Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Maree, You are so sweet with the words you said.... you have actually mad me cry... I'm just so emotional. I think I just keep all emotions in and when i let them out, I EXPLODE! Libby - Thank you so much for your phone call, and for thinking of me. Ronnii XXOO > > Hi Ronnii, First, yes, buy the blender and slow cooker, they are > priceless tools for we banded folk. > NOW > Let me say this most truthfully, You ARE overweight, You ARE > addressing that in the soonest possible time BUT>>>ugly, NEVER. Like > most big girls (and boys) your face could light up Manhattan. You are > gorgeous, your smile is beautiful, your skin impeccable and your > personality bright, happy and friendly. You just front up to that > wedding, head high and be the nicest, happiest person you can be. Let > the private knowledge of your impending surgery and your new body > carry you through it. In six months they will all be doing double > takes, the compliments will be flowing, you will be dressing in all > sorts of clothes you never thought you'd wear, your husband will be > even more proud of you than he already is, but most important, you > will have a new found confidence and a positive glow about you. You > are young, your life is ahead of you and the future looks wonderful. > Go to that wedding and think of what I have said, hold that head up > high, be proud, be the girl you are meant to be. Maree > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Dear Ronnii I know that that is seems an age away – but trust me you will look back and smile. Promise! I did the same thing as you, didn't go to family functions because I felt like the fattest person in the universe and now, I regret not going but I know at the time it wasn't right. You are a beautiful girl, don't you dare say you are ugly. In a few months time you will be feeling so different and this will just be a little hiccup. It is hard not telling anyone, but I really advise against it unless you must. If you don't feel comfortable about telling people at work, go with that instinct and stay quite – its not anyone else's business. Nx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 , It's just so hard not telling anyone at work, they all ask " what are you having done? " I tell them it's women problems. I don't want to say anything also because there's a particular lady at work, who I've heard speaking about the band and her comments on it wasn't helping me decision. Ronnii XXOO > > > Dear Ronnii > > I know that that is seems an age away – but trust me you will look > back and smile. Promise! I did the same thing as you, didn't go to > family functions because I felt like the fattest person in the universe > and now, I regret not going but I know at the time it wasn't right. > You are a beautiful girl, don't you dare say you are ugly. In a few > months time you will be feeling so different and this will just be a > little hiccup. > > > > It is hard not telling anyone, but I really advise against it unless you > must. If you don't feel comfortable about telling people at work, > go with that instinct and stay quite – its not anyone else's > business. > > > > Nx > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 > > Dear Ronnii > > > > I know that that is seems an age away – but trust me you will look > > back and smile. Promise! I did the same thing as you, didn't go to > > family functions because I felt like the fattest person in the > universe > > and now, I regret not going but I know at the time it wasn't right. > > You are a beautiful girl, don't you dare say you are ugly. In a few > > months time you will be feeling so different and this will just be a > > little hiccup. > > > > > > > > It is hard not telling anyone, but I really advise against it > unless you > > must. If you don't feel comfortable about telling people at work, > > go with that instinct and stay quite – its not anyone else's > > business. > > > > > > > > Nx > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 If they are so rude as to persist after you explain 'ladies business' I would say, 'alright, I wasn't going to say, but actually it is a penis enlargement' and walk away!! These people are ships in the night, say nothing to anybody about your business unless you want to. When you are young it is hard to imagine but in 5 years you won't know these people, in 10 years you won't even remember their names so why tell them you most private and intimate business. I work with all men, they rarely ask but if one does I say girl's stuff, that always makes them back up. Women, though, especially older women, want to know the ducks guts especially if they have no life of their own. The above comment will let them know you don't want them to bloody well know and have no intention of telling. Another good response is, don't ask me my business because if you do I will tell you lies. That gives them the clue too. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 If they are so rude as to persist after you explain 'ladies business' I would say, 'alright, I wasn't going to say, but actually it is a penis enlargement' and walk away!! These people are ships in the night, say nothing to anybody about your business unless you want to. When you are young it is hard to imagine but in 5 years you won't know these people, in 10 years you won't even remember their names so why tell them you most private and intimate business. I work with all men, they rarely ask but if one does I say girl's stuff, that always makes them back up. Women, though, especially older women, want to know the ducks guts especially if they have no life of their own. The above comment will let them know you don't want them to bloody well know and have no intention of telling. Another good response is, don't ask me my business because if you do I will tell you lies. That gives them the clue too. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Maree, You know what the funny thing about telling them thet I'm going for a penis enlargement is????? They would probably believe me!!!! LOL Ronnii XXOO > > If they are so rude as to persist after you explain 'ladies business' > I would say, 'alright, I wasn't going to say, but actually it is a > penis enlargement' and walk away!! These people are ships in the > night, say nothing to anybody about your business unless you want to. > When you are young it is hard to imagine but in 5 years you won't know > these people, in 10 years you won't even remember their names so why > tell them you most private and intimate business. I work with all men, > they rarely ask but if one does I say girl's stuff, that always makes > them back up. Women, though, especially older women, want to know the > ducks guts especially if they have no life of their own. The above > comment will let them know you don't want them to bloody well know and > have no intention of telling. Another good response is, don't ask me > my business because if you do I will tell you lies. That gives them > the clue too. Maree > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Yeah, 'womens problems' always stops the chat. It is hard, but dont do it unless you want to - and I dont think you want to. I have never regretted my decision not to tell people that I work with. The one lady that I did, was considering having it done. She was also leaving the company so I felt fairly safe. However she has now come back. She has kept quiet for me, she understands. Be kind to yourself! Nx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Yeah, 'womens problems' always stops the chat. It is hard, but dont do it unless you want to - and I dont think you want to. I have never regretted my decision not to tell people that I work with. The one lady that I did, was considering having it done. She was also leaving the company so I felt fairly safe. However she has now come back. She has kept quiet for me, she understands. Be kind to yourself! Nx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 15, 2006 Report Share Posted May 15, 2006 Where are you Ronnii, I haven't noticed any posts from you since you were a bit upset last week. Is everything okay with you? Let us know if we can help you with anything. Best wishes, Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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