Guest guest Posted September 14, 2002 Report Share Posted September 14, 2002 Dear I can so empathise with your emotions regarding Hannah, I have been there with Isaac - somewhere along the road, I had to acquire the ability to detach - but to detach with love. I mean that, I just had to accept that all of the things that happen to Isaac are beyond my control and all I can really do is love him, I cannot change any of it and neither can anyone else. All I can do for Isaac is to keep him warm and fed and as comfortable as possible and just to love him, for as long as it takes. This journey with our children is all about acceptance, you get there when you get there, you can't hurry it! Once you are able to 'give in', NOT 'GIVE UP', just 'give in' - life does become a little easier. It wasn't until I had Elijah (a year on Monday!) that I realized how silently angry I had been about everything in my life, all stemming from Isaacs disorder, I only realised this because I now feel so much calmer and I suppose accepting of my life and accepting of Isaacs life too. Hang in there ! Love Kate _________________________________________________________________ Chat with friends online, try MSN Messenger: http://messenger.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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