A tale of 2 neighbors

[Guest guest]

This is a tale 2 neighbors, one lady was happy despite trials in her

early life. The other is an angry bitter complicated woman. In the

beginning they could share a hello and let the children play and

even when bitter woman was having a good day she didn't mind sharing

a cup of coffee with her fellow neighbors. But as the happy lady

developed more and more friendships with more and more happy

neighbors just like herself, bitter woman grew jealous. All the

happy neighbors would sit outside together and share a beverage they

would wave together at bitter woman and invite her over to sit with

them she would place her hands on her hips and ignore them walking

away to sit alone on her porch. The happy neighbors thought she was

strange but thought maybe she was going through a phase. Maybe it

was abnormally long PMS. Nobody could figure it out. Bitter woman

grew more and more bitter. She even grew bitter to happy ladies

children and was very rude to them, this concerned happy lady. Then

one day one happy neighbor said to happy lady " I think the bitter

woman wants you all to herself and if she can't have you then she is

mad! She is jealous of all of us being friends. " The happy lady

said " I think you are right " . The happy lady along with all the

other happy neighbors continued to wave and bitter woman continued

to turn her back. To this day happy lady is waiting for the massive

explosion from bitter woman because she knows how these things work.

Nobody knows when it will be but everybody knows it is coming!

Just an update on my OCD,(I think) BP crazy neighbor who is now

turning her back to all neighbors when they wave! She won't even

answer the door now when the kids knock to see if her kids can play!

She looks at them through the glass door turns her back to them and

walks away! I have decided to continue to be kind to her children. I

didn't even strangle her son when he scratched my car (it's a lease

and only 2 years old) and woke me up at 7:30 in the morning from

ringing my bell OVER 40 TIMES! Before I could even answer it! Talk

about rude! I just keep on giving her kids freezes and candies and

letting them play over, unlike her she won't even acknowledge

anybody but I am not giving her a reason to blow I won't even talk

to her. I feel like I am walking on eggshells again. Am I in trouble

if I talk to her am I in trouble if I don't? Well to be frank I

don't give a crap! I am so sick of dealing with bps I am not putting

up with the manipulation and putting enough is enough she can talk

to me if she is normal otherwise good-bye! If I won't talk to my own

mother why the hell would I talk to her? Anyways my radar was right

she is a few fries short of a happy meal. I should have known right

away when she was out there talking to that pervert Santa forever

this past spring that I wrote in about. YUK! Well anyways. Just

wanted to give you an update. Lizzy

[Guest guest]

Lizzy, good for you for not treating the kids any differently,

although I don't know if I wouldn't say anything about their manners

to them! My nada is just like this lady. Very jealous, she thinks

all the neighbors are always talking about her, etc. Once she makes

a neighbor friend I can always predict how it will end. They are so

wonderful, then they are doing this and now they are so terrible.

Just remember this is not a reflection of you. Hang out with who you

like and who you feel comfortable with. Don't wave if it's not

acknowledged. Secretly, every time she doesn't wave back isn't it a

let down for you? You don't owe this lady a single darn thing.

Friendship is something that is a two way street. She obviously

triggers some emotions for you, but now you are a stronger and

different person and you don't need her acceptance. Maybe she can

start a miserable neighbor club? Members 1.

Lori

>

> This is a tale 2 neighbors, one lady was happy despite trials in

her

> early life. The other is an angry bitter complicated woman. In the

> beginning they could share a hello and let the children play and

> even when bitter woman was having a good day she didn't mind

sharing

> a cup of coffee with her fellow neighbors. But as the happy lady

> developed more and more friendships with more and more happy

> neighbors just like herself, bitter woman grew jealous. All the

> happy neighbors would sit outside together and share a beverage

they

> would wave together at bitter woman and invite her over to sit

with

> them she would place her hands on her hips and ignore them walking

> away to sit alone on her porch. The happy neighbors thought she

was

> strange but thought maybe she was going through a phase. Maybe it

> was abnormally long PMS. Nobody could figure it out. Bitter woman

> grew more and more bitter. She even grew bitter to happy ladies

> children and was very rude to them, this concerned happy lady.

Then

> one day one happy neighbor said to happy lady " I think the bitter

> woman wants you all to herself and if she can't have you then she

is

> mad! She is jealous of all of us being friends. " The happy lady

> said " I think you are right " . The happy lady along with all the

> other happy neighbors continued to wave and bitter woman continued

> to turn her back. To this day happy lady is waiting for the

massive

> explosion from bitter woman because she knows how these things

work.

> Nobody knows when it will be but everybody knows it is coming!

>

> Just an update on my OCD,(I think) BP crazy neighbor who is now

> turning her back to all neighbors when they wave! She won't even

> answer the door now when the kids knock to see if her kids can

play!

> She looks at them through the glass door turns her back to them

and

> walks away! I have decided to continue to be kind to her children.

