Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 In a message dated 4/25/2001 1:42:08 PM Eastern Daylight Time, cookcut@... writes: << Just had to vent. I think it's terribly rude for people to constantly criticize my body. And I don't overexercise, it's only been about 4 times a week lately. And I am eating constantly!!! Grr, people make me so mad. who might upload some of his new pics to the files section later. >> Sorry this happened to you, . On the bright side, a lot of people seem to care about you (maybe too much, though). Please do upload your pictures. I'd love to see them. Elena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 , some will say things like that because they are jealous and others out of real concern. You have to remember that. You may find it irritating and rude, but some of those people must mean well. If you want an honest and unbiased opinion, and not afraid to get it, upload those new pics. I always shoot straight from the hip, so if you do it, be prepared for the truth. ) Carol << Hi everyone. I've been so busy lately that I've been too exhausted to even read all the messages or reply (though Sandie, you will get your email soon, I swear!). I've been having a frustrating time this past week. THREE people have all told me I am too skinny. First, it was some old friends who I havn't seen in awhile. They said I looked anorexic. Then, my area manager came to work and gave me his lecture which I hear every time I see him! He told me I needed to do less Tae Bo, because I should lift more weights, and that I should eat at least 3000 calories a day. Yeah WHATEVER!! And then last night, I sent a new picture that I had judt taken with my digital camera to some friends, and one of them told me I need to eat more and stop exercising because I am way too skinny. hmmpf. Just had to vent. I think it's terribly rude for people to constantly criticize my body. And I don't overexercise, it's only been about 4 times a week lately. And I am eating constantly!!! Grr, people make me so mad. who might upload some of his new pics to the files section later. Moeser Halfway to Crazy, the Journal of My Life http://www.ericmoeser.com >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 In a message dated 4/25/01 1:42:02 PM Eastern Daylight Time, cookcut@... writes: > Just had to vent. I think it's terribly rude for people to constantly > criticize my body. And I don't overexercise, it's only been about 4 times a > I am sorry . I know it's annoying, but instead of thinking of it as criticism, try to look at it as concern. I am sure no one is wanting to hurt your feelings, they just might be worried about your weight loss. It is nice that you have people in your life that care that much. Anyway, if you are comfortable with your body, that is all that matters! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 , How much have you lost since we last seen you? ( you looked good then!) I'm not going to tell you that you are too skinny, just right or anything because you are not here in front of me. Its probable that they are just shocked at the difference from where you were then to where you are now. Dad #2 is convinced I am too skinny and I KNOW that's not true..lol. It might not be a bad idea to consult with a personal trainer to make sure that you are at your ideal weight. Weight training isn't a bad idea IMO. It will help your performance in Taebo. But don't do it for your friends, do it because you want to. And you may not need as much as 3000 calories, but do make sure you are getting enough. I wouldn't want to have to sick on you lol. Hope to hear from you more often! a Check out our website at: http://www.members.truepath.com/Crabtrees/home.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 >From: cookcut@... > >Hi everyone. I've been so busy lately that I've been too exhausted to even >read all the messages or reply (though Sandie, you will get your email >soon, I swear!). I've been having a frustrating time this past week. THREE >people have all told me I am too skinny. > I often wonder why it is so hard for people to give each other compliments and be supportive. If you are making changes that make YOU happy, then they should be happy for you. It's a concept many people struggle with unfortunately. Colleen _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 , The people who tell you that you are too skinny are just rude and/or jealous. Take what they say with a grain of salt and consider the source. Kerri who looks forward to seeing 's new pictures --- cookcut@... wrote: > Hi everyone. I've been so busy lately that I've been > too exhausted to even > read all the messages or reply (though Sandie, you > will get your email soon, > I swear!). I've been having a frustrating time this > past week. THREE people > have all told me I am too skinny. > > First, it was some old friends who I havn't seen in > awhile. They said I > looked anorexic. Then, my area manager came to work > and gave me his lecture > which I hear every time I see him! He told me I > needed to