Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 -Hi Tessa, My name is Jill and my daughter is Ruth. She is 2 now but had her first surgery when she was 7 months old. She couldn't close her eyes for a couple of days but she seemed to sleep okay. Her eyes close all the way when she is sleeping now but sometimes when she is deeply sleeping they seem to be open slightly. Hope this helps, Jill-- In blepharophimosis , Tessa Mackenzie <tessamackenzie@...> wrote: > > Dear all > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first surgery (Dr Collin at > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes seem very similar to > Jonah's and, like and , the operation is about making > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think about cosmetic > issues at a later stage. One question that has been going round my head for a while > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after the operation? My husband also > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes don't close fully when > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper (especially at the moment - > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not being able close his > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close his eyes? > Thanks! > Tessa > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 Hi Tessa, Our son, Micah, is almost four and had his surgery last year in Feb. He does not close his eyes at all when he sleeps. His eyes do roll back in his head so you can only see the white when he is first trying to go to sleep. When you say, " Close your eyes " that is what he does - rolls them back in his head. But once he is asleep his eyes are wide open and he looks like he is looking right at you. We put an ointment in each night before bed to keep his eyes moist. He sleeps just fine and it does not seem to bother him. You can see pictures of him under " Eisele Family " . Best wishes for you and Bilpin! April Eisele, Colorado, USA Wife to Jon Mommy to Mira, Micah & Misha --- jricard5 <jricard5@...> wrote: > -Hi Tessa, My name is Jill and my daughter is Ruth. > She is 2 now but > had her first surgery when she was 7 months old. She > couldn't close > her eyes for a couple of days but she seemed to > sleep okay. Her eyes > close all the way when she is sleeping now but > sometimes when she is > deeply sleeping they seem to be open slightly. Hope > this helps, Jill-- > In blepharophimosis , Tessa > Mackenzie > <tessamackenzie@...> wrote: > > > > Dear all > > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first > surgery (Dr Collin > at > > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes > seem very similar > to > > Jonah's and, like and , the > operation is about > making > > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think > about cosmetic > > issues at a later stage. One question that has > been going round my > head for a while > > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after > the operation? > My husband also > > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes > don't close fully when > > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper > (especially at the > moment - > > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not > being able close his > > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close > his eyes? > > Thanks! > > Tessa > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 Out of all three kids ...NIck (14) closes his eye all the way..Tom (11) never ever closes his eyes...you can see them roll to white we gel him everynight too...and (8 months) closes her eyes i would say 90% no gel required only drops during the day. Tom sleeps like the dead ! So no problem with them open. april Eisele <aprileisele@...> wrote: Hi Tessa,Our son, Micah, is almost four and had his surgerylast year in Feb. He does not close his eyes at allwhen he sleeps. His eyes do roll back in his head soyou can only see the white when he is first trying togo to sleep. When you say, "Close your eyes" that iswhat he does - rolls them back in his head. But oncehe is asleep his eyes are wide open and he looks likehe is looking right at you. We put an ointment ineach night before bed to keep his eyes moist. Hesleeps just fine and it does not seem to bother him. You can see pictures of him under "Eisele Family".Best wishes for you and Bilpin!April Eisele, Colorado, USAWife to JonMommy to Mira, Micah & Misha--- jricard5 <jricard5@...> wrote:> -Hi Tessa, My name is Jill and my daughter is Ruth.> She is 2 now but > had her first surgery when she was 7 months old. She> couldn't close > her eyes for a couple of days but she seemed to> sleep okay. Her eyes > close all the way when she is sleeping now but> sometimes when she is > deeply sleeping they seem to be open slightly. Hope> this helps, Jill--> In blepharophimosis , Tessa> Mackenzie > <tessamackenzie@...> wrote:> >> > Dear all> > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first> surgery (Dr Collin > at> > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes> seem very similar > to> > Jonah's and, like and , the> operation is about > making> > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think> about cosmetic> > issues at a later stage. One question that has> been going round my > head for a while> > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after> the operation? > My husband also> > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes> don't close fully when> > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper> (especially at the > moment -> > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not> being able close his> > eyes properly is just going to make it harder.> > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close> his eyes?> > Thanks!