Guest guest Posted June 18, 2003 Report Share Posted June 18, 2003 My birthday isn't until June 24 but thanks for the pre-unless there is a second ine on this list. ine N wrote: Happy Birthday ine! Have a good one! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2003 Report Share Posted June 18, 2003 OK so I am early, just trying to catch up so much I am by-passing myself LOL LOL Have a good one girl! Nola -- Re: ine My birthday isn't until June 24 but thanks for the pre-unless there is a second ine on this list. ine N wrote: Happy Birthday ine! Have a good one! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2003 Report Share Posted June 18, 2003 ine, no it was definitely for you!! We slipped up and sent it a little early -- cause we wanted to be sure we didn't get busy, and miss it!!! Have a wonderful, very special birthday from all of the affirmations gang!! Love & Hugs, PJ ine Tague wrote:My birthday isn't until June 24 but thanks for the pre-unless there is a second ine on this list. ine N wrote: Happy Birthday ine! Have a good one! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2003 Report Share Posted June 18, 2003 ine, no it was definitely for you!! We slipped up and sent it a little early -- cause we wanted to be sure we didn't get busy, and miss it!!! Have a wonderful, very special birthday from all of the affirmations gang!! Love & Hugs, PJ ine Tague wrote:My birthday isn't until June 24 but thanks for the pre-unless there is a second ine on this list. ine N wrote: Happy Birthday ine! Have a good one! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2003 Report Share Posted August 22, 2003 ine, I frequently find that after you've helped someone and had that " high " that you get from doing something good, that a downer or a negative bla side comes next. But, don't get discouraged, as it will improve and go back up also! Kinda like a see-saw, up and down, up and down,...etc. Just keep thinking good thoughts and doing what you can. So many people these days are really bummed out, and feeling discouraged. There is a lot of hopeless people out there. But, you can choose to be on top and think yourself back into good times! Keep hanging in there!! PJ ine Tague wrote: Well, it's 4:00 in the morning. I've been hyper for 3 days, then I got real depressed because of the negative people I live around and now I can't sleep. No one around. The worse time of the night is this hour of the morning. Normal people sleep. I'm just feel crazy. Don't know what to do with myself. When day hits I'm going to call the senior community center and see what they have available to volunteer for. Hope they aren't structured and bitchy. That won't work. Just want to get out and be with humans that are some what nice. The way these people in my apartment complex complain it's no wonder they don't all kill themselves. It felt so good to help during the power outage that now I am on a downer with nothing to do. And then when I hear people complaining it makes me sick. Either people say nothing good or they complain. I'll say neutral, general, positive comments and everyone gets quiet. I don't know...............ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2003 Report Share Posted August 22, 2003 ine, I frequently find that after you've helped someone and had that " high " that you get from doing something good, that a downer or a negative bla side comes next. But, don't get discouraged, as it will improve and go back up also! Kinda like a see-saw, up and down, up and down,...etc. Just keep thinking good thoughts and doing what you can. So many people these days are really bummed out, and feeling discouraged. There is a lot of hopeless people out there. But, you can choose to be on top and think yourself back into good times! Keep hanging in there!! PJ ine Tague wrote: Well, it's 4:00 in the morning. I've been hyper for 3 days, then I got real depressed because of the negative people I live around and now I can't sleep. No one around. The worse time of the night is this hour of the morning. Normal people sleep. I'm just feel crazy. Don't know what to do with myself. When day hits I'm going to call the senior community center and see what they have available to volunteer for. Hope they aren't structured and bitchy. That won't work. Just want to get out and be with humans that are some what nice. The way these people in my apartment complex complain it's no wonder they don't all kill themselves. It felt so good to help during the power outage that now I am on a downer with nothing to do. And then when I hear people complaining it makes me sick. Either people say nothing good or they complain. I'll say neutral, general, positive comments and everyone gets quiet. I don't know...............ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2003 Report Share Posted August 22, 2003 ine, I frequently find that after you've helped someone and had that " high " that you get from doing something good, that a downer or a negative bla side comes next. But, don't get discouraged, as it will improve and go back up also! Kinda like a see-saw, up and down, up and down,...etc. Just keep thinking good thoughts and doing what you can. So many people these days are really bummed out, and feeling discouraged. There is a lot of hopeless people out there. But, you can choose to be on top and think yourself back into good times! Keep hanging in there!! PJ ine Tague wrote: Well, it's 4:00 in the morning. I've been hyper for 3 days, then I got real depressed because of the negative people I live around and now I can't sleep. No one around. The worse time of the night is this hour of the morning. Normal people sleep. I'm just feel crazy. Don't know what to do with myself. When day hits I'm going to call the senior community center and see what they have available to volunteer for. Hope they aren't structured and bitchy. That won't work. Just want to get out and be with humans that are some what nice. The way these people in my apartment complex complain it's no wonder they don't all kill themselves. It felt so good to help during the power outage that now I am on a downer with nothing to do. And then when I hear people complaining it makes me sick. Either people say nothing good or they complain. I'll say neutral, general, positive comments and everyone gets quiet. I don't know...............ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 29, 2003 Report Share Posted August 29, 2003 I know what is available to me during the day as far as a ride. I will enquire if there is anything ride wise at night. You be surprised how very few care about the mentally ill in my area. they are cutting funding alot. They want to bury us all. ine medictee <no_reply > wrote:Hi, ine: Do you have a Telecare or Distress Centre listing in the front of your phone book. They have all kinds of resources at their fingertips for your area. You have may have other options you haven't considered yet in terms of rides, support, etc. I volunteered for Telecare in here in Brampton and we often hooked people up with rides, other organizations, etc., whatever could help them. There is a plethora of volunteer agencies out there who can help and enjoy doing it. Good luck. Love, Dale > Well, I'm angry, depressed, feel usless, empty, lonely..........I finally decided that perhaps maybe if I found a class to take somewhere I could go by bus and meet people and find more things to do that I could enjoy. All classes are in the evening when I can't go-no car or are scrapbooking which I extremely detest. Or I can't get to the places. I feel so hopeless. I can't stand my life anymore. How much loneliness can you handle? I have my aggriphobia again so it is hard to get out. I feel like I am in a jail................I feel so inadequate that I can't even crochet by myself. I need people around me--mommies. pauline > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2003 Report Share Posted September 17, 2003 ine, It sounds like your on the right road. I wish you all the luck. I know you will find the correct mix of medications for yourself and I see you doing many good things for others as well. Keep your chin up girl, your working hard at it right now. Stay positive, I know its hard..Many Hugs...Nola Well, I saw my therapist and everyone. I need to let the change of meds go through their cycle. One of the new meds had a bad effect and has made me hyper. The crying if fine. I've been afraid so that makes it worse. The cutting was a way of controling my emotions because I feel so out of control But I'm to not change anything now and let my body go through what it is. I am cutting down on meds I've been on for about 3 or more years. Today, still hyper and just trying to handle it. Know is OK to cry. That frightened me. Never cry(past) . Know it is temporary. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2003 Report Share Posted September 17, 2003 ine, It sounds like your on the right road. I wish you all the luck. I know you will find the correct mix of medications for yourself and I see you doing many good things for others as well. Keep your chin up girl, your working hard at it right now. Stay positive, I know its hard..Many Hugs...Nola Well, I saw my therapist and everyone. I need to let the change of meds go through their cycle. One of the new meds had a bad effect and has made me hyper. The crying if fine. I've been afraid so that makes it worse. The cutting was a way of controling my emotions because I feel so out of control But I'm to not change anything now and let my body go through what it is. I am cutting down on meds I've been on for about 3 or more years. Today, still hyper and just trying to handle it. Know is OK to cry. That frightened me. Never cry(past) . Know it is temporary. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2003 Report Share Posted September 17, 2003 ine, It sounds like your on the right road. I wish you all the luck. I know you will find the correct mix of medications for yourself and I see you doing many good things for others as well. Keep your chin up girl, your working hard at it right now. Stay positive, I know its hard..Many Hugs...Nola Well, I saw my therapist and everyone. I need to let the change of meds go through their cycle. One of the new meds had a bad effect and has made me hyper. The crying if fine. I've been afraid so that makes it worse. The cutting was a way of controling my emotions because I feel so out of control But I'm to not change anything now and let my body go through what it is. I am cutting down on meds I've been on for about 3 or more years. Today, still hyper and just trying to handle it. Know is OK to cry. That frightened me. Never cry(past) . Know it is temporary. ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, this sounds like good advice to me. I think Kassandra may be on to something that would help that situation. Give it a try! Hugs, PJ Kassandra Calhoun wrote:Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, this sounds like good advice to me. I think Kassandra may be on to something that would help that situation. Give it a try! Hugs, PJ Kassandra Calhoun wrote:Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, this sounds like good advice to me. I think Kassandra may be on to something that would help that situation. Give it a try! Hugs, PJ Kassandra Calhoun wrote:Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, Sorry about the Ambien. :-( As for the old guy, why get depressed over it? Okay he's not doing what you want but why let ruin your life? Is he worth it? Nope. Just let it go. You worry too much, you need to learn to take a deep breath and just let it go. You are loved and taken care of by a Spirit higher than yourself, this group, or anyone else. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a > day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me > sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, > crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with > someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to > take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I > was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love > me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk > for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my > feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was > taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so > along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would > take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be > appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in > the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home > and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being > alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe > with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be > touched by a man unless I have given permission and I > don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, Sorry about the Ambien. :-( As for the old guy, why get depressed over it? Okay he's not doing what you want but why let ruin your life? Is he worth it? Nope. Just let it go. You worry too much, you need to learn to take a deep breath and just let it go. You are loved and taken care of by a Spirit higher than yourself, this group, or anyone else. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a > day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me > sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, > crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with > someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to > take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I > was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love > me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk > for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my > feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was > taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so > along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would > take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be > appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in > the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home > and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being > alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe > with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be > touched by a man unless I have given permission and I > don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, Listen to you talk... " I am so depressed over it " You have set yourself up for your destiny all ready by negative thinking. Instead say " This too will pass " or " I am strong and I will get through this " or " I am whole with myself and no one can make me feel negative or depressed with myself " Etc.. There are so many I use myself but you really need to see what you are saying to yourself. Stay positive, think positive because you are defining your future here. You ARE what YOU think....Nola -- Re: Re: ine Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, Listen to you talk... " I am so depressed over it " You have set yourself up for your destiny all ready by negative thinking. Instead say " This too will pass " or " I am strong and I will get through this " or " I am whole with myself and no one can make me feel negative or depressed with myself " Etc.. There are so many I use myself but you really need to see what you are saying to yourself. Stay positive, think positive because you are defining your future here. You ARE what YOU think....Nola -- Re: Re: ine Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2003 Report Share Posted September 24, 2003 ine, Listen to you talk... " I am so depressed over it " You have set yourself up for your destiny all ready by negative thinking. Instead say " This too will pass " or " I am strong and I will get through this " or " I am whole with myself and no one can make me feel negative or depressed with myself " Etc.. There are so many I use myself but you really need to see what you are saying to yourself. Stay positive, think positive because you are defining your future here. You ARE what YOU think....Nola -- Re: Re: ine Well, I got the Ambien-and had little effect. Made me dizzy. Slept 4 hours. Used to knock me out also. Seeing my psy on am emergency. They made the appt yesterday. As for the old man. I have told him exactly the way you said 4 times and it doesn't do any good...........I am so depressed over it. ine Kassandra Calhoun wrote: Hi ine, I hope your psy gives you the Ambien - that stuff works! When my mom was dying I couldn't sleep, too stressed and jumped at every noise. The drs gave her Ambien months before and I eneded up taking half a pill and *boom* instant coma! One of the best night's of sleep I think I've ever got. Anywho, with the " dirty old man " here's something you can try. Be honest. Don't call him names, don't get mad at him. In his mind he's a hot stud out on the town with a younger woman, and having a grand ole time. Come on, he's 86 and still feeling frisky, gotta give him points for that! :-) LOL Reminds me of the joke of the guy going into a Catholic confessional: " Father I'm 86 years old, married, have four children and eleven grandchildren. Last night I hooked up with two 18 year old, hot blonde girls, we drank and made love all night. " " Well my son, when was the last time you've been to confession? " " Father I've never been. I'm Jewish! " " Then why are you telling