Guest guest Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 , you are so smart! When you put things the way you did... I love to be touched on my belly That turns me on. So there is no way that my boyfriend would miss it, right, ? T -- Re: Secrets - HELP Dear , you could try with one of the excercises from " I need your love " - like " Things I don't want you to know " or " letter of apology " Or you could try with: I don't want Hans to know about how that chat with a stranger turned me on. Is that true? You don't want him to know what turns you on? Love, Am 31.03.2006 um 15:50 schrieb : > Hi all! > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would come > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, especially > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him and > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > thoroughly. > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > fantasy on internet. > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > Thank you so much, > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Hi This is how I would handle it. If I had impure thought about another man than my boyfriend since I know it can happen, like I can be always attracted to more than one man, I dont see a problem in that. I will just let him know about what happened: I was talking to this guy I felt horney, bla bla bla I wanted him to fuck me. bla bla bla However, I love you and I have no interest in him. I feel guity for being attracted to another man I want a hug How do you feel about what I told you Do you want me to stop talking to him? Love, T > Hi all! > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would come > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, especially > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him and > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > thoroughly. > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > fantasy on internet. > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > Thank you so much, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Dear , you could try with one of the excercises from " I need your love " - like " Things I don't want you to know " or " letter of apology " Or you could try with: I don't want Hans to know about how that chat with a stranger turned me on. Is that true? You don't want him to know what turns you on? Love, Am 31.03.2006 um 15:50 schrieb : > Hi all! > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would come > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, especially > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him and > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > thoroughly. > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > fantasy on internet. > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > Thank you so much, > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 Keeping secrets is bad. Is that true? Can you know absolutely for certain that it is? Cuz it sounds like a part of you is sure having some fun with doing just that. Hans and I have been having internet sex for quite a while now, and oh my is it HOT HOT HOT! Has he told you about this?? I don't think it's about secrets, I think you are yet hung up on sexual stuff. Having sex with everyone and everything on the planet is bad. Is that true? What would be the turnaround? p.s. When do you want to make some time for you and me to do some dirty talking girl to girl?????? Maximum > > Hi all! > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would come > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, especially > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him and > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > thoroughly. > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > fantasy on internet. > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > Thank you so much, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Share Posted March 31, 2006 --withhold: an overt a person has committed but is not talking about; an unspoken, unannounced transgression against a moral code by which a person was bound. Any withhold comes after an overt. See also overt in this glossary. overt: a harmful act or a transgression against the moral code of a group. When a person does something that is contrary to the moral code he has agreed to, or when he omits to do something that he should have done per that moral code, he has committed an overt. An overt violates what was agreed upon. An overt can be intentional or unintentional. BAsically this is just an opinon and it seems to me that if you and Hans had rules not to communicate with anyone else it would be bad.. but if there are no rules i dont see a problem. This made me realize why i quit my job i committed overts. In not following orders about one client. bummer . I dont see any harm in what you did . love roslyn - In Loving-what-is , " " wrote: > > Keeping secrets is bad. > > Is that true? > > Can you know absolutely for certain that it is? > > Cuz it sounds like a part of you is sure having some fun with doing > just that. > > Hans and I have been having internet sex for quite a while now, and > oh my is it HOT HOT HOT! Has he told you about this?? > > I don't think it's about secrets, I think you are yet hung up on > sexual stuff. > > Having sex with everyone and everything on the planet is bad. > > Is that true? What would be the turnaround? > > p.s. When do you want to make some time for you and me to do some > dirty talking girl to girl?????? > > Maximum > > > > > > Hi all! > > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would > come > > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, > especially > > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him > and > > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We > wrote > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and > eachother > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > > thoroughly. > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have > done, > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real > life > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > > fantasy on internet. > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > Thank you so much, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 Dear , I have a secret for you. Shhhh. You turned you on. What did it have to do with your internet friend? Love, nne > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > thoroughly. > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > fantasy on internet. > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > Thank you so much, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 Thank you honey and you´re the best! > > Hi > > This is how I would handle it. > If I had impure thought about another man than my boyfriend > since I know it can happen, like I can be always attracted to more > than one man, I dont see a problem in that. > I will just let him know about what happened: > I was talking to this guy > I felt horney, bla bla bla > I wanted him to fuck me. bla bla bla > However, I love you and I have no interest in him. > > I feel guity for being attracted to another man > I want a hug > > How do you feel about what I told you > Do you want me to stop talking to him? > > Love, T > > > Hi all! > > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t > like > > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would > come > > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, > especially > > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him > and > > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the > same > > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box > was > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We > wrote > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and > eachother > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard > and > > thoroughly. > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have > done, > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real > life > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, > this > > fantasy on internet. > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > Thank you so much, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 No, that wasn´t true. I want him to know that. So I told him everything. And I feel so reliefed now. Thank you! > > Dear , > > you could try with one of the excercises from " I need your love " - > like " Things I don't want you to know " or " letter of apology " > > Or you could try with: I don't want Hans to know about how that chat > with a stranger turned me on. > Is that true? > You don't want him to know what turns you on? > > Love, > > > Am 31.03.2006 um 15:50 schrieb : > > > Hi all! > > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would come > > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, especially > > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him and > > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > > thoroughly. > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > > fantasy on internet. > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > Thank you so much, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 > > > > Hi all! > > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would > come > > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, > especially > > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him > and > > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We > wrote > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and > eachother > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > > thoroughly. > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have > done, > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real > life > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > > fantasy on internet. > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > Thank you so much, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 > > > > > > Hi all! > > > I have a little problem that I want to share with you. I don´t like > > > secrets. Well, sometimes I don´t care, like if a stranger would > > come > > > up to me in the streets, asking intimate question, then maybe I > > > would like to keep some " secrets " and would probably be feeling ok > > > about it. But with Hans I have no secrets about myself. I tell him > > > basically everything there is to know. I don´t know if he does the > > > same but when I try to have a secret from him I feel bad, > > especially > > > if I know that he wouldn´t approve with it. So I always tell him > > and > > > if he doesn´t like it I often don´t do it. And this is not the same > > > thing as when I said " I wan´t another dog " , and I definitly didn´t > > > have Hans approval, but I got myself another dog anyway. > > > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We > > wrote > > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and > > eachother > > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > > > thoroughly. > > > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have > > done, > > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real > > life > > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > > > fantasy on internet. > > > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > > > Thank you so much, > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Share Posted April 1, 2006 Hi sweetheart, I know, nothing! Love you, maria > > Dear , > > I have a secret for you. > > Shhhh. > > You turned you on. > > What did it have to do with your internet friend? > > Love, nne > > > > Today I was at my Swedish internet community and in my mail box was > > a sweet mail from a guy who thought I was very pretty. And we > > started talking. Mostly when men are flirting they are too direct. > > They want to talk in webcam immediately or show their dicks or > > become too much in one way or another. But this guy was very > > discreet and sweet. He knew I was engaged and I wanted it careful > > so he was very careful. And that made it even more exiting. We wrote > > forth and back for maybe an hour and we turned ourself and eachother > > on, big time. I was so horny! I just wanted him to fuck me hard and > > thoroughly. > > > > And Hans was lying in the next room sleeping. I feel guilty > > everytime I think about this.The worst thing isn´t what I have done, > > but I now have a big secret from Hans. This is sometimh that he > > would not approveof, feel hurt by, and wanted me to stop with. And > > I´m not sure I want stop. I don´t want to meet this guy in real life > > though or have phone contact with him. I just want this flirt, this > > fantasy on internet. > > > > Can you please give me advice, thoughts, critisism, your view, > > anything that comes to you my after reading this! > > > > Thank you so much, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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