> > Tessa> >> > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 Hi Tessa, Long answer: I believe it is very difficult for a surgeon to judge the exact height to sling an eyelid so that it can open enough to fully expose the pupil when awake/open, yet close fully when asleep/closed, especially with a little child's tiny eyes. There are plenty of complicating factors involved, small margins for error, and things change over time (sling materials might stretch, one's face will grow, etc). It's therefore also difficult for a surgeon to get both lids exactly even, too. Some responders have told of their kids' lids not closing fully. Mine have always closed fully (often against my will), as have plenty of others', so there's a range of possibilities, and it depends on a number of factors. There are plenty of good questions arising here with which to grill one's surgeons, mercilessly. For example: - Can initially non-closing lids " settle " over time, and close better later? - Can the lower lid of a non-closing upper learn to " stretch " up to meet its partner? - Can a non-meeting pair of lid's sling be adjusted to fit better? - Does it depend on the material used? (Fascia lata vs silicone vs piano wire, etc) And will it change over time? - What are the likely long-term repercussions of a non-closing pair of lids? - (Tighten the thumb-screw as you ask this one:) What has YOUR success rate been for lids meeting fully, Mr Surgeon? Stop squirming. - What is the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow? I'm sure many folks can think of more grist for the surgeon-roasting mill than this, but it's a start. Short answer: Maybe. I hope this has been helpful. Rob W. Eyes wide shut. Tessa Mackenzie wrote: > Dear all > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first surgery (Dr Collin at > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes seem very similar to > Jonah's and, like and , the operation is about making > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think about cosmetic > issues at a later stage. One question that has been going round my head for a while > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after the operation? My husband also > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes don't close fully when > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper (especially at the moment - > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not being able close his > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close his eyes? > Thanks! > Tessa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 Hi Tessa Mr Collin did my daughters surgery when she was just over 2 years old. She couldn't close her eyes for about 6 months. We used eye ointment frequently in the 1st 4 weeks, although Mr Collin suggested it wouldn't be necessary after 4 weeks. I did continue putting ointment in her eyes before she went to bed though because it made me feel better. I stopped that 6 months after her surgery and now don't use any at all. Her nursery school teachers were also great at putting in ointment before her afternoon nap and she slept well. She now generally closes her eyes completely when she is asleep, though there is the odd time that I find her eyes open a fraction and it doesn't bother her. Her eyes changed alot during the first 6 months after her surgery. I suppose all the stitches " settled " in. I was initially slightly disappointed with the result as her eyes were marginally uneven, but as I said, a few months later they were symmetric. At 11 months, as with my daughter's surgery, the slings are temporary and will be replaced at a later stage with the child's facia, so any cosmetic tweaking can be done then. Kirsten's photos are under " Kirsten Parsons " and you can see what Mr Collin achieved with her. He is fantastic. Lots of luck Parsons > > Dear all > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first surgery (Dr Collin at > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes seem very similar to > Jonah's and, like and , the operation is about making > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think about cosmetic > issues at a later stage. One question that has been going round my head for a while > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after the operation? My husband also > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes don't close fully when > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper (especially at the moment - > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not being able close his > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close his eyes? > Thanks! > Tessa > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 I am 35, my eyes only close partially. I think I force them closed until I fall asleep, then they open partially and look white while I am sleeping. I don't have dry eyes, but I can't sleep with a ceiling fan on. Lily's eyes close completely, she is 18 months. > > > > > > Dear all > > > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first > > surgery (Dr Collin > > at > > > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes > > seem very similar > > to > > > Jonah's and, like and , the > > operation is about > > making > > > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think > > about cosmetic > > > issues at a later stage. One question that has > > been going round my > > head for a while > > > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after > > the operation? > > My husband also > > > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes > > don't close fully when > > > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper > > (especially at the > > moment - > > > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not > > being able close his > > > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > > > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close > > his eyes? > > > Thanks! > > > Tessa > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 Thanks all of you for your answers. It seems to be a mixed experience, but hopefully Bipin should be ok with drops if need be. My husband's eyes were 'done' by Mr Collin as well, but that was 25 years ago so maybe his technique has changed over time! I've never really understood how he can sleep with his eyes open (not that sleeping is something that either of us have had much time to practice recently thanks to young Bipin!) but he's only really affected by fans at night. thanks again Tessa On Fri, 03 Feb 2006 14:25:41 -0000, " bethgordon03 " <bethgordon03@...