me? " " Because I'm going around and telling everyone! " ~~~ No I'm not making light of your situation, just thought I'd share a funny joke. But back to your predicament... Tell him you enjoy his company, you apprecaite him for giving you a lift around town, but because of certain happenings in your life you don't like to be touched unless you say it's okay. Tell him that his bawdy talk upsets you and would he please respect your feelings. Because of his kindness to you (giving you a lift) he does deserve to be appreciated, and you'll continue to bake for him. Compliment him that at his age he still feels young enough to want to " court " you, but you're just not ready and need to heal from past hurts. Nothing you do is meant to tease or being mean, and you're not sending him any " signals. " Honesty is always the best policy, especially with men, and doubly-so in a potential sexual situation. Men can't read minds, they can't take hints, or they take the wrong hints. Be blunt, yet kind. You might have to explain it a time or two, some men can be slow at grasping the concept. The best tactic with men is give them the " Do this... " and the " Don't do this... " list. They say the biggest problem between men and women is communication. Well yeah. Women (for the most part) speak in subtle tones, hint and are not direct. Then women get mad because the men don't do what we want them to. The men on the other hand, don't hear or get the hints or the subtle talk so they don't know what we want them to do. Men don't seem to understand that " The car made a weird noise, " actually means " The car won't get out of it's own way when I stomp on the gas and the belt whines when it finally does. Get off the couch and look at it now before I have a heart attack the next time I have to drive the stupid thing! " Since men won't ever understand " woman speak " the women have to learn to speak " man " so they can understand us. Try telling him what you want and need in his language and see what happens. I do wish you the best of luck. These situations are never very fun, especially when you can't just ignore the guy. And remember you're never alone. (( hugs )) ~ Kassandra > Hi, well I thought I would let you know what is going on. After a day of arguiing and begging my psy gave me some Ambien to help me sleep. I was ready to call him supervisor. Well, been praying, crying, reading all the affirmations. I do have a problem with someone in the building. He is 86 and is dating someone and likes to take me on errands but doesn't see it as just friends. Last time I was crying and he was to put his arm around me and hold me and love me. I said no. He got mad and said I was being mean. We didn't talk for a week, I wrote him a mean note that he didin't respect my feelings and that he was a dirty old man. Then for the week I was taking buses everyone. My body is so stressed doing it. I feel so along doing it. Couldn't handle it. So today I asked if he would take me to the store. He said yes, that he just wanted to be appreciated for it. I bake for him. Am very gratious. Then we were in the car and he said he was'nt dressed properly for his lady. And > put his hand on my leg-a tap. I didn't say anything. I went home and cried, felt like I selling my soul to him. I can't stand being alone. I don't know what to do. Been crying since. Don't feel safe with him. He wouldn't rape me or anything I just can't stand to be touched by a man unless I have given permission and I don't.......................I'm seeing my psy tomarrow.......ine > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2003 Report Share Posted September 30, 2003 ine, I can remember saying those words continuously for the last three years so I really know how you feel. Take care...Nola -- Re: ine Well, I'm 52 and don't care. My age is the least of my problems. I just want a life back! ine N wrote:ine, That is not too bad, it could be worse, it could be more like 60# over weight like myself. YUK! That even sounds real bad LOL You are doing very well, I wish I could say that I drank four glasses a day of water. Got a 50th Birthday coming up here real soon and I really would have loved to be more in shape for it, kind of like Cher was for hers LOL LOL Dream on huh? Keep up the good work! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2003 Report Share Posted September 30, 2003 ine, I can remember saying those words continuously for the last three years so I really know how you feel. Take care...Nola -- Re: ine Well, I'm 52 and don't care. My age is the least of my problems. I just want a life back! ine N wrote:ine, That is not too bad, it could be worse, it could be more like 60# over weight like myself. YUK! That even sounds real bad LOL You are doing very well, I wish I could say that I drank four glasses a day of water. Got a 50th Birthday coming up here real soon and I really would have loved to be more in shape for it, kind of like Cher was for hers LOL LOL Dream on huh? Keep up the good work! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2003 Report Share Posted September 30, 2003 ine, I can remember saying those words continuously for the last three years so I really know how you feel. Take care...Nola -- Re: ine Well, I'm 52 and don't care. My age is the least of my problems. I just want a life back! ine N wrote:ine, That is not too bad, it could be worse, it could be more like 60# over weight like myself. YUK! That even sounds real bad LOL You are doing very well, I wish I could say that I drank four glasses a day of water. Got a 50th Birthday coming up here real soon and I really would have loved to be more in shape for it, kind of like Cher was for hers LOL LOL Dream on huh? Keep up the good work! Nola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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