Guest guest Posted April 20, 2001 Report Share Posted April 20, 2001 Colleen did not contact any press, she wanted to see how IKEA would handle it. Many of us beleive that they handled it well. What is needed now is a little time to see what that do. If the promises they made aren't kept, or aren't acceptable, then further action can be taken. CA law states a woman may breastfeed anywhere she is legally allowed to be. Leia AKA ZooNana (AIM and ICQ) Militant Lactivist Single, WAHM of 5 Breastfeeding, AP, baby wearing, no-vax custom buttons, keychains and more! http://come.to/zoobuttons does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2001 Report Share Posted April 20, 2001 does anyone know if the woman who was involved in this incident contacted her local newspaper and television studios? i know we had a similar incident here in NY (albany) last year and it was covered by the tv and newspapers. there was a nurse-in at the mall right outside the store who asked the woman to leave. the fact that IKEA had their lawyers handle the matter and offered her $250 in gift certif's, makes me wonder how worried they are about negative publicity?? i know she's probably not looking to start any trouble, but i just wonder what else can be done to make this a much bigger headache for IKEA? the bigger the impact is on them this time, the less likely they are to let it happen to anyone else again, kwim? also, does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2001 Report Share Posted April 20, 2001 Well, they did also mention a mother could nurse anywhere and as for me, I rather sit to nurse but have done both! Sometimes that baby refuses to nurse discreetly and I hate it when my not-so-perfect breasts are exposed! LOL And sometimes I'm not wearing a sling(she's so light we carry her) or a nursing freindly top. I would go there to shop! And there will also be a bottle station so no one is discriminated(could be breastmilk) and for dad's or other caregivers to feed child. I'm wondering if it will be nice or a " little closet " and if it's at all stores or just that one. Keep us updated! Don't know about law. They didn't have to offer any conveniences at all but are and I think it's admirable. Next time, I'd say " Feed 'em to the dogs! " I am not a medical doctor, nor do I portray one on t.v.! (But my husband,Mike,is!!!) Laurie>Bucyrus,Ohio mother to (13),Donovan(8), Buck(4),Luke(3), and (1) 2 csecs,3 VBACs(1 partial waterbirth, 1 complete waterbirth) Please visit us at our website http://www.goldenprideweb.com/drmikeandlaurie for information on nutritional supplements, including the original oral chelator, skin care, weight loss(The Florida Diet),Herbs for Health, and home products does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2001 Report Share Posted April 20, 2001 I personally thought their response was prompt and attentive. As for the room, it is IKEA--let's hope they do it up right! adrienne in winter park, co Re: Fw: IKEA's response letter Well, they did also mention a mother could nurse anywhere and as for me, I rather sit to nurse but have done both! Sometimes that baby refuses to nurse discreetly and I hate it when my not-so-perfect breasts are exposed! LOL And sometimes I'm not wearing a sling(she's so light we carry her) or a nursing freindly top. I would go there to shop! And there will also be a bottle station so no one is discriminated(could be breastmilk) and for dad's or other caregivers to feed child. I'm wondering if it will be nice or a " little closet " and if it's at all stores or just that one. Keep us updated! Don't know about law. They didn't have to offer any conveniences at all but are and I think it's admirable. Next time, I'd say " Feed 'em to the dogs! " I am not a medical doctor, nor do I portray one on t.v.! (But my husband,Mike,is!!!) Laurie>Bucyrus,Ohio mother to (13),Donovan(8), Buck(4),Luke(3), and (1) 2 csecs,3 VBACs(1 partial waterbirth, 1 complete waterbirth) Please visit us at our website http://www.goldenprideweb.com/drmikeandlaurie for information on nutritional supplements, including the original oral chelator, skin care, weight loss(The Florida Diet),Herbs for Health, and home products does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2001 Report Share Posted April 21, 2001 I live in Woodbridge, Va. We have an IKEA at Potomac Mills Mall. That IKEA has a " nursing room " that is actually good sized. There is enough room there for a family to go into for a time while baby eats. I think that they have actually called it the " family room " . Re: Fw: IKEA's response letter Well, they did also mention a mother could nurse anywhere and as for me, I rather sit to nurse but have done both! Sometimes that baby refuses to nurse discreetly and I hate it when my not-so-perfect breasts are exposed! LOL And sometimes I'm not wearing a sling(she's so light we carry her) or a nursing freindly top. I would go there to shop! And there will also be a bottle station so no one is discriminated(could be breastmilk) and for dad's or other caregivers to feed child. I'm wondering if it will be nice or a " little closet " and if it's at all stores or just that one. Keep us updated! Don't know about law. They didn't have to offer any conveniences at all but are and I think it's admirable. Next time, I'd say " Feed 'em to the dogs! " I am not a medical doctor, nor do I portray one on t.v.! (But my husband,Mike,is!!!) Laurie>Bucyrus,Ohio mother to (13),Donovan(8), Buck(4),Luke(3), and (1) 2 csecs,3 VBACs(1 partial waterbirth, 1 complete waterbirth) Please visit us at our website http://www.goldenprideweb.com/drmikeandlaurie for information on nutritional supplements, including the original oral chelator, skin care, weight loss(The Florida Diet),Herbs for