> said: > > I am 35, my eyes only close partially. I think I force them > closed > until I fall asleep, then they open partially and look white > while I > am sleeping. I don't have dry eyes, but I can't sleep with a > ceiling > fan on. > Lily's eyes close completely, she is 18 months. > > > > > > > > > Dear all > > > > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first > > > surgery (Dr Collin > > > at > > > > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes > > > seem very similar > > > to > > > > Jonah's and, like and , the > > > operation is about > > > making > > > > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think > > > about cosmetic > > > > issues at a later stage. One question that has > > > been going round my > > > head for a while > > > > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after > > > the operation? > > > My husband also > > > > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes > > > don't close fully when > > > > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper > > > (especially at the > > > moment - > > > > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not > > > being able close his > > > > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > > > > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close > > > his eyes? > > > > Thanks! > > > > Tessa > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2006 Report Share Posted February 4, 2006 Hi Tessa.. I am Leah from NewZealand and my son Ethan had surgery done at two with slings method. He was unable to shut his eyes or blink even for a few weeks afterwards, I remember being quite shocked and thinking he will always be like this!!! The only reason i knew he was asleep is that he used to snore.. due to large tonsils and adenoids which we had removed a couple of years ago. as he was forever getting tonsiitis and colds... Kids adjust so well to things, way better than we do. i remember when Ethan had his surgery they bandaged his eyes which they wanted left on overnight and half a day the next day, i think to protect them a little bit and i thought 'Yeah right, with Ethan ... No way will he leave them on.. but he seemed to know it was for his own good and he didnt even bother trying to get them off.. I was very suprised!!! But he sleeps fine now tho his eyes are open a crack!! And he looks awesome!!! Good luck with your little man... blepharophimosis closing eyes after surgery > Dear all > Our son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first surgery (Dr Collin at > Moorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes seem very similar to > Jonah's and, like and , the operation is about making > sure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think about cosmetic > issues at a later stage. One question that has been going round my head for a while > - Will he be able to close his eyes properly after the operation? My husband also > has Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes don't close fully when > he's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper (especially at the moment - > teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not being able close his > eyes properly is just going to make it harder. > any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close his eyes? > Thanks! > Tessa > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Hi Tessa, My eyes are slightly open when I sleep and I have only had to battle with dry eyes in the past couple of years (I am now 31). Anyway, it never really bothered me while I was growing up other than holding them shut while trying to get to sleep. But after I am asleep there is no problem. I do have a funny story relating to it. When I was a child my parents left me with my aunt, uncle, and cousins for a week so they could travel. One night my uncle came in to check on my cousin and me and I was sleeping with my eyes open. My uncle thought I was dead! He eventually realized I wasn't but he was shocked to say the least. That was the only time it bothered anyone! Ha! He still gets a big laugh out of it today! All the best for Bipin's surgery, Tessa Mackenzie <tessamackenzie@...> wrote: Dear allOur son Bipin is 11 months now and due his first surgery (Dr Collin atMoorfields, London) at the end of March. His eyes seem very similar toJonah's and, like and , the operation is about makingsure his eyesight develops properly - we'll think about cosmeticissues at a later stage. One question that has been going round my head for a while- Will he be able to close his eyes properly after the operation? My husband alsohas Bleph and had slings as a child. His eyes don't close fully whenhe's asleep. Bipin is not a great sleeper (especially at the moment -teething!) and I am beginning to worry that not being able close hiseyes properly is just going to make it harder.any experience about this? Is Jonah able to close his eyes?Thanks!Tessa Relax. virus scanning helps detect nasty viruses! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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