. She has a bad attitude and i have a bad attitude right back.. I guess i need to change my attitude towards her first. She thinks i yawn too much.. among other things. i think shes nuts.. oh well.. roslyn --- In Loving-what-is , Tami wrote: > > Nel > > Don't be a " wise guy " ok > You know what he meant! > > T > -- Re: help > > Dear J. Storm, > I have not found a way to " fix " a relationship. > Though one can take a relationship -or leave it- for what it seems to be. > nel > > In Loving-what-is , " J. Storm " <storm_82@> wrote: > > > > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. can > > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > > thanks > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2006 Report Share Posted December 8, 2006 Roslyn, Yes, I agree, it was a great comment. Steve D. > > > > > > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. > can > > > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > > > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > > > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > > > thanks > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2006 Report Share Posted December 8, 2006 Dear Storm, You need to fix your relationship, Can you really know that that is true? Can you really know that that is you or your partner's highest good? How does it make you feel when you believe that you need to fix your relationship? Can you see a reason that you might want to drop that thought, and I am not asking you to drop it? Can you find one peaceful reason to keep this belief? How would you feel or how would your relationship look without this belief? Turn that statement around " I need to fix my relationship " and see if it could be as true or truer? Steve D. > > I am just not getting the process and I need help with my problem. can > someone help me out and walk me through it? when I do it i get the > answers but the answer is not sticking with me. maybe i am not going > far enough? i want to learn so i can fix my relationship. > thanks > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 9, 2006 Report Share Posted December 9, 2006 > > Nel > > Don't be a " wise guy " ok > You know what he meant! > > T Tami, Thank you for being the 'wise guy' moderator in our forum. And thank you so much for never being a 'wise' guy in here. I think I speak for most here in expressing our appreciation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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