Guest guest Posted February 8, 2006 Report Share Posted February 8, 2006 Thanks Maree and no I didn't do anything to him....everything is in fine working order !!! Will let you know more when I know more but will be there if I can. Love Helen -- Helen Hi,I know I don't need to encourage you, but please give Graham a bear hug from Maree. I really hope you can make Bulli, what a shame to miss it. Listen, (secret between us) you didn't do anything to Graham on the naughty weekend that has rendered him incapacitated did you?? Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2006 Report Share Posted February 9, 2006 Thanks possum, he was a little better today but still in great pain. They did ultra sound and cat scan today....of course won't know the results till the doctors decide we should know!! Been very naughty with the ice cream but I don't care at the moment (try not to worry but...) Keep thinking that I knew it was too good to last and that I was being given a glimpse of the good life only to have it taken away ( I know very morbid and silly but I get like that when I worry..hence the ice cream) Ahh the games our minds and insecurities play on us! Hopefully will have some news tomorrow....I am a very bad 'wait-er'. Love Helen -- Helen Blossom, Oh Helen, what a bloody rough time you are going through right now. This universe is giving out so many lessons at the moment I can only believe that it is because all the nasty stuff is hitting us at the beginning of the year in order for the rest of the year to be just be fantastic. I am so sorry that Graham is going through this - what a worry for both of you. You know that if you need anything you just give a call Girlfriend.. My thoughts are with you, Love, Ghyll ~~May all your Weeds be Wildflowers ~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2006 Report Share Posted February 9, 2006 Thank you Ghyll (my african blossom), Your words and thoughts mean so much to me. Thank you for burning the candle ...I have been burning the candle you gave me at the last lunch. He is a little better today but we have to wait till the inflammation goes down to see why so it's still a waiting game. I'm really p***ed off with his children who have never been in contact with him since he left but he did tell them he was in hospital and neither of them has contacted him to see how he is. There is no excuse for their behaviour...they are 29 and 25 adults who realise that not everything goes the way they want it to. I'm sad for him. Anyway some good news....we put a deposit on a van at Greenwell Point and hope to finalise this when my dad's money eventually comes through (if my sisiter doesn't bugga about!!) We'll have a little place to get away from everyone/thing. I'll try to get to Bulli on Sunday between visiting hours...after 1.00 so will see you then possum. Love Helen > > My Very Special Helen, > > I know that this waiting is the longest time and the darkest time - the mind plays the sickest games, and in trying to block this all out of course we are going to turn to that wicked food. > > I want you to know and believe in the very depths of your heart that your Mom and Dad are watching over you and Graham. I truly believe that this upset with Graham is to give you both the chance to know without a doubt what you mean to each other. Sometimes we need to loose something for a short while to truly value it for ever. > > Graham is needing to rest - he has been through so much and his body is saying time out buster. Now you rest and absorb what you are being given and refresh yourself for your beautiful Helen. You are being given time to understand that this precious gift of Graham is yours. This space and worry time is a test - nothing more. And you know that you are both going to pass this test with flying colours. > > Girlfriend you have had to dig so deep before, you have the strength, love and ability to do it again - you need to pace yourself so that you don't burn out. > > I am burning an orange candle for you both. > Love, > Ghyll > ~~May all your Weeds be Wildflowers ~~ > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 267.15.3/254 - Release Date: 2/8/2006 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2006 Report Share Posted February 9, 2006 Thank you Ghyll (my african blossom), Your words and thoughts mean so much to me. Thank you for burning the candle ...I have been burning the candle you gave me at the last lunch. He is a little better today but we have to wait till the inflammation goes down to see why so it's still a waiting game. I'm really p***ed off with his children who have never been in contact with him since he left but he did tell them he was in hospital and neither of them has contacted him to see how he is. There is no excuse for their behaviour...they are 29 and 25 adults who realise that not everything goes the way they want it to. I'm sad for him. Anyway some good