[Healthy Boundaries] [SelfTrustLoveHonor] The Care Taking Implant .::. Ezekiel through Joy Hefron

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The Care Taking Implant

Ezekiel through Joy Hefron

As compassionate human beings, healers and light workers, we all reach

out to assist others and to heal. In some ways, this is the positive

nature of humanity. As with any attribute, when it is out of balance

in our lives, it creates some very difficult lessons. Those of you who

work with me know, Ezekiel and I spend much time exposing unhealthy

and out of balance patterns. Over the past several months, including

my Equinox Yucatan Retreat and Peru, I have been immersed in mastering

the art of balanced giving as opposed to " care taking. "

Along with the " care taking " lesson goes honoring yourself first. For

example, when you are on an airplane that may be experiencing

difficulties, you place the oxygen mask on yourself first. After all,

you cannot assist anyone if you pass out from lack of oxygen or life

force. Yet, how many of us run around taking care of everyone else's

needs before our own? This is what Ezekiel has called, " The Care

Taking Implant. " Over the past ten days Ezekiel has been assisting me

with some very good guidelines and understandings, as humanity is now

ready to address this issue and shatter the block to create empowerment.

I hope you enjoy his discussion as much as I have. These beautiful

guidelines and understandings have certainly helped me integrate some

difficult lessons. How do we create a balance to provide healthy

assistance first to ourselves and then to those who we serve?

Ezekiel

Greeting my dear ones. It is I, Ezekiel, and I speak to you from your

own heart through the frequency of your emotional field. Long ago,

when the human DNA was altered for various reasons we won't address at

this moment, there was one specific adjustment that has kept humanity

out of balance and unhealthy emotionally ever since. It is difficult

to explain multidimensional concepts in your terms. I will do my best.

This crystal implant literally creates a vibratory pattern that

sends messages to your feminine aspect to " care take " or assist others

without regard to self.

In the feminine helix of your DNA on the etheric (4th dimensional

plane) there was implanted a crystal which encoded those aspects of

humans which are feminine (of course all humans have both male and

female aspects). This crystal implant literally creates a vibratory

pattern that sends messages to your feminine aspect to " care take " or

assist others without regard to self. For thousands of years your

societies and world have been affected by this pattern.

Now, due to the increased frequency your planet is being exposed to as

part of the evolutionary divine plane, this crystal implant is being

exposed and shattered to allow a new level of higher consciousness to

work through humanity. I realize that many of you reading this message

are " care givers. " As a vocation you have devoted your lives to

healing the pain and suffering that surround you. In order to shatter

the crystal that keeps you taking care of others in an out of balanced

way, I am offering guidelines to assist you as you create, new healthy

patterns of compassion out of the shattered remains of your impulse to

" save the world " at your own expens

As you know, you are all in earth school. You are here to learn your

lessons, feel your feelings and remember who you are as you step into

ascension. Your soul has a plan and provides a grid for all human

beings through this school. It is as if your soul is the schedule of

classes, teachers and institutions you have chosen to experience to

play out your role in the divine plan of ascension unfolding on earth.

Over years you can imagine how distorted this has become. This implant

now causes such confusion in the mind, that it is hard to know when

there is healthy giving and when there is a distortion.

Early on, your ego learned to activate this crystal " care taking "

implant. You discovered at an early age, that the more you helped

others, the more they loved you. This made you feel good and in

balance, it is beautiful. However, soon the feminine aspect (that is

why more females create this lesson than males although it is present

in some degree in both) found that by " care taking " others they would

not only feel good but also could manipulate and control their own

lessons to some extent. Over years you can imagine how distorted this

has become. This implant now causes such confusion in the mind, that

it is hard to know when there is healthy giving and when there is a

distortion. It goes back to the biblical story when Christ explained

that it is better to give someone a fishing rod then a fish. Far

better to receive the gifts that you can use to provide your

sustenance, then to be given the sustenance and become dependent. Here

are some gifts for your emotional toolbox to enjoy using and to teach

to others.

When you help some one in an " out of balanced " fashion, you take

away the lesson their soul had planned for them through a particular

difficulty and you deplete your own energy field. Balanced giving

enhances both!!!

Every time you give from your heart you send energy out to uplift and

assist. This is beautiful if: Someone has asked for your assistance

and you are in an uplifted and balanced place when you give.

So, I am giving to you this day several guidelines to use when your

ego is pulling you to " care take " and you are not sure it is balanced

for both you and the one you wish to help. When you help some one in

an " out of balanced " fashion, you take away the lesson their soul had

planned for them through a particular difficulty and you deplete your

own energy field. Balanced giving enhances both!!!

I am not talking of random acts of kindness here but entrenched

giving, usually to someone or group that is close to you. This often

times is family or close friends. In the case of spiritual healers, it

is often clients that suck their energy and keep them locked in this

pattern.

If you suspect you are stuck in an unhealthy " care taking " pattern put

the relationship to this test.

1. Are you energized or depleted after your interaction? If you are

tired or depleted your energy is being sucked and the exchange is not

healthy for either of you.

2. Do you find yourself unable to focus or listen to the person as

they share their problems with you? This is created by your higher

self attempting to block the drain. It is like placing a block on your

TV so your children cannot be exposed to unhealthy programs.

3. When the interaction is complete, do you feel you have received

as much as you have given? If not, you are giving for all the

unhealthy reasons.to be loved, not to be abandoned etc.

Feel your physical body during an interaction with a person you

suspect may be sucking on you.

4. Are you feeling heavy in solar plexus? Are you feeling

uncomfortable or frustrated? If so, your feelings are guiding you. Listen!