Health, and home products does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2001 Report Share Posted April 21, 2001 In a message dated 4/20/01 3:20:31 PM Eastern Daylight Time, dina.mason@... writes: > I live in Woodbridge, Va. We have an IKEA at Potomac Mills Mall. That IKEA > has a " nursing room " that is actually good sized. There is enough room > there for a family to go into for a time while baby eats. I think that they > have actually called it the " family room " . > > my question is--what if you chose to nurse your baby as you walked around the store--would you then be asked to go into the family room? do they still try to make you take it out of sight, as if there's something wrong with it? now, i'm sure most states are different, but that's why i wa asking about CA law--in NY, i can nurse my child anywhere that i am legally allowed to be, if i can be there, then they can be there and they can eat if that's what they need to do--why do i need to go 'away' somewhere out of sight? i don't see people giving their kids a bottle being asked to go take their baby out of everyone's sight so it can eat...kwim? brigit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2001 Report Share Posted April 21, 2001 >my question is--what if you chose to nurse your baby as you walked around the >store--would you then be asked to go into the family room? do they still try >to make you take it out of sight, as if there's something wrong with it? >now, i'm sure most states are different, but that's why i wa asking about CA >law--in NY, i can nurse my child anywhere that i am legally allowed to be, if >i can be there, then they can be there and they can eat if that's what they >need to do--why do i need to go 'away' somewhere out of sight? i don't see >people giving their kids a bottle being asked to go take their baby out of >everyone's sight so it can eat...kwim? >brigit I wrote earlier that CA state law says we can BF anywhere we are legally allowed to be. Also, the IKEA letter states: " to ensure that any mother may freely nurse her child at any other location within the store. " HTH ZooNana (AIM and ICQ) Militant Lactivist Single, SAHM of 5 Breastfeeding, AP, baby wearing, no-vax custom buttons, keychains and more! http://come.to/zoobuttons Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2001 Report Share Posted April 22, 2001 In a message dated 4/21/01 5:42:58 AM Pacific Daylight Time, beebemcel@... writes: > , i'm sure most states are different, but that's why i wa asking about CA > I'm in CA and did nurse Trenton in a few stores - never got any funny looks or anything even sat once or twice on a bench in the middle of a mall, most times though I preferred to go into a fitting room to feed him - he used to flap around and make it all to Visible for my liking - I'm a little shy!! 8) Chelly San Diego, CA Mommy to Trenton 8/19/99 - No Shots! " Time may be a great healer, but it's a lousy beautician. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 www.mothering.com has the discussion of this issue. It was here, I believe, that the nurse in idea started. The discussion is somewhere on the breastfeeding forum. Re: Fw: IKEA's response letter does anyone know if the woman who was involved in this incident contacted her local newspaper and television studios? i know we had a similar incident here in NY (albany) last year and it was covered by the tv and newspapers. there was a nurse-in at the mall right outside the store who asked the woman to leave. the fact that IKEA had their lawyers handle the matter and offered her $250 in gift certif's, makes me wonder how worried they are about negative publicity?? i know she's probably not looking to start any trouble, but i just wonder what else can be done to make this a much bigger headache for IKEA? the bigger the impact is on them this time, the less likely they are to let it happen to anyone else again, kwim? also, does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 www.mothering.com has the discussion of this issue. It was here, I believe, that the nurse in idea started. The discussion is somewhere on the breastfeeding forum. Re: Fw: IKEA's response letter does anyone know if the woman who was involved in this incident contacted her local newspaper and television studios? i know we had a similar incident here in NY (albany) last year and it was covered by the tv and newspapers. there was a nurse-in at the mall right outside the store who asked the woman to leave. the fact that IKEA had their lawyers handle the matter and offered her $250 in gift certif's, makes me wonder how worried they are about negative publicity?? i know she's probably not looking to start any trouble, but i just wonder what else can be done to make this a much bigger headache for IKEA? the bigger the impact is on them this time, the less likely they are to let it happen to anyone else again, kwim? also, does anyone know the specific (CA) law that they were referring to in the letter? does it state that a woman has a right to breastfeed her child anywhere that she is legally allowed to be or does it state that there needs to be a specified place where she can go to feed her child? i mean, who wants to be shut away in a little dark, dirty room (ok--i'm speculating here, but probably attached to the public bathroom, i'm sure) to feed their kid? i'm just wondering if the law specifically states where you are allowed to breastfeed--is it anywhere or only in a designated place? it sounded like IKEA was saying that they would provide an " area " where she could go to nurse her child--how 'bout wherever the baby is hungry?? anyone know? brigit, in albany, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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