news....we put a deposit on a van at Greenwell Point and hope to finalise this when my dad's money eventually comes through (if my sisiter doesn't bugga about!!) We'll have a little place to get away from everyone/thing. I'll try to get to Bulli on Sunday between visiting hours...after 1.00 so will see you then possum. Love Helen > > My Very Special Helen, > > I know that this waiting is the longest time and the darkest time - the mind plays the sickest games, and in trying to block this all out of course we are going to turn to that wicked food. > > I want you to know and believe in the very depths of your heart that your Mom and Dad are watching over you and Graham. I truly believe that this upset with Graham is to give you both the chance to know without a doubt what you mean to each other. Sometimes we need to loose something for a short while to truly value it for ever. > > Graham is needing to rest - he has been through so much and his body is saying time out buster. Now you rest and absorb what you are being given and refresh yourself for your beautiful Helen. You are being given time to understand that this precious gift of Graham is yours. This space and worry time is a test - nothing more. And you know that you are both going to pass this test with flying colours. > > Girlfriend you have had to dig so deep before, you have the strength, love and ability to do it again - you need to pace yourself so that you don't burn out. > > I am burning an orange candle for you both. > Love, > Ghyll > ~~May all your Weeds be Wildflowers ~~ > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 267.15.3/254 - Release Date: 2/8/2006 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2006 Report Share Posted February 10, 2006 Hi Maree, You were spot-on about Greenwell Point! We took your advice and looked at it and it was lovely. The van has toilet/shower and a/c and is right on the river at Pine Park Tourist Grounds. The van is in really good condition and comes with everyhting except the TV. It's next to the pool and the barbecue and everyone is welcome to come and visit and stay! IOt was the first van we saw so didn't buy straight away but seeing what the rest oif the coast had to offer we snapped it up. Will tell you all about it on Sunday. I've decided I will come when visiting hours stop at 1.00pm. I think I need all your happy faces to cheer me up. It's not just Graham's illness but all sorts of things have raised their long suppressed heads and I find I am very emotional at the moment and will cry at the drop of a hat!! So nobody drop their hat ! Look forward to seeing you all then Love Helen > > Oh Helen. > Greenwell Point, I hope my input steered you there, isn't it a > perfect, serene spot?? I hope you just love it there and have > wonderful happy times. Maree > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2006 Report Share Posted February 21, 2006 Thanks Maree ...yes I do feel very blessed to have found Graham... I think someone was watching over me to have found such a 'good' man. I can understand how you feel when things all start tumbling around you in the dark of night. I had 13 years of 'did I do the right thing?" etc. I kn ew in the morning I had and that I would never take him back but in the middle of the night when you are all alone and there is no-one to snuggle up to, you do think to yourself 'Was it really that bad?' The answer is Yes of course it was and you did the right thing but I do know how you feel, lovey. Just give me a ring if you are down and want a coffee or whatever. Love Helen -- Helen Hi, I don't know the famous Dr. B. but I have had experience with Dr. Talbot and liked him very much. If I had to change to him I would be most happy. He is extremely capable and my Dr. told me Talbot also does 'slicing', something to think about for later, hey? Glad the man in your life and heart is home and improving. Tell him to take things easy and you postpone that honeymoon a bit longer, I know what you two lovers are like, hehehehe. Re the weekend, I don't know as yet, I'd like to as the weekend after I won't be coming down, my daughter's birthday and the luncheon on Sunday. It's just I feel I am neglecting my little house. The garden...oh! the garden... Then again, I keep thinking it will be cooler soon enough and I can rip into it then. I am petrified of the blue tongues that frequent my place and hate poking around in the hotter weather as I invaribaly find one. I know they won't hurt but that first glipse always stops my heart for a second..snakes.. I am such a sook. Anyway, I'll let you know closer to the weekend for sure. I might even have a sickie today, I can't sleep. I have torn ligaments in my foot which are mostly OK but have been sore for 3 days and tonight it is just throbbing all night long. Must be rain about, that usually causes the problem. (How old does that make me sound??) The Dr. says it is from wearing high heeled shoes when I was younger, you know, the higher the better. Also, when I can't sleep all this other stuff plays around in my head, (Sam),I get myself so worked up. You are lucky to have a nice man to sleep with and comfort you through the nights. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2006 Report Share Posted February 21, 2006 Thanks Maree ...yes I do feel very blessed to have found Graham... I think someone was watching over me to have found such a 'good' man. I can understand how you feel when things all start tumbling around you in the dark of night. I had 13 years of 'did I do the right thing?" etc. I kn ew in the morning I had and that I would never take him back but in the middle of the night when you are all alone and there is no-one to snuggle up to, you do think to yourself 'Was it really that bad?' The answer is Yes of course it was and you did the right thing but I do know how you feel, lovey. Just give me a ring if you are down and want a coffee or whatever. Love Helen -- Helen Hi, I don't know the famous Dr. B. but I have had experience with Dr. Talbot and liked him very much. If I had to change to him I would be most happy. He is extremely capable and my Dr. told me Talbot also does 'slicing', something to think about for later, hey? Glad the man in your life and heart is home and improving. Tell him to take things easy and you postpone that honeymoon a bit longer, I know what you two lovers are like, hehehehe. Re the weekend, I don't know as yet, I'd like to as the weekend after I won't be coming down, my daughter's birthday and the luncheon on Sunday. It's just I feel I am neglecting my little house. The garden...oh! the garden... Then again, I keep thinking it will be cooler soon enough and I can rip into it then. I am petrified of the blue tongues that frequent my place and hate poking around in the hotter weather as I invaribaly find one. I know they won't hurt but that first glipse always stops my heart for a second..snakes.. I am such a sook. Anyway, I'll let you know closer to the weekend for sure. I might even have a sickie today, I can't sleep. I have torn ligaments in my foot which are mostly OK but have been sore for 3 days and tonight it is just throbbing all night long. Must be rain about, that usually causes the problem. (How old does that make me sound??) The Dr. says it is from wearing high heeled shoes when I was younger, you know, the higher the better. Also, when I can't sleep all this other stuff plays around in my head, (Sam),I get myself so worked up. You are lucky to have a nice man to sleep with and comfort you through the nights. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2006 Report Share Posted March 5, 2006 Darlin' Honestly you look fantastic...you may think you have more wrinkles but the happier more confident and healthier Maree shines through them all. Don't ever say you look better in the other photos....just think how close you came to not being here! I personally (and Graham too) think you look wonderful and sexy and full of life and fun...... Love ya Helen -- Helen Thanks very much for posting my photo. I keep fretting over how old I am looking though. I suppose age has something to do with it, hehe, though I keep saying it's the weight loss making me look wrinkly. I compare with the pre surgery shot where I was really fat and stretched, but very few wrinkles. Then again it is two years on since that photo and they have been a troublesome two years. I guess heart-break ages us more than anything. Oh well, maybe if I win Lotto and have the slice and dice they can do the face and neck too. Not much else can be done I suppose, at least I am appearing thinner and I'm happy about that. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2006 Report Share Posted March 5, 2006 Darlin' Honestly you look fantastic...you may think you have more wrinkles but the happier more confident and healthier Maree shines through them all. Don't ever say you look better in the other photos....just think how close you came to not being here! I personally (and Graham too) think you look wonderful and sexy and full of life and fun...... Love ya Helen -- Helen Thanks very much for posting my photo. I keep fretting over how old I am looking though. I suppose age has something to do with it, hehe, though I keep saying it's the weight loss making me look wrinkly. I compare with the pre surgery shot where I was really fat and stretched, but very few wrinkles. Then again it is two years on since that photo and they have been a troublesome two years. I guess heart-break ages us more than anything. Oh well, maybe if I win Lotto and have the slice and dice they can do the face and neck too. Not much else can be done I suppose, at least I am appearing thinner and I'm happy about that. Maree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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