5. Where has this person honored you for your assistance? Feel in

your emotional body if you feel honored for your hard work. Be honest

here. The ego will try to convince you otherwise, but the truth of

your feelings will reveal the honest answer.

6. Are your desires being enhanced by this interaction or ignored

as you place the person you are assisting first? Remember the

explanation on the airplane my dear provided in the introduction.

Here is where the " care taking " implant and " honoring your self " go

hand-in -hand. When you assist others without honoring yourself and

your own inner child, you will find always a powerful lesson awaits

you. Just as any little child, your inner child wants to be loved and

paid attention to and if you ignore your child's needs, the child will

sabotage you in some way to get your attention. This is usual a

painful lesson of some type.

Once you have discovered if you are engaged in healthy or unhealthy

patterns of giving, take a moment to breathe the feelings of truth

into every cell of your body. Breathe deeply now and acknowledge what

you have uncovered. You will know beyond a shadow of doubt at this

point if you are being drained by the crystal " care taking " implant.

Now, how do you shatter this pattern and thus the etheric crystal

holding it in place? Remember, every time you put on the oxygen mask

first, you help not only yourself, but also everyone on the airplane

(all humanity).

This is where healthy personal boundaries come in. It is time for you

to pull the plug hooked into your energy field and energize yourself.

Do whatever is required of you to pull the plug and know that the

action may be shattering. This will usually involves a let go of some

relationship or form of that relationship to regain a healthy balance

for yourself. As with any pattern that is shattered, there will be

feelings of chaos and fears that arise for you to breathe into. Inner

child work can be most stabilizing here. Hold your inner child in your

heart and tell this child you wouldn't run to shut down the fear.

Together you will love each other through the chaos and changes that

arise from becoming healthy again. You can't grow a healthy garden in

the same old worn out plot! If you know it is time to make some

changes, just ask for guidance and give permission for your soul to

show you the open door. Rest assured, it will show itself sooner than

you think. Then it will be up to you to be clear and step through the

door. Walking through open doors that you know will create pain for

others is a difficult lesson unto itself and I will address that

further in the future.

I have enjoyed this opportunity to share and grow with all of you. If

ever you wish to work with me, simply close your eyes, breathe into

your heart, and feel me awake within you.

Ezekiel

Personal Story

Of course this one subject could lead to so much more. In the way of

integration, allow me to share a recent " care taking " implant story

with you from my own life. There are many and some of them over this

past year, have been deep and life changing. As I have stepped up to

the plate and begun to follow these guidelines in my everyday life, I

am thrilled with the outcome. This story is short and involves an

equine teacher that came into my life, my horse Mystic.

Over a year ago when Mark and I moved into El Shaddai I was able to

have a horse on my property. This has been a dream of mine since I was

a small child. Through my life I have been involved with horses at

many levels, but never had the opportunity to have one live with me!

WOW! So I asked Spirit to bring me the perfect horse for me. I asked

for a horse that was already trained, loved to ride the trials and

land waves of Iowa, that would be safe for me and not be needy of a

lot of my time.

The first horse that came my way was a beautiful black appaloosa with

a white blaze and white socks.very striking. My first ride with him

went well so I paid his owner half the money she was asking and

entered a 30 -day trail period. She had told me he had a serious

accident when he was much younger and sometimes he spooked. The first

week went well and I took several long rides with my friend Tiya and

her horse.

Soon, however, his emotional problems began to manifest. He also

required surgery for an old injury. I called his past owner and told

her that the horse wouldn't work out. She cried and said she would

have to send him to auction and asked me if she returned my deposit,

would I be willing to keep him and work with him.

Well, my ego stepped right in here. After all, I am an experienced

rider and an emotional healer. Spirit must have sent me this beautiful

horse to heal! (As I look back on this, it is almost funny how our

egos grab us and run with us).

Although I had many good rides with Mystic, I was also dumped four or

five times when ever he spooked and I could never trust enough to

saddle him up and enjoy the land of El Shaddai alone. You see, already

my " care taking Implant " was in charge. I was accepting a needy horse

relationship that drained me rather than the horse my inner child and

I so longed for..

Things went from bad to worse as the months went by. As the summer sun

shown down on our pasture, Mystic became more and more scary and

needy. Twice I tried to ride and he took off as I pulled myself up on

the saddle, injuring me both times! Finally I felt he may be in

physical pain and had the vet check him over. The vet told me he was

sound and healthy but not a safe horse and encouraged me to find

another horse. He said Mystic needed " a good old cowboy. " You see, I

had diverted him from his highest pathway with my " care taking " also.

This happened at the same time I am channeling the guidelines from

Ezekiel. Instead of honoring my desires to create the horse that would

serve me, my ego talked me into saving a beautiful horse from whatever

lessons he created for himself in this lifetime. All of the sudden, in

every cell in my body, I understood. I told Mystic it was time for him

to find his way. I am no longer his healer. He must learn to heal

himself. I am letting him go. He is for sale now if any of you know a

" good cowboy " . I am earnestly searching for the horse I originally

desired!

In my career as an emotional healer, I am most grateful to understand

this lesson at a cellular and emotional level now. I am appreciative

to have these wonderful guidelines from Ezekiel and I look forward to

growing with all of you in a happier and healthier way. I enjoyed

sharing with you and look forward to many more articles during these

changing times of ascension. I look forward to your feedback if you

are guided to share. Blessings on your journey. In Lak'Eck Joy

About the Channel

Joy

Joy is a writer, emotional life coach, and spiritual teacher who

lives in Mount Vernon, Iowa. She offers emotional healing retreats,

sacred journeys, and private sessions through her company,

Heartlights. Visit www.heartlights.net to find out more about

Joy and her work.