do less Tae Bo, > because I should lift more weights, and that I > should eat at least 3000 > calories a day. Yeah WHATEVER!! And then last night, > I sent a new picture > that I had judt taken with my digital camera to some > friends, and one of them > told me I need to eat more and stop exercising > because I am way too skinny. > hmmpf. > > Just had to vent. I think it's terribly rude for > people to constantly > criticize my body. And I don't overexercise, it's > only been about 4 times a > week lately. And I am eating constantly!!! Grr, > people make me so mad. > > > who might upload some of his new pics to the files > section later. > > Moeser > Halfway to Crazy, the Journal of My Life > http://www.ericmoeser.com > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 , The people who tell you that you are too skinny are just rude and/or jealous. Take what they say with a grain of salt and consider the source. Kerri who looks forward to seeing 's new pictures --- cookcut@... wrote: > Hi everyone. I've been so busy lately that I've been > too exhausted to even > read all the messages or reply (though Sandie, you > will get your email soon, > I swear!). I've been having a frustrating time this > past week. THREE people > have all told me I am too skinny. > > First, it was some old friends who I havn't seen in > awhile. They said I > looked anorexic. Then, my area manager came to work > and gave me his lecture > which I hear every time I see him! He told me I > needed to do less Tae Bo, > because I should lift more weights, and that I > should eat at least 3000 > calories a day. Yeah WHATEVER!! And then last night, > I sent a new picture > that I had judt taken with my digital camera to some > friends, and one of them > told me I need to eat more and stop exercising > because I am way too skinny. > hmmpf. > > Just had to vent. I think it's terribly rude for > people to constantly > criticize my body. And I don't overexercise, it's > only been about 4 times a > week lately. And I am eating constantly!!! Grr, > people make me so mad. > > > who might upload some of his new pics to the files > section later. > > Moeser > Halfway to Crazy, the Journal of My Life > http://www.ericmoeser.com > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 sheesh , I wish I had your problem! lolol. I want to be told I'm too skinny (just joking). At any rate... I totally feel for you, that's crappy to have to hear that. BUT you know what says, " You've got to believe in yourself " . That's all that matters! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 > > who might upload some of his new pics to the files section later. , I'd love to see some recent pictures of you I can't imagine you much thinner than you were when we last saw you....how much have you lost since then? I'm sure the people who have made comments are just concerned (but it's annoying since you are taking care of yourself and don't need that kind of criticism)! You know that you are healthy and exercising in moderation...so try not to let their comments get to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 --- cookcut@... wrote: > Hi everyone. I've been so busy lately that I've been > too exhausted to even > read all the messages or reply (though Sandie, you > will get your email soon, > I swear!). I've been having a frustrating time this > past week. THREE people > have all told me I am too skinny. I saw that on your site and it just made me go grrrrrrr too. BTW, when did they become the experts on YOUR body and know what's best for YOU?!?!?! Yes, some people abuse their bodies and don't know when to quit. But they should know you better than that. I don't know how long they've known you, but I've only known you over the last 2 years and I know that you're smart enough to know when enough is enough. I also wouldn't be surprised to find out that you're at the top or maybe in the middle of the height/weight charts (depending on which one you happen to be looking at that day) for your body type or not even anywhere near it and are looking like you weigh closer to the bottom or lower than that. I know that's how I am. Although I'm around 15-20 pounds heavier than what the " top " weight is for my height my body looks like it's right in range. I understand about the e-mail, no problemo, I'll wait patiently )!!!! *promise* My hotmail was acting weird the last few weeks and was hoping if you did respond that it wasn't lost )!!!!! I forgot to ask you *exactly* which day your 2 year TAE-BO-VERSARY was, so I could wish you a happy one )!!!!!! Sandie, Tae and Bo who can't wait to see new pics of )!!!!!! ===== " Believe. Believe in yourself. Believe in the one who believes in you. All things are possible to she who believes. Blessings on your courage. " --from " Hold That Thought " by Ban Breathnach " I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence, but it comes from within. It is there all the time. " --------- Freud __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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