I

> didn't even strangle her son when he scratched my car (it's a

lease

> and only 2 years old) and woke me up at 7:30 in the morning from

> ringing my bell OVER 40 TIMES! Before I could even answer it! Talk

> about rude! I just keep on giving her kids freezes and candies

and

> letting them play over, unlike her she won't even acknowledge

> anybody but I am not giving her a reason to blow I won't even talk

> to her. I feel like I am walking on eggshells again. Am I in

trouble

> if I talk to her am I in trouble if I don't? Well to be frank I

> don't give a crap! I am so sick of dealing with bps I am not

putting

> up with the manipulation and putting enough is enough she can talk

> to me if she is normal otherwise good-bye! If I won't talk to my

own

> mother why the hell would I talk to her? Anyways my radar was

right

> she is a few fries short of a happy meal. I should have known

right

> away when she was out there talking to that pervert Santa forever

> this past spring that I wrote in about. YUK! Well anyways. Just

> wanted to give you an update. Lizzy

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Lori, I always feel children are innocent to parents stupid ways.

And even though some parents can condition their children to be rude

it is still not the child's fault so that is why I feel the need to

be kind. I think if I wasn't something would be wrong with me. I

also don't make a point to talk about her odd behavior to others but

often we are together in groups of 3 or so and she will do something

really rude to all 3 of us and we all se the bad behavior. So we

can't help but notice! Her latest was today we were both driving on

the same street in the neighborhood and as we passed each other, I

waved she literally ducked under her steering wheel. It was like a

toddler playing peek-a-boo and they think you can't see them if they

close their eyes. I am still oblivious to why she could possibly be

mad at me. But with a bp you typically never do anything. I will

continue to wave if it is convenient I just don't want to give the

time bomb a reason to blow. Like I said I feel like I am walking on

eggshells here. Waving isn't too hard for me, unlike her. If she

doesn't wave I really don't care it doesn't bother me. I just shows

me how wacko she is, even her husband made comment to me about her

strange behavior before. So if he said thing to me and my husband

and the neighbor lady to things must be pretty darn bad! In the mean

time my motto is smile and wave! Lizzy

> >

> > This is a tale 2 neighbors, one lady was happy despite trials in

> her

> > early life. The other is an angry bitter complicated woman. In

the

> > beginning they could share a hello and let the children play and

> > even when bitter woman was having a good day she didn't mind

> sharing

> > a cup of coffee with her fellow neighbors. But as the happy lady

> > developed more and more friendships with more and more happy

> > neighbors just like herself, bitter woman grew jealous. All the

> > happy neighbors would sit outside together and share a beverage

> they

> > would wave together at bitter woman and invite her over to sit

> with

> > them she would place her hands on her hips and ignore them

walking

> > away to sit alone on her porch. The happy neighbors thought she

> was

> > strange but thought maybe she was going through a phase. Maybe

it

> > was abnormally long PMS. Nobody could figure it out. Bitter

woman

> > grew more and more bitter. She even grew bitter to happy ladies

> > children and was very rude to them, this concerned happy lady.

> Then

> > one day one happy neighbor said to happy lady " I think the

bitter

> > woman wants you all to herself and if she can't have you then

she

> is

> > mad! She is jealous of all of us being friends. " The happy lady

> > said " I think you are right " . The happy lady along with all the

> > other happy neighbors continued to wave and bitter woman

continued

> > to turn her back. To this day happy lady is waiting for the

> massive

> > explosion from bitter woman because she knows how these things

> work.

> > Nobody knows when it will be but everybody knows it is coming!

> >

> > Just an update on my OCD,(I think) BP crazy neighbor who is now

> > turning her back to all neighbors when they wave! She won't even

> > answer the door now when the kids knock to see if her kids can

> play!

> > She looks at them through the glass door turns her back to them

> and

> > walks away! I have decided to continue to be kind to her

children.

> I

> > didn't even strangle her son when he scratched my car (it's a

> lease

> > and only 2 years old) and woke me up at 7:30 in the morning from

> > ringing my bell OVER 40 TIMES! Before I could even answer it!

Talk

> > about rude! I just keep on giving her kids freezes and candies

> and

> > letting them play over, unlike her she won't even acknowledge

> > anybody but I am not giving her a reason to blow I won't even

talk

> > to her. I feel like I am walking on eggshells again. Am I in

> trouble

> > if I talk to her am I in trouble if I don't? Well to be frank I

> > don't give a crap! I am so sick of dealing with bps I am not

> putting

> > up with the manipulation and putting enough is enough she can

talk

> > to me if she is normal otherwise good-bye! If I won't talk to my

> own

> > mother why the hell would I talk to her? Anyways my radar was

> right

> > she is a few fries short of a happy meal. I should have known

> right

> > away when she was out there talking to that pervert Santa

forever

> > this past spring that I wrote in about. YUK! Well anyways. Just

> > wanted to give you an update. Lizzy

> >

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