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Meg,

I am so sorry! I do not know what to say, just that I am with you and your

family.

Hugs,

Camilla

schrieb am 28.11.05 17:29:25:

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>

> Some sad news I need to share:

>

> I just got an email from my cousin in Poland. My great-uncle has passed

> away a few hours ago, around 12 noon, their time. Grandma is overwhelmed

> with grief and crying. We called our aunt in Poland, and when she spoke

> with my grandma, the first thing she did was just cry, a screaming type of

> cry, along with my grandma. We're all completely heart-broken. :( I was

> trained as a grief counselor, but I can't do anything. I feel so helpless.

>

>

> ~Meg.

> ( My Blog = http://meg77.blogspot.com )

>

> " Life is not what happens to you,

> But how you react to it...

> For what caused you react will surely pass,

> But how you continue to react,

> Can only be passed by you. "

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Thank you all for your kind words of sympathy. Yesterday, when I read my

cousin's email, I felt like someone had just kicked me in the stomach. But

I am okay. My grandmother is doing well, although she is in constant prayer

and she breaks down every few minutes. She keeps saying that she's next in

line to go. I don't know the pain of losing a sibling. I know if anything

happened to my brother I'd be absolutely devastated.

I'm just glad my great-uncle went in peace and that the family didn't have

to make the decision whether to take him off life-support or not. I don't

know how they would ever be able to make that decision. My aunt lost the

love of her life. I thank God they loved each other so much. Yet the pain

she is in is incomprehensible to me. I pray for God to give us all strength

and to be able to let my uncle rest in peace.

I was wondering, if a person dies, and a family member cannot let them go

spiritually and they keep crying and wishing them to be alive, is that

person's spirit in rest or not? I know my uncle wouldn't want us falling

apart like this or for his wife to be in so much pain. So is he not at rest

yet?

Any opinions???

~Meg.

( My Blog = http://meg77.blogspot.com )

" Life is not what happens to you,

But how you react to it...

For what caused you react will surely pass,

But how you continue to react,

Can only be passed by you. "

Re: Complaints cite airline wheelchair service

I dont get out of my chair when riding on anything. It

would be too big of a hassle to get in and out of my

chair as often as I get in and out of the car.

As for on the plane... I find no difference in safety

if you are tied down properly. Their seats offer the

same seatbelt that a wheelchair offers. And if they

would put you at the front of the row, youre still in

a row.

Just my opinion of it all...

--- Patie <lilcia2001@...> wrote:

> well, i wouldn`t agree with you. i mean i don`t

> think that sitting on your own chair during the

> flight would be safe. it might be arraged probably,

> but i still think that sitting on their sit and

> being in a row etc. is still safer than sitting on

> the wheelchair. besides sitting on your chair in a

> bus is almost like standing. i feel much better

> sitting in a normal car sit than riding a car in

> wheelchair. and it`s same everywhere...

> love & light

> patie

>

>

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  • 1 year later...

,

I'm very sorry for your loss. I know this is a hard time for you.

I lost my father in March. It was not unexpected, but it was still a

shock. We're never prepared for this kind of thing.

I always loved my dad, and I still do, and I know that in some ways

he'll always be with me.

I don't know if any of that helps, or might help later; but please

know you are in my thoughts.

-Carl

>

> Hi all,

> I wanted you all to know that I'm going to be gone,

> so to speak, for a little while. My Dad passed away

> suddenly Saturday afternoon from what we think was a

> massive heart attack. He & my mom were at the boat

> club that they belong to & he was in their

> camper/trailer watching college football when it

> occured. So, my aunt spent the night with Mom last

> night & my sister flew in this morning from New York.

> I take comfort in the fact that it happened so fast he

> probably didn't know what hit him.

>

> Potts

> Cincinnati, OH

>

> PS-I'll still be subscribed to the list, but probably

> won't have much time to check e-mails. I'll do what I

> can, so if you e-mail me off list, so to speak, please

> know that I'll get to you as soon as I can. Thanks.

>

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SUSAN;; IM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR DAD;S SUDDEN PASSING;; MAY GOD GIVE YOU COMFORT IN THE DAYS AHEAD;; KEEP THE GOOD MEMORIES YOU HAVE OF HIM;; IT IS ALWAYS SO HARD TO LOSE A LOVED ONE;; ESPECIALLY SO SUDDEN LIKE THAT;; YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU TOO MUCH SYMPATHY & PRAYERS DORT Potts <clonezfan100@...> wrote: Hi all,I wanted you all to know that I'm going to be gone,so to speak, for a little while. My Dad passed awaysuddenly Saturday afternoon from what we think was amassive heart attack. He

& my mom were at the boatclub that they belong to & he was in theircamper/trailer watching college football when itoccured. So, my aunt spent the night with Mom lastnight & my sister flew in this morning from New York. I take comfort in the fact that it happened so fast heprobably didn't know what hit him. PottsCincinnati, OHPS-I'll still be subscribed to the list, but probablywon't have much time to check e-mails. I'll do what Ican, so if you e-mail me off list, so to speak, pleaseknow that I'll get to you as soon as I can. Thanks.Music is a gift from God__________________________________________________________Don't let your dream ride pass you by. Make it a reality with Autos.http://autos./index.html

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  • 2 years later...

How tragic, Darlene! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your

family. Peace to all of you.

Hugs,

Kay

Darlene Barros wrote:

Wanted to let you know we have had a death in the

family. Our handicapped nephew who just turned 29 was hit and

killed

by a train yesterday afternoon. Darlene

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Thank you Kay. Darlene

> >

> >

> > Wanted to let you know we have had a death in the family. Our

> > handicapped nephew who just turned 29 was hit and killed by a

> > train yesterday afternoon. Darlene

> >

> >

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  • 2 weeks later...

Thank you for the prayers. We are not 100% sure what happened but we suspect he

had a seizure while very near the railroad tracks and that he stood there while

the train bore down on him. Many times when he has a seizure he is able to

stand and he just stares into space and is oblivious to his surroundings. He

apparently was on his way home as he lived just over the tracks and from what we

were later told he had been up to Sugar Creek store (one of his favorite

hangouts in his very small village) and had had a seizure there at the store.

Many times when he has been there and had a seizure they call the ambulance but

for some reason this time they did not. Darlene

>

> Prayers go out to you. I am assuming it was an accident. Hopefully not

> do to his handicap... We had an incident in the Boston area last week were

> a gal feel right in front of a subway train. Somehow it stopped in time.

>

